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Tuesday, December 20, 2022

When Power Makes You Nervous

Tuesday, December 20, 2022

When people do not accept divine guidance, they run wild.  But whoever obeys the law is joyful.  Proverbs 29:18

I must admit that I have never understood the obsession underlying power.  Personally, it has always made me quite nervous to be in the company of those who wield the kind of strength of presidents, governors, and other influential positions.  Those who lead bear a considerable weight of responsibility for the well-being of others.  It is an inherently-unselfish calling.  The fly in the ointment of the democratic system of choosing leaders who are perceived as strong-enough to do well, is that politics is a magnet for the best and worst of motives.

In an article[1] reflecting on the state of world affairs, published earlier this year by Princeton University professor, Jonathan Gold, calling for (at a minimum) mandatory psychological testing of candidates for public office, Gold trotted out the elephant in the rebel room, concerning the two most powerful leaders who should never have been elected by sane people:

At the extreme end of the scale are the symptoms associated with anti-social personality disorder (ASPD), which ought to be out of bounds for an elected official but read to the untrained like a character description of Donald Trump or Vladimir Putin.

This devotional blog is not a blatant political tool, rather a purveyor of Godly advice from the Scriptures.  What Solomon said about God’s guidance as the life-giving need for any nation, is precisely what leaders Putin and Trump ignore, in favor of ascribing all knowledge and power to their own imaginations.  It is often quoted that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.  And if that is true, it removes (by definition) any hope of governance without corruption; the lone exemption is the one, true, living God. 

For You Today  

If your children and grandchildren are the hope of the next generation of leaders for this world, better teach them by example to be humble and honor God.  Otherwise those who live in those generations and beyond are going to be bound to the same human foolishness of the current times, thinking we have all the answers, yet having no vision at all.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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   Stubborn to the Bitter End and Without Vision Nations Crumble

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Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©  

Monday, December 2, 2019

Lies That Kill Series #3 - To Be Free You Have to Break-Free

So far in our series we have seen two lies:
Lie #1 is false teaching itself, false ideas and doctrines that can destroy us, or which can be destroyed by a pure heart when God forgives sin, and clears our conscience, and helps us be committed to a genuine faith in Jesus Christ.
Lie #2 is found in a currently popular saying:  I’ve gotta love me first.  Jesus says in response:  listen to the commandments of God and love Him first, others also, and don’t worry about yourself so much; God will take care of you.
Lie #3 which we explore this morning is that the only way you can find fulfillment in life is by breaking-away from any restraints that God (or anyone else) tries to place on you.  To that Jesus says:  Go ahead and dig your heels in against me; what you’ll find is more emptiness than you ever imagined.
I want to share two stories to illustrate what this lie is like, and what it means to rebuke this lie and experience the truth of real freedom.  Both stories are set in London, England; the first is about the Queen’s husband, and is a true story.  The second is fantasy about a cab driver. 
The Queen’s Husband

Phillip is 98 years old and married to the U.K.’s Queen Elizabeth.  My own Queen Elizabeth (no relation) and I have been binge-watching The Crown on Netflix; season 3 had an eye-opening look at Phillip, Duke of Edinburgh’s life.
For more than 60 years Phillip has played second fiddle to the Crown’s wishes and instructions.  His days are filled with delivering meaningless speeches at the grand openings of restaurants, dental clinics and coal miner’s union gatherings.  Inbetween those monumental accomplishments are polo matches, yachts, whiskey and sports cars.  As a jet-certified pilot the Queen’s husband longed to be what Buzz Aldren, Neil Armstrong, and Michael Collins lived…a moon-walking adventurer seeking the highest of experiences possible to the human being.  In short, the Queen’s husband was a bored and angry man, who, after meeting the three astronauts in 1969 following their historic first-ever footsteps on another celestial body, added emptiness and despair to his repetoire, because he found out they were no closer to understanding the meaning of life than he.

Ultimately it was the despair that drove Phillip to seek help from Bishop Robin Woods, and, in time, rediscovered faith in God.  This led the Duke on a lifelong journey of soul-searching and humanitarian endeavor.  In his early arrogance Phillip felt trapped by the monarchy ordering even the smallest step of his days; he pushed God far from his heart and mind, and longed to break-free and really live.  When finally broken by despair and a sense of meaninglessness in life, he confessed his need and was found by God.  Life’s meaning was not out there above some cloud; it was (in his words) in here (head) and here (heart)!  He didn’t have to break-free; brokenness revealed the Son who could set him free, indeed.
The Cabbie’s Trip
Our second story comes from the rich mind of C.S. Lewis, author of The Chronicles of Narnia.  There are 7 novels in all, the first, and perhaps most widely known is The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe.  Narnia is a mystical, magical, fictional place which most fans of Lewis imagine represents God’s Kingdom.  Lewis wrote these stories to stir the fantasy-receptive minds of children.  I love re-reading them!  (Don’t tell anyone).
The final book in the series is The Magician’s Nephew, which starts in London, but quickly moves via teleportation to  Narnia.  The nephew is Diggory, and…
After the witch causes havoc in London, Polly and Diggory manage to get her back into one of the magical worlds (Narnia) which is formed moments after they arrive. However, whilst transporting themselves and the witch, they also transport their uncle and a cab driver (cabby) who Aslan makes the first ever king of Narnia.[2]
Here’s how Lewis describes Cabby’s meeting with Aslan, the lion, who is by all accounts the undisputed representation of Jesus in the story:
“In the darkness something was happening at last.  A voice had begun to sing…Its lower notes were deep enough to be the voice of the earth herself….It was so beautiful we could hardly bear it…One moment there had been nothing but darkness; next moment a thousand, thousand points of light leaped out – single stars, constellations, and planets, brighter and bigger than any in our world…
‘Glory be!’  Said the Cabby.  ‘I’d ha’ been a better man all my life if I’d known there were things like this’…
They made you feel excited; until you saw the singer himself, and then you forgot everything else.  It was a Lion.  Huge, shaggy, and bright, it stood facing the risen sun.  Its mouth was wide open in song and it was about three hundred yards away…The lion was striding to and fro about that empty land and singing his new song.  It was softer and more lilting than the song by which he had called up the stars and the sun; a gentle, rippling music.  And as he walked and sang the valley grew green with grass.  It spread out for the Lion like a pool.  It ran up the sides of the little hills like a wave.  In a few minutes it was creeping up the lower slopes of the distant mountains, making that young world every moment softer.  A light wind could now be heard ruffling the grass. Soon there were other things besides grass…”[3]
Conclusion
Two stories and one conclusion, which the Apostle John wrote long before C.S. Lewis ever held a pen:
So if the Son sets you free, you are truly free.  John 8:36
The Queen’s husband, Phillip had to see there was nothing over the next cloud’s end that was worth seeing until he first opened his heart to see what God wanted to give him.  Only then was he a fit vessel for the great humanitarian and spiritual work God was able to do through him since that time.
Phillip got set free by the Son of God, and he was free indeed.
While Phillip was married to a queen, and would himself never be a king, Cabby had never even been close to a king.  A nobody, just a poor cab-driver from the inner city of London is taken by surprise to Narnia.  And, staring into a thousand points of light, hearing the song of the King of Kings, his heart is opened to the sound of grace.  And when grace lands in your heart and soul in full force there is no stopping what it can do with the rest of you!
Aslan made the nobody cabby the first-ever king of Narnia.  This is the upside-downness of Jesus the Son, and the way His grace sets people free. 
And this table is a place where that grace abounds for whosoever will come.
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit…Amen!


[1] Title Image: Pixabay.com.    All Scripture from The New Living Translation (unless otherwise stated) 
[2] Answers.com  Narnia images courtesy of WikimediaCommons.com
[3] (The Magician’s Nephew) - photo credit “sarahrichterart” (pixabay).


Friday, January 31, 2014

I Find Your Lack of Faith Disturbing



Friday, January 31, 2014
No wonder you can’t believe!  For you gladly honor each other, but you don’t care about the honor that comes from the one who alone is God.          John 5:44 (NLT)

Calvin, the obnoxious five year-old, who often pontificates his thoughts on life and the universe to his stuffed tiger, Hobbes, is a monumentally-self absorbed narcissist.  The world, according to Calvin, does not revolve around the sun; the world revolves around Calvin!

Calvin has some company in this world.  Even in the church pulpit (and pew).The context of Jesus’ statement about the inability to believe, is when the religious
leaders were seeking a way to kill him.  They rejected Jesus’ claim to be the Son of God.  They didn’t believe in him, so, essentially they rejected God.  Unbelief!

Jesus told the religious leaders their main problem was their position.  Not that being a leader was (or is) wrong; organizations, even religious ones, need leaders to help keep focus on the group’s purpose.  In this case, the religious leaders’ main focus was to help people have faith in God and serve God’s greater Kingdom purposes.

But these leaders were self-centered, pride-filled, and it blocked their view of God.  They loved the admiration and respect their office commanded; it gave them a sense of power over the followers.  They loved the honor and preeminence their position gave in the community, but they missed the point entirely, that such pride was eating their ability to worship like cancer of the soul.

I call it “ministerial discount”.

I’ve been offered everything from clothing at 40% off, to free rounds of golf, just because it was known I’m a minister.  When I was new to the ministry I suspected at first that there was something not quite right about trading on ministerial credentials.  But, needing clothes, and liking golf, I gratefully accepted.  

I still like golf.  I began despising dress clothes when I retired.

But, I stopped (a long time ago) letting merchants know I’m a minister, until after the purchase is completed.  If God is my priority, keeping him clearly in view cannot be bought for the price of a three piece suit.

You and I, Calvin, were not put on this planet to be serene as we accumulate material things, accolades of others, or have everything done for us!

Man’s chief end and work is to love God and enjoy Him forever.  That’s hard to do when you’re hunting praise from people.

Today

Is there anything blocking your faith, your view and desire for God?
Now would be a good time to deal with that!




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