Thursday, April 21, 2016
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“You have heard that our ancestors were told, ‘You must not murder. If
you commit murder, you are subject to judgment.’ But I
say, if you are even angry with someone, you are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot, you are in
danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone, you are in
danger of the fires of hell. “So if you
are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly
remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice
there at the altar. Go and be reconciled
to that person. Then come and offer your
sacrifice to God. Matthew 5:21-24(NLT)
To forgive is to forego the right of revenge or
restitution for some damage done to you.
This kind of destructive behavior isn’t
particular to humans. Deer[2]
have been found dead of starvation because they stubbornly, angrily locked
horns and couldn’t disengage. Anger
kills!
Jesus said much in His teaching about heaven and
how to be right with God; He said much more about being right with each
other.
Jesus taught that living reconciled to God and people
was so vitally-important to life that he even put forgiving others and
receiving others’ forgiveness above
worship. He warned his disciples (and
us) to reconcile with others before going to church to praise God.
Contained in these few verses of our text are two
very important principles Jesus taught about forgiving that can change our
lives in every possible way:
1. Forgiveness: He said it’s everyone’s deepest need
It’s a “no-brainer” to hear in church that we
need to be forgiven by God; we have all sinned![3] It also doesn’t take much to remind us there
are some unkind people out there that need our forgiveness for the awful things
they’ve done to us.
But the rub usually comes when someone tries to
get us to see that we need their forgiveness. The real brawl comes when they have the
hubris to imply we need to apologize or ask for their forgiveness! The truth be told, each one of us has “blind
spots” about the ways that we have offended others.
And don’t forget that part concerning someone having
something against you…it works the other way too; when you have
something against someone else you’d better run from the altar to make it
right.
Offender or offendee, everybody needs forgiveness.
Decades ago I had a staff member whose spouse passed-along
a false rumor she’d heard about our family.
It deeply offended me. I wasn’t
angry; I was furious. Our lives were
turned upside down. I lit into my staff
member, my friend; families parted, estranged.
I thought I had worked through all the
anger. But several years ago as I was
reading an old book on this passage to prepare a sermon, an old picture of that
staff member fell out of the book. All
the feelings suddenly returned, and I knew immediately that I’d never really
asked him for forgiveness for taking out my anger on him. I made the call and two old men once again are
friends.
We all need to be forgiven, and we also need to extend
forgiveness; Jesus said so! We will look
at extending forgiveness tomorrow.
For You Today
Have you got “locked
horns” with someone?
[1] Title Image: Russell Brownworth (own work)
[2]
By Corwinhee (Own work),
via Wikimedia
Commons
[3] Romans 3:23, et al
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