Showing posts with label Self-evaluation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-evaluation. Show all posts

Saturday, October 12, 2019

The Plans I Have for You

Monday, October 14, 2019

This is what the Lord says:  “You will be in Babylon for seventy years.  But then I will come and do for you all the good things I have promised, and I will bring you home again.  For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord.  “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.  In those days when you pray, I will listen.  If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.  I will be found by you,” says the Lord.  “I will end your captivity and restore your fortunes.  I will gather you out of the nations where I sent you and will bring you home again to your own land.”  Jeremiah 29:10-14

Isn’t it strange when people ignore reality in favor of constructing a fantasy world?  We’d be on safe ground to say we’ve all done that, ignoring the context of a statement or circumstance to create a better outcome(in our minds, anyway).  You ignore where the decimal point falls in your bank account and go ahead and buy that yacht.  We plow ahead, ignoring the sign that says bridge out.  In the hopefulness of youth, or foolishness of old age, we ignore reality and cannot imagine what we want is beyond our reach.
Jeremiah’s retelling of God’s message that God’s plans for us are good, and not disaster, is, unfortunately misused in this way.  I’ve seen that statement written on more Bibles presented to young people each June as they graduate from High School or college.  Taken out of context it reinforces the tripe passed along from generation to generation that you can be anything you want to be.  It’s a well-meaning sentiment but can put a young mind on the wrong pathway by just a few degrees.  Given time, a few degrees wrong in direction can mean missing the goal by a universe!
So…what’s the problem?  Consider where Jeremiah was, and where the people of Israel were…the prophet was in jail and the people were worse off, a thousand miles from Jerusalem in Babylon.  Their armies had been defeated, land and all property confiscated, families pulled-apart and exiled like so many relocation camps, and their God was silent in heaven, having allowed Nebuchadnezzar’s storm troopers to dismantle the city’s walls and desecrate the temple.  Everything was in ruins.  Does that sound like only good plans for you?  And Jeremiah says that God said…all my plans for you are good.  What?
Therein is the contextual heresy of those graduation Bible inscriptions…they send the message that life will be a bed of roses if you just identify as a God-follower, go to church several times a year and don’t get caught embezzling, murdering, or cheating on your taxes.  That was Israel, and who are we to say America is much different?
Without the context of Israel’s captivity, slaughter, and grief, we are left with a terrible theology of a God who is like a vending machine.  All you have to do is show-up occasionally, throw a little money in the slot (offering plate), and you’re good to go; you’re gonna be blessed with your best life, ever!  That is so spiritually-blind it isn’t laughable.  The plain fact remains that God is the one who caused the Babylonian dictator, Nebuchadnezzar to succeed in his siege against the fortress of Jerusalem and conquer God’s people.  How’s that for plans that are only good?
From current day perspective we know that God orchestrated Israel’s humiliation and troubles for the purpose of disciplining them, which was meant to bring them back to the reality that they’d gotten off course in being faithful to Him.  It is the equivalent of what parents used to do in spanking their children…get their attention.
Bottom line:  There is a whole generation or two that knows nothing of accountability.  And considering that a genuine faith-walk with God in Jesus Christ is entirely about accountability, it is no wonder children who aren’t accustomed to any kind of discipline, or even hearing the word “NO”, go off the reservation when it comes to faith!
For You Today
It is often said that if there is breath there is hope.  I believe that; I also believe where there is hope there is also possibility.  It is possible to reverse the post-Christian wave of hedonism we see in our culture these days.  But it will take a hard look at reality, and a hard pull on the wheel of our lives to get back on course.  Start with telling the truth, and not ignoring what’s eternal; that’s a course correction essential!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

Go to VIDEO


[1] Title Image:  Pixabay.com    Unless noted, Scripture used from The New Living Translation©

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Remember the Sabbath - Part 4

Wednesday, May 11, 2016


“Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.  You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. Exodus 20:8(NLT)
I want to give you four practical ways to keep the Sabbath in your heart, and in your life.  They are in the form of an acrostic:

Retreat

Mother Teresa said God is rarely found in the midst of noise and restlessness; instead, He is the friend of silence.  By all accounts this lady knew where to find God!  She learned it from a good friend of mine, the carpenter from Nazareth: 
 “…Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Matthew 11:28(NLT)
As Vance Havner used to say:  If we don't come apart, we'll come apart!  So, come apart; retreat to rest.  And then, while you're resting,

Evaluate

Some time ago I went through a comprehensive assessment of what I do as a minister.  A psychologist friend sat with me over a two day period and helped me look at my strong and weak points.  It was very revealing.  One part of the findings indicated something I've known all along, but didn't have the words to describe; I am by far an introvert, but lean towards being a bashful extrovert.  That means I love to be with people, but find it hard to initiate contact.  I usually wait to be invited.  (So, if you're wondering why I haven't invited myself over to dinner – I'm waiting!) 
Evaluation of who we are and what we do is a necessary part of keeping our lives balanced.  If you are prone to hands-on, doing and going, but not much quiet time, keeping the Sabbath may mean a concentrated effort on some solitude.

Say NO; Say YES

Saying no (and yes) is a learned skill.  In that ministry assessment I made several decisions about what I will (and will not) try to do in ministry.  Because I have always had difficulty saying “no” to any request, I had to begin finding ways to do that so my “yes” would become more efficient and effective. 
For me, keeping Sabbath balance means being more disciplined with the time I do have.  I have a friend who always has some unfinished work at the end of the day.  He asked his secretary to put the work in what he calls the Residue file folder.  She asked him what he meant.  He said, I've done what I can today, the res-I-do tomorrow!
So, retreat to rest, evaluate yourself for balance, say no or yes to control the balance, and every now and then, or regularly…

Take a Siesta

In certain parts of the world you cannot get anything done at a Power luncheon; there is no such thing.  That part of the world closes down. 
I like what James Hewett said about that:  When we were borrowing customs from other cultures, who passed up the siesta?[2]

For You Today

There is an old saying about ministers who quit their churches after a particularly bad Wednesday.  When other preachers hear the man's left, they shake their collective heads and sigh, If only he'd taken a nap Monday!  Friends, when you're stressed and bothered – keep balanced – never underestimate the value of a good nap.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today…have a blessed day!


[1] Title Image:   By Nevit Dilmen [CC0], via Wikimedia Commons
[2]James S. Hewett, Illustrations Unlimited (Wheaton: Tyndale House Publishers, 1988), 495.