What Will Make General Conference a Holy Conference?

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Thursday, May 12, 2016

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Then the angel who had been talking with me returned and woke me, as though I had been asleep.  “What do you see now?” he asked.  I answered, “I see a solid gold lampstand with a bowl of oil on top of it.  Around the bowl are seven lamps, each having seven spouts with wicks.  And I see two olive trees, one on each side of the bowl.”  Then I asked the angel, “What are these, my lord?  What do they mean?”  “Don’t you know?” the angel asked.  “No, my lord,” I replied.  Then he said to me, “This is what the Lord says to Zerubbabel:  It is not by force nor by strength, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies.  Nothing, not even a mighty mountain, will stand in Zerubbabel’s way; it will become a level plain before him!  And when Zerubbabel sets the final stone of the Temple in place, the people will shout:  ‘May God bless it!  May God bless it!’”    Zechariah 4:1-7^(NLT)

Zerubbabel was to build the temple.  Opposition and infighting over such an endeavor were to be expected.  But God gave Zechariah a vision of a golden bowl, seven lamps and two olive trees as a message of hope.  The bowl, representing God’s temple, was flanked on either side by olive trees.

For me, this morning, those olive trees represent the possibilities of my Methodist brothers and sisters extending branches of peace and holy worship before God, instead of the kind of vitriol and arrogance we’ve seen in recent years.

General Conference is in day #3 (of 10) today.  For my non-Methodist friends, General Conference is the legislative body of the world-wide United Methodist Church.  It is something like the U.S. Congress, as the nearly 800 delegates elected around the world gather to consider how we Wesleyan Christians will connect with each other and the world, for the sake of Christ’s kingdom.   The proposed agenda is 175 pages long!

As other church entities have experienced, so the United Methodist Church will (again) struggle with extremely controversial issues…mostly concerning human sexuality and what the church’s response to this ripple in God’s universe of a teapot might be.

The term “holy conferencing” is sometimes an oxymoron for Methodist gatherings.  It has been so recently, with sit-ins and disruptive, antagonistic behavior. 

My prayer, certainly, is that this quadrennial meeting’s tone might be somewhat better than we have seen on the presidential campaign’s stump trail, but the pre-conference rumblings have about guaranteed that the sharpening of swords and rhetoric are going to produce more media sound bites than holy agreement.

Lord, have mercy!

Perhaps the people of Wesleyan heritage have not learned the lesson Zechariah delivered so long ago, that is not by the power of swords, shouting and invective accusations that we accomplish God’s will; it is not by the might of lobby, focus groups and agenda PAC’s that we create the kingdom – it is by HIS SPIRIT that the church obeys and serves her Lord.

Whether you are a Methodist or go by another label, I invite you to pray for us as we attempt to find God’s way in the morass of cultural shift and prideful attitudes; it seems like we’re in for a long ten days.

For You Today

Help spread the word:  There are olive branches in those olive trees! 

Pray that Methodists – and Christians everywhere – will break one off and hand it across that Golden Bowl to the other side.

Maybe we will find a fresh fire of Pentecost to light our way.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today…have a blessed day!

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Avoiding Conversation is No Way to Advance the Debate

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Thursday, June 25, 2015

Today’s Rocky Road Devotion welcomes fellow clergy and friend, Rev. Drew McIntyre, a United Methodist pastor who blogs at “Uniting Grace”.  What follows is what Rev. McIntyre posted on June 24, 2015.[2]

JUNE 24, 2015 | DREW MCINTYRE |

How [to] have the conversations that matter most? Like many things in life, most of it is just showing up.

We United Methodists just came through Annual Conference season; this is the yearly gathering of United Methodists in a given region, represented by clergy and laity, where budgets are set, legislation debated, and an array of training, lectures, studies, worship, and mission opportunities are offered. Here in Western North Carolina, we had an interesting afternoon at Annual Conference (AC) last Friday. Let me explain.

We voted on two pieces of legislation on that afternoon. The first of these, from our Justice & Reconciliation team, asked the Bishop to form a team to begin a series of holy conversations around controversial topics in the UMC (the unstated chief of which centers around questions of sexuality). A couple of laity spoke against this measure, trotting out some pretty unsophisticated arguments for why this should be a settled question, but all in all it passed easily.

Next up was a proposal that has been attempted at all of our recent Annual Conferences in recent memory: a petition to ask the General Conference to change the language about sexuality in our denominational rules, the collection of which is called the Book of Discipline. Over a dozen ACs passed similar petitions this year, none of which are binding, because only the General Conference (meeting every four years) speaks for the whole church.

Here’s where things got interesting. As soon as this petition was introduced, a pastor from one of our Reconciling Ministries Network (a caucus that advocates for changes in UM policy) churches asked for a suspension of the rules to move toward an immediate vote. This was approved, and we began the painstaking process of voting, which took a while because we had to be counted by hand as we stood to either vote for, against, or abstain.

A friend of mine, afterwards, asked a question to the Bishop which I had myself wondered (and tweeted): 

I’m still not sure of the motivations behind the motion to go straight to a vote. It may have been that the sponsors thought they had a better chance of ‘winning’ without the debate, or that the discussion would be offensive (most of my friends’ responses to my tweet indicated the latter concern). But regardless, it was a strange juxtaposition. Conversations do not become easier by avoiding them. Even unpleasant comments (of which we hear too many at AC, as we did last year) are helpful, in that they tell us how much more work remains in advancing the conversation. This general trend towards avoiding difficult or painful dialogue is troubling. Our society has become so dominated by the therapeutic mindset that sometimes it seems that even hearing an alternative or critical view of something is considered damaging. Should we be concerned about the prevalence of such rhetorical moves?

Hanna Rosin argued in The Atlantic,

“A proper argument takes intellectual vigor, nimbleness, and sustained attention. If carried on long enough, it can push both parties to a deeper level of understanding. Oxford debaters hack away at each other for something like two hours. Socrates could sometimes go on for weeks. But who has that kind of time anymore? Better to just shut things down quickly, using one of a new array of trump cards.

Want to avoid a debate? Just tell your opponent to check his privilege. Or tell him he’s slut‑shaming or victim‑blaming, or racist, or sexist, or homophobic, or transphobic, or Islamophobic, or cisphobic, or some other creative term conveying that you are simply too outraged by the argument to actually engage it. Or, on the other side of the coin, accuse him of being the PC thought police and then snap your laptop smugly.

In the art of debate avoidance, each political camp has honed a particular style. Conservatives generally aim for the prenup approach, to preempt any messy showdowns. If you want to join the club, then you have to sign a contract or make a pledge—no new taxes, no abortions, no gay marriage—and thereafter recite from a common script. Progressives indulge a shouting match of competing identities that resembles an argument but is in fact the opposite, because its real aim is to rule certain debates out of bounds.”

I recall an interview (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpQHGPGejKs) with N.T. Wright, the retired Anglican bishop and eminent New Testament scholar, in which he was asked about the same‑sex marriage debate. His comment was telling: “Our problem at the moment is that we aren’t having the debate, we are simply having bits and pieces of a shouting match.”

Too often we are content with “bits and pieces of a shouting match” rather than deep engagement. Whether it is about sexuality, doctrine, race, liturgics, immigration, or creation care, too often we Christians fall into the world’s ways of doing – or, in this case, avoiding – things. We can do better. But it requires a commitment on all parties to a) a hermeneutic of charity, b) arguing against ideas and not people, and c) dedicating ourselves to hearing the best version of the opposing view, and not merely extreme examples or straw men easily dismissed.

In the church and in our national conversation, it is always easier to retreat into echo‑chambers, eschewing critics and alternative viewpoints. The gnostic church of our own imaginations is always a neater, less challenging place than the flesh‑and‑blood church of Jesus Christ. But maturity doesn’t come by disengagement. I’ll let Rosin have the last word – a word of warning about this cultural malaise:

“The tactic has lately proved surprisingly effective, but it comes with a high cost…empathy, or humility, or actually hearing out your opponents.”

For You Today

Advance the conversation….listen!

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[2] Uniting Grace