Showing posts with label Absalom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Absalom. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Between Cain's Rock and a Hard Place

Wednesday, August 8, 2018
Two years later, when Absalom’s sheep were being sheared at Baal-hazor near Ephraim, Absalom invited all the king’s sons to come to a feast.  He went to the king and said, “My sheep-shearers are now at work.  Would the king and his servants please come to celebrate the occasion with me?”  The king replied, “No, my son.  If we all came, we would be too much of a burden on you.”  Absalom pressed him, but the king would not come, though he gave Absalom his blessing.  “Well, then,” Absalom said, “if you can’t come, how about sending my brother Amnon with us?”  “Why Amnon?” the king asked.  But Absalom kept on pressing the king until he finally agreed to let all his sons attend, including Amnon.  So Absalom prepared a feast fit for a king.  Absalom told his men, “Wait until Amnon gets drunk; then at my signal, kill him!  Don’t be afraid.  I’m the one who has given the command.  Take courage and do it!”  So at Absalom’s signal they murdered Amnon.  Then the other sons of the king jumped on their mules and fled.  As they were on the way back to Jerusalem, this report reached David:  “Absalom has killed all the king’s sons; not one is left alive!”  The king got up, tore his robe, and threw himself on the ground. His advisers also tore their clothes in horror and sorrow.  2 Samuel 13:23-31(NLT)
What a story line; Amnon and Absalom are brothers, sons of King David.  Tamar is their sister, who has been raped by her own brother, Amnon, and the other brother, Absalom is itching for revenge.  He dupes his father, the king, into signing off on a party to celebrate the shearing of sheep.  But it’s only a ruse to get Amnon in a vulnerable state (drunk as a skunk) so he can have him killed. 
(Incidentally, is it my imagination, or did Absalom learn this thing from his dad about having others do his dirty work?  David had Bathsheba’s innocent husband, Uriah, murdered by one of his generals[2].  It looks like Absalom is carrying on the family tradition.)
As king, David found himself between Cain’s rock and Adam’s hard place; one son had killed the other, and now David would have to charge the other son with murder.  Brother kills brother; nothing has changed in thousands of years since Cain killed Abel. 
In war, whether it is between countries, families, or even friends, we tend to remember the details in terms of who won.  This is just another nail in the coffin of the fallen human nature common to each soul.  There are no winners in a war; there is only destruction. 
We see the wars of Cain’s rock-throwing every day.  If you have trouble believing that, just get on the Interstate this morning as people are scurrying to get to work.  Many drivers would kill to get just one car length ahead.  The plot thickens as the day lengthens.
We also see the hard place of David in the severing of relationships caused by all the daily in-your-face attitudes that declare what’s mine is mine and I’ll light you up if you get near it – and what’s yours is mine if there’s some way I can get it!
Now…while the story line of David’s family, with all its lust, murder, cover-ups and political investigations is a sad commentary on what became of a courageous shepherd-boy who became a king because he had a heart for God…the news is not all bad.  Despite the carnage to the family’s tranquility and stability, grace did enter the picture.  It took a thousand years, and didn’t happen in the throne room or palace of Jerusalem, but rather in a cattle feeder a few miles away a great-grandson of David’s would bring healing for every murderer, saboteur, philanderer, prostitute, and thief. 
It is said you can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear, and that the leopard cannot change spots, and, if the blood is bad, the behavior will be worse. But, while there was nothing else in David’s family that turned out very well, when God took on human flesh through that family name, nothing but good came from the cross on which they hung him!
For You Today
When you find yourself between the rock and a hard place, look around for the cross.  Jesus knows his way around the tough spots.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day. 

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[1] Title Image:  Courtesy of Pixabay.com
[2] See 2 Samuel 11

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

A Clearer Picture

Tuesday, December 12, 2017
He has brought down princes from their thrones and exalted the humble.          Luke 1:52(NLT)
It has become agonizingly clearer in recent months just how deeply our culture is stained with Sodom and Gomorrah’s legacy.  Public figures are dropping like raindrops in a monsoon.  Just the tip of the iceberg is a list of the most well-known:
Politics:  Al Franken, Anita Hill (Clarence Thomas), Anthony Weiner, Roy Moore, and not to be forgotten, Presidents Bill Clinton and Donald Trump.
Hollywood: Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, Dustin Hoffman, Bill O’Reilly, Matt Lauer
Education:  USC Medical School dean, Rohit Varma
Sports:  Mike Tyson, Jerry Sandusky (Penn State assistant coach who was convicted of molesting 10 boys over 15 years and is now in prison for 30-60 years)
Religion:  Jimmy Swaggert, Jim Bakker, Catholic Church priests, Ted Haggard
In most all of these cases, payoffs for the silence of the victims have been common.  This, unfortunately, turns a crime into de facto prostitution. 
It is without doubt impossible (in the space of a four-minute devotion) to trace the evolution of a society along the dark path of the powerful exploiting less-powerful individuals; how we got here is a long discussion.  And where do we go from here might be an even longer discussion.
But there is something we can say about this point in time to at least start the discussion; this is a path to which every generation has opened the door.
There are many Biblical passages that bear out the proclivity of the stronger abusing the weaker.  One particularly revealing incident is in 2 Samuel 13 which records the scheming of Jonadab and Absalom, two of King David’s relatives, so that Absalom could satisfy his lust and rape his relative Tamar.  May we not forget that David himself, with his lustful desire towards another man’s wife (Bathsheba) set a clear example for Absalom that he could have whatever he wanted.
From King David’s palace to Hugh Hefner’s Playboy mansion, God’s purely wonderful gift of sex has been abused, perverted and exploited.  It has also brought down empires and their rulers. 
In my opinion, the (so-called) sexual revolution of the 1960’s was not a revolution at all; it was merely the revelation, or coming-out of what has been mankind’s illness since the Garden of Eden.  The book of James describes it well:
Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away.  These desires give birth to sinful actions.  And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.  
James 1:14-15(NLT)
The current flurry of powerful men (in particular) being brought down by accusations of sexual harassment is the endemic and epidemic harvest we are reaping from generations of sexuality being misunderstood and abused. 

And who’s to blame?

Men bear responsibility for objectifying women as sexual property, and women bear responsibility for pandering to the lust of men in order to get what they want.  That, in no way, represents God’s original intent for the beauty of the mutual giving sexuality affords within the context of monogamous marriage.
When we go outside of God’s plan the results are always disastrous.

For You Today

God never gave lust as a gift; that grows as a result of sin.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road…have a blessed day!

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[1] Title Image: Courtesy of Pixabay.com