Showing posts with label Obituary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Obituary. Show all posts

Monday, June 15, 2020

Telling the Story

 
Monday, June 15, 2020
Psalm 105:37-45

The Lord brought his people out of Egypt, loaded with silver and gold; and not one among the tribes of Israel even stumbled.  Egypt was glad when they were gone, for they feared them greatly.  The Lord spread a cloud above them as a covering and gave them a great fire to light the darkness.  They asked for meat, and he sent them quail; he satisfied their hunger with manna—bread from heaven.  He split open a rock, and water gushed out to form a river through the dry wasteland.  For he remembered his sacred promise to his servant Abraham.  So he brought his people out of Egypt with joy, his chosen ones with rejoicing.  He gave his people the lands of pagan nations, and they harvested crops that others had planted.  All this happened so they would follow his decrees and obey his instructions.  Praise the Lord!

If you’ve ever slowly walked through a graveyard, taking the time and thoughtful tour, you’ve also come away wondering about the rest of the story of the lives that lay buried there.  You wonder what it was like to be that person, what joys, pains, sorrows and good times are also interred beneath the stone in the cold earth.  I’ve seen a few lengthy epistles on a few headstones that tried to get as much of the story as possible carved in stone.  But how can you get a person’s life summarized in 100 words or less, or, for that matter, in 1,000 pages?
That was the opener for the conversation between my best friend and me several days ago.  We were headed for yet another doctor’s appointment, and the pensive question bit into the silence as we drove; how can you tell a person’s entire story?  Of course, being the professional clergy in the conversation, my stock answer came tumbling out before I even considered; nobody can tell another’s story – we write our own obituary with the way we live, every thought, action, relationship, gift, and conversation.  Our conversation lasted all the way to Winston.
And then the Psalmist showed up in today’s lection, Israel’s epitaph:  Every bit of what happened was so Israel would obey God’s laws and will.  And, doesn’t that put meat on the bones of captivity, bondage, suffering, plagues, Passover, wilderness, and all the story since Eden?  Doesn’t it sum up the story of humankind from the very moment of creation?  God, the loving Creator and parent of us all, did everything with us to lead us to Him, His will, and a relationship with Him!
I have considered my bride’s question since the moment it pierced the quiet ride we were having, and it led my mind back to when I was 19 and my Dad had that conversation with me as I was getting ready to leave my parent’s home and form a new household with Elizabeth.  Dad only told me two things, the first being when the difficult times came. those would be ours to work out; the leaving and cleaving clause in those marriage vows meant accepting responsibility and the work necessary to making a marriage last and also count.  The second thing Dad told me was like the Psalmist’s summary:  everything your Mom and I have tried to do for and with you was so you will be closer to God.  Dad did say one other thing, but he said it with a smile; that was:  and, remember, you can always come home for a visit…a VISIT.  (I got it….the leaving was a one-way-door).
I think it’s an inescapable question that flows from considering the worth of your story.  It’s a question that most people on the longer side of 5 or 6 decades of living (or more) must entertain.  Let’s face it, when you get near that threescore and ten thing, you can’t avoid thinking about the next chapter.  Life is brief, moves quickly, and disappears like a wisp of wind.  Or, as Dad was also fond of saying in his later years, I ain’t buying any green bananas.
In the interest of tying today’s thoughts and Israel’s story together with your story and mine, remember that Israel’s story (as told by the Psalmist) was all about God’s presence and providence.  It was rescue, relationship, and remembering.  And this is exactly the summary of why Jesus came – he died to rescue us, and draw us into an eternity of relationship, and he doesn’t want us to ever forget that.
Let’s Pray Together:

Father, we are mindful that our story does matter.  We care that people know we lived, and that our lives counted.  Help us to live so as to leave obedient footprints following after you.  Help us to make our life’s stories impossible to tell without seeing Your holy child, Jesus, on every page.

For You Today
Do you recall the pizza commercial line that asked the question:
So, what do YOU want on your tombstone?  
You’re answering that question every day!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today.  Have a blessed day!
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Title Image:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©
For other posts on Psalm 105 see Hanging Out with Dad and Let the Whole World Know  

Tuesday, August 6, 2019

Remembering Before You Can't

Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor him in your youth before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore.” Remember him before the light of the sun, moon, and stars is dim to your old eyes, and rain clouds continually darken your sky.  Remember him before your legs—the guards of your house—start to tremble; and before your shoulders—the strong men—stoop.  Remember him before your teeth—your few remaining servants—stop grinding; and before your eyes—the women looking through the windows—see dimly.  Remember him before the door to life’s opportunities is closed and the sound of work fades.  Now you rise at the first chirping of the birds, but then all their sounds will grow faint.  Remember him before you become fearful of falling and worry about danger in the streets; before your hair turns white like an almond tree in bloom, and you drag along without energy like a dying grasshopper, and the caperberry no longer inspires sexual desire.  Remember him before you near the grave, your everlasting home, when the mourners will weep at your funeral.  Yes, remember your Creator now while you are young, before the silver cord of life snaps and the golden bowl is broken.  Don’t wait until the water jar is smashed at the spring and the pulley is broken at the well.  For then the dust will return to the earth, and the spirit will return to God who gave it.  “Everything is meaningless,” says the Teacher, “completely meaningless.”

That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion:  Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty.  God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.  Ecclesiastes 12:1-8, 13-14[2]

I believe Solomon stops short of dementia, but not far short!  He mentions just about every low point you need to get depressed about the future.  Hair turned white, legs wobbly, eyes dim, sexual desire gone, drooping posture, and, for good measure he throws in a dental situation that even makes eating a chore.  As I write the sun’s morning glow is beginning to peek out from behind the tree line, so I got up and opened the shades so I won’t miss out on a pretty sunrise while I can still see and hear the birds chirping; assisted by trifocal glasses and powerful hearing aids, of course. It’s hard to place oneself on Solomon’s scale of physical woes increasing age seems to gradually, but gleefully bestow on the aging.  But that gets markedly easier as you do push the threescore-and-ten barrier.
This passage is generally preached with young people in mind, an urging to get right with God before it’s too late.  However, anything this side of the grave is appropriate.  Even at 70, 80 or 105, you are “young" compared to those  you read about in the obituary column. 
Very often in ministry I’ve had the privilege to visit very senior saints confined in nursing homes or their own homes, unable to do much for themselves because of a litany of maladies.  And with hardly an exception, they all remark in one way or another their wonder at why God still has them here.  I quickly agree that I wonder that too, but then pose the possibility that exists for ministry at every age and stage of life, unwell in body or not.  The inference, of course, is that God is not done with us here if we’re still breathing.
I give you Iris Jones as a prime example.  Confined the last decade to a nursing home for a good bit of Solomon’s medical chart, Mrs. Iris ministered more than most, writing cards of encouragement to her pastor and wife with shaky hand, praying long and strong, and smiling.  Those were what she could do, and, despite severe headaches, failing strength of legs and balance, and bodily pain more than most could bear, she made you feel like you were the most important person walking on planet earth.  She should’ve been named Barnabas, the Encourager!
For You Today
Whatever you can do today, use the strength God still allows; it won’t last forever!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image:  Pixabay.com        Unless otherwise noted, Scripture used from The New Living Translation©
[2] For another post on Ecclesiastes 12:13 see:  Something Better