Showing posts with label Addictions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Addictions. Show all posts

Monday, October 7, 2019

Life & Death Tightrope

Tuesday, October 8, 2019

Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has become a child of God.  And everyone who loves the Father loves his children, too.  We know we love God’s children if we love God and obey his commandments.  Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome.  For every child of God defeats this evil world, and we achieve this victory through our faith.  And who can win this battle against the world?  Only those who believe that Jesus is the Son of God.  1 John 5:1-5

We know that God’s children do not make a practice of sinning, for God’s Son holds them securely, and the evil one cannot touch them.  We know that we are children of God and that the world around us is under the control of the evil one.  And we know that the Son of God has come, and he has given us understanding so that we can know the true God.  And now we live in fellowship with the true God because we live in fellowship with his Son, Jesus Christ.  He is the only true God, and he is eternal life.  Dear children, keep away from anything that might take God’s place in your hearts.  1 John 5:18-21

Habit determines everything.  
Habitually practicing the art of couch potato-ing can result in heart disease, or a guest appearance on a segment of My 600-Pound Life.  Habits set the pathway of our life’s decisions.  The apostle, John is giving sound spiritual advice to the church of how forming our life around obedience to God’s commandments is the pathway that leads to life. 
On first reading many people are tempted to imagine this obedience thing as walking a tightrope suspended over hell’s fires; one slip and you’re toast!  However, that would be inconsistent with God’s grace and patience.  God knows us and understands better than we do that when it comes to being perfect in our obedience we slip off a rope like that.  We see that in the apostle’s description of both sin and obedience; he points us in the direction of habituation, making a practice of either.  A well-practiced habit becomes our default, part of our character, who we really are.  A slip-up is an aberration, a setback from the path we really want to travel.  John is making the case that true belief in Christ, trusting Christ and relying on His power for every need and every shortcoming, is not only possible, it is part of God’s promise.  And what it looks like in everyday living is forming habits.  The person that wants more strength for living a life of obedience forms the habit of meditating on God’s Word.  A person who wants greater strength resisting temptation of any kind forms the habit of prayer, fasting, and removing themselves from the source of temptations. 
One of my mother’s favorite sayings was you lie down with dogs; you get up with fleas.  John’s whole case about being obedient to God’s commands is that we must make the choice where we will stand, and it must be peremptory; the first time we decide to cuddle up to the fleas of sin will be merely the first step in setting the habitual practice.  We warn our children about taking the first pill, or drink, or tobacco product so they will not get caught in the addictive downward spiral that affects their health.  We use parental controls on media to monitor their internet time and what content they view to protect them from the downward pull of pornography and violence.  Should we do less for our children and ourselves when it comes to spiritual health?
For You Today
A healthy spiritual practice is to habitually examine our habits; look at the things we do regularly with an eye towards answering the question:  is this what God wants my life to look like?
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image:  Adi Holzer via WikimediaCommons    Unless noted, Scripture used from The New Living Translation©

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Drunkard Road

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life.  Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit,  Ephesians 5:18 (NLT)

If you’re driving along Route 360, about 30 miles south of Richmond, VA, you’ll pass Drunkard Road.  I can’t imagine what they were thinking.
As I had a long drive ahead of me there was plenty of time to ponder what kind of mind would come up with a name like Drunkard Road?  Almost certainly it wasn’t a real estate broker who named that street.  After all, cute is cute, but a name like that can’t do much for property values.  Living on a street reserved for “drunkards” conjures up pictures of staggering, sloppy and obnoxious.
As I re-read the last sentence (to see how it would sound) I was gripped with fear that the sensitivity-police might come and lock me up.  So let me disclose that I am in complete and compassionate solidarity with those attempting to find release from the bondage of alcoholism.  I also stand with other sinners of all kinds who despise their sin and wish to break the chains of addiction.  This includes liars, gluttons, abusers, sexual sinners, thieves and all the rest you can name. 
I condemn no person (that’s above my pay grade); I’m a fellow-sinner seeking forgiveness and cleansing.  However, having said that, I am fully inclined and committed to naming sin as sin.  Staggering, sloppy and obnoxious behavior follows drunkenness as surely as mold comes from standing water. 
But the important distinction here is the difference between behavior and trap.  Addiction is the “trap” that cripples an addicted person.  Tobacco, alcohol and other addictive substances have chemicals that trap or bind a person’s nervous system as well as their thoughts and emotions.  There’s little room left for choice.  That’s why Scripture warns against “drunkenness” of any kind – it muddies the waters of free choice.  It takes away the freedom to choose wisely, one of the characteristics which define our symbiosis with God’s image. 
Behavior is what we choose to do.  And choosing to associate oneself with addiction is never a smart, Godly choice.  It’s like living on Drunkard Road; you might not be one, but you’re flirting with it.  And, like my (and your) Mother used to say – when you lie close to the dog, you’re going to get up with fleas.
Now, having stated the obvious in several ways up to this point, let me cut to the chase:
It is fruitless and unkind to blame or condemn people caught in the trap of addiction.  They need help out of the trap.
It is just as foolish, if not sinful to remain silent when loved ones are on the verge of behavior that will land them in the trap. They need a strong warning to stay out of the trap.

For You, Today

Got a loved one who’s flirting with the trap, or in the trap?
Are you flirting with the trap, or in it?
Scripture warns….Loving people help

See how God provides all we need?