Showing posts with label Exodus 20:4-6. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Exodus 20:4-6. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Legacy of Love

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

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“You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea.  You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods.  I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected—even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me.  But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love me and obey my commands.  Exodus 20:4-6(NLT)

Most people consider placing judgment for sins done by parents on the children, grandchildren, and, even great-grandchildren as being somewhat unfair on God’s part.  However, when you stack that against the thousand generations of “unfailing love” (covenant blessings) for the obedient, you rarely get a lifted eyebrow.

In the reality of interpretation department – the verse actually means that the effects of the sins affect generations.  A drunk in the family can cause bankruptcy which may take the family generations to dig out from under.  Same with being the child of a murderer, and trying to have a decent reputation.

But using this verse to blame God for stuff we bring on ourselves is very convenient! 



It’s pretty typical of human nature that, when things are going well, and we are getting what we want – well, it’s just fine and dandy!  But if we get taken to the woodshed (and God really only does that when we’ve been especially bratty), we consider the system to be rigged and we are the poor victim; we sing our lament:  God, how could you do that to me; how can you be so unfair? 

Well, ain’t life hard!

Now consider the way God really does business with his human children:

The ratio here between God handing out disciplinary judgment and God showering undeserved blessings on us is a whopping 4/1000, or eighty years (3-4 generations) of judgment compared to 20,000 years (1,000 generations) of blessing.

Actually…it’s an even wider gap than that, because the 3-4 generations is specific, while the number 1,000 is sometimes interpreted as without ceasing.  So God could be talking about eighty years versus eternity!

Listen to what one of God’s choicest children said about all that:

Put your hope in the Lord.  Travel steadily along his path.  He will honor you by giving you the land.  You will see the wicked destroyed.  I have seen wicked and people flourishing like a tree in its native soil.  But when I looked again, they were gone!  Though I searched for them, I could not find them!  Look at those who are honest and good, for a wonderful future awaits those who love peace.  But the rebellious will be destroyed; they have no future.     Psalm 37:34-38 (NLT)

For You Today


The bedrock reality of the comparison of God’s judgment and blessing is that God is much more willing to bless his children than curse them.  Truth be told, the Father is rooting for our best; I’ve seen his refrigerator door, and your pictures are all over it!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today…and have a blessed day!



[1] Title Image:   Rembrandt [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Sins of the Father

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

“You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea.  You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods.  I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected—even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me.  But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love me and obey my commands.                     Exodus 20:4-6 (NLT)

Have you ever heard a child whine, “It’s just not fair!”?  Every parent has heard these words since the Garden of Eden.  And when you read today’s verses something inside you still says it – how could God blame ME for something somebody else did?
Volumes have been written on this subject, but the short answer is:  He Doesn’t!  The Prophet Ezekiel tells us we are judged for our own sins:

The person who sins is the one who will die.  Ezekiel 18:4 (NLT)

And yet….you cannot dump Exodus’ sins of the parents in the trash heap; so what does it mean?  What is it about our parents’ sins that get laid at the feet of the children?  And is that at all fair?
Interstate-85 provided me a graphic and sobering view of the weight of sins passed-along. 
While traveling to our daughter’s house on vacation last week, we were slowed to a crawl by
the scene of a wreck outside of Charlotte.  It was scary.  One car was mashed and bent, upside-down, straddling the ditch.  The other car had jumped the ditch and wrapped itself around a tree.  I don’t see how anyone could have escaped alive.
But if all occupants of the vehicles died on the spot, the suffering didn’t end there.  It is probable that there are many family members connected to whoever was in those automobiles.  Most of them are in shock and grieving tonight.  
This is the nature of cause and effect.  A so-called personal decision we make affects more than just ourselves.  Our decisions are like tossing stones in a lake – the ripples go outward in every direction.
While not all accidents are the result of sin, a high percentage of them involve foolish (read that selfish) choices; on the highway that translates to following too closely, high rate of speed, texting while driving – and more.
While the accidents, loss of life and property are obvious prices we pay for some bad choices, there are a myriad of other costs.  And they are generally laid at the feet of the children.
When God pointed to the sins of the fathers laid on the life of the children, He was not describing a legal punishment – he was sounding the alarm of poor choices.  The passage is about keeping focused on God and not worshiping the falseness of self.  Worshiping God leads to blessing; selfishness takes you to the ditch…along with generations who come behind us who will have to grieve over our selfish choices.

For You, Today

The opposite of having the weight of bad decisions laid on your descendants is to love and obey God.  That brings blessings to celebrate!

That’s a good choice!