Showing posts with label Supplication. Show all posts
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Sunday, August 23, 2020

Kingdom Living Series - Part 2 PRAY

Pray like this….  Matthew 6:9a

--- The Word of God for us, the People of God ---

The basic principle of God’s Kingdom on earth is: 

Everybody at peace with everybody else; already now – but not yet.

By this statement we mean that Jesus brought God’s Kingdom to earth when he was born in Bethlehem, so the kingdom is already now in effect (or should be at least in our hearts).  But it is not yet.  You can see this easily because the world is a dangerous and unhappy place.  The world is quite NOT at peace.

Last week we started with believe, which, by definition, is being humble towards God.  Jesus used the term poor in spirit; this is the essence of faith, believing.   Today we move further along in what will be a 7-week progression of learning how to live in the Kingdom of God (now, even if it isn’t complete yet). 

The Sermon on the Mount takes us to prayer, which deepens our faith and makes us seasoned, or mature followers of Christ.  The Bible word for that is telios, functioning appropriately for the way God created us.  It doesn’t mean sinless, because we still have a fallen nature; it does mean holy, in the sense that we are growing in love more like our Master.

God’s plan for our praying

God’s plan and purpose for prayer is to help us develop an honest and deep relationship with God, so we’ll hear God’s voice, draw up close to Him, and be blessed by walking daily with God.  We learn that in the second chapter of Genesis, where God said about his newly created Adam, it isn’t good for him to be alone.[1]   We see that deep desire for relationship in the Apostle Paul’s letter to Philippi:

I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the sharing of his sufferings by becoming like him in his death  Philippians 3:10

This is my desire as well.  I am a person of prayer…already now; but not yet.  By this I mean I share this burning desire in my innermost parts to know Christ.  That part of the Kingdom reigns in me, but it is far from complete.  I am not nearly as functional (telios/mature) as I want to be.

In all, prayer has been the one connecting thread in every aspect of my life which has kept me (at various times) from leaving the faith, destroying the most important relationships in my life, or just plain going insane!  Prayer, which keeps me close to God…also keeps me; it changes me.

So what I want to share with you this morning is the model of the kind of prayer that has changed me profoundly over the course of my life.  This “way” of praying is easily remembered by the short acronym “ACTS”.  The four letters stand for Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving and Supplication. 

I found this was a model seen in many of the Old Testament prophets and leaders’ way of praying.  Nehemiah was one like that, and I’d like us to turn to his prayers to explore the way we can pray like Kingdom people.  Nehemiah was part of the captive Israelite nation.  He was cup bearer to the king, and God picked him to lead the restoration of Jerusalem and the Temple.  In preparing to enter the greatest task of his life, with great risk of life and limb, Nehemiah hit his knees and opened his heart to God…an ACTS kind of prayer.

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 doration

O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God who keeps his covenant of unfailing love with those who love him and obey his commands,  Nehemiah 1:5

We begin our prayers with adoration.  By adoring we mean recognizing who God is and responding accordingly.  Nehemiah addresses God as great and awesome, the God who keeps covenant.  To “adore” God is to respond to the covenant, the agreement God offers.  In Nehemiah’s day that meant obedience to the Law, the first 5 books of the Bible. 

Our covenant as Christians has its’ foundation in that law, but it’s fulfillment in the New Covenant, purchased and sealed with the blood of Jesus on Calvary’s hill. 

Nehemiah started his prayer with adoration.  One of the reasons you don’t hear much of that anymore is because 21st century culture teaches us to adore ourselves.  It is a good practice, if you’re going to pray honestly, respectfully, and meaningfully to Almighty God, to stop often and check to see who is sitting in the throne of your heart.  Is it you…or God?  If it’s you, it won’t be God you’re adoring; it’s impossible to recognize the sovereignty of God when you’re having someone else on the throne.

And this leads naturally into the second movement in this symphony of prayer…

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onfession

…listen to my prayer! Look down and see me praying night and day for your people Israel. I confess that we have sinned against you. Yes, even my own family and I have sinned! We have sinned terribly by not obeying the commands, decrees, and regulations that you gave us through your servant Moses.  Nehemiah 1:6-7

Nehemiah’s confession isn’t popular today.  Today, if anything’s gone wrong, it’s always somebody else’s fault.  Most often we hear excuses, not confession!

·       If a CEO sells his company down the tubes, he leaves with 38 million in golden parachute separation funds.

·       If a high-profile preacher lives a scandalous life of sexual sins, he thumbs his nose at his denomination and is back on the air in no time at all.

·       If a president lies, he has merely “mis-spoken” himself and doesn’t skip a beat.

By contrast, Nehemiah, born into the captivity, a thousand miles from Jerusalem, never having set foot in the holy city, includes himself and his family in the guilt of national sins of Israel.  Wow….really?  Yes, really; Nehemiah is wise enough to know that, had he been there, he also would have sinned.  Nehemiah knew his own heart just like you and I know our hearts.  We need prayers of confession….regularly!

In the text Nehemiah prays that we have sinned terribly.  Literally, the word means “offended”.  He is admitting the actions of God’s children are offensive to Heaven.  Beloved, that is what confession is about.  It’s recognizing our sins do, indeed, offend holy God.

Once you’ve adored God in prayer, confessed your sins to Him, then comes…

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hanksgiving

“Please remember what you told your servant Moses: ‘If you are unfaithful to me, I will scatter you among the nations.  But if you return to me and obey my commands and live by them, then even if you are exiled to the ends of the earth, I will bring you back to the place I have chosen for my name to be honored.’  “The people you rescued by your great power and strong hand are your servants.  Nehemiah 1:8-10

It’s one thing to say “thank you” for a gift you really like; it’s quite another to say “bless you” for hauling us out to the woodshed.  Yet, that is exactly what Nehemiah has in mind here.  Basically, he is rehearsing the fact that God said, you sin, and I’ll whip your butt.  I’ll hunt you down, and I’ll bring you back, and we can do it all over again.  Nehemiah’s response is that was our rescue; Thank you, Lord.

Why would Nehemiah respond to God that way?  Because, in acknowledging God’s faithfulness to punish sin, it gives substance to our belief in God’s other promises…all those promises to care for us, love us, provide for us, and protect us.  And, to do all that, we must be under his wing.

Consider what God said about that through Moses’ successor, Joshua:

Today I call on heaven and earth as witnesses against you.  If you break my covenant, you will quickly disappear from the land you are crossing the Jordan to occupy.  You will live there only a short time; then you will be utterly destroyed.  For the Lord will scatter you among the nations, where only a few of you will survive.  There, in a foreign land, you will worship idols made from wood and stone—gods that neither see nor hear nor eat nor smell.  But from there you will search again for the Lord your God.  And if you search for him with all your heart and soul, you will find him.                Deuteronomy 4:26-29

How about that?  God was prepared to offer Israel forgiveness based upon his loving covenant.  Do you know what that tells you and me about God?  It says, loudly and clearly, that you CAN begin again.  You can come with adoration in your heart, and confession on your lips, and, with Thanksgiving flowing from your mind to God’s heart, you can KNOW God is willing to forgive and restore your life.

Our model is nearly complete:  Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and then…

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 upplication

O Lord, please hear my prayer!  Listen to the prayers of those of us who delight in honoring you.  Please grant me success today by making the king favorable to me.  Put it into his heart to be kind to me.”  Nehemiah 1:11

There is always a decisive moment in life when talking or thinking becomes insufficient.  There is a moment in time when we must have the rubber of our faith meet the road of action.  In terms of praying and acting on those prayers the saying could be praise the Lord and pass the ammunition.

There is a time when praying ends and doing begins.  That was the nature of the man Nehemiah, and all servant/prayer warriors.  Nehemiah committed himself to God and God’s Kingdom in his prayer, then he got up off his knees and forged ahead.

When is the last time you stepped-out in faith?  When’s the last time God put it in your heart to involve yourself in such a way that you knew if He didn’t come through, you were toast? 

My dear, beloved friends, brothers, and sisters, THAT is what supplication is all about.  THAT is what dependency on God in prayer is about. 

THAT is Kingdom-living prayer!

Now, perhaps the whole idea of this kind of prayer is somewhat scary.  After all, God is all-consuming, all-powerful, and all we have protecting us from that awesome being is our excuses…and we know they won’t fly any better than a block of granite.

Let’s let an old friend, C.S. Lewis, shed a little light on what the next step is for those of us who are timid about how to approach the throne.

In his book The Silver Chair C.S. Lewis draws an analogy with the story of a young girl named Jill.  She’s in the land of Narnia, and she’s thirsty.  At once she sees a magnificent stream…and a fearsome lion (Aslan, who represents the Lord Jesus):

If I run away, it’ll be after me in a moment, thought Jill.  And if I go on, I shall run straight into its mouth.  Anyway, she couldn’t have moved if she had tried, and she couldn’t take her eyes off it.  How long this lasted, she could not be sure; it seemed like hours.  And the thirst became so bad that she almost felt she would not mind being eaten by the lion if only she could be sure of getting a mouthful of water first….

Are you not thirsty? said the Lion.  I’m dying of thirst, said Jill.

Then drink, said the Lion.  May I – could I – would you mind going away while I do? said Jill.

The Lion answered this only by a look and a very low growl.  And as Jill gazed at its motionless bulk, she realized that she might as well have asked the whole mountain to move aside for her convenience.  The delicious rippling noise of the stream was driving her nearly frantic.

Will you promise to do anything to me, if I do come? said Jill.

I make no promise, said the Lion.

Jill was so thirsty now that, without noticing it, she had come a step nearer. 

Do you eat girls? she said. 

I have swallowed up girls and boys, women and men, kings and emperors, cities and realms, said the Lion.  It didn’t say this as if it were boasting, nor as if it were sorry, nor as if it were angry.  It just said it.

I daren’t come and drink, said Jill.

Then you will die of thirst, said the Lion.

Oh dear! said Jill, coming another step nearer.  I suppose I must go and look for another stream then.

There is no other stream, said the Lion.  It never occurred to Jill to disbelieve the Lion – no one who had seen his stern face could do that – and her mind suddenly made itself up.

It was the worst thing she had ever had to do, but she went straight to the stream, knelt down, and began scooping up water in her hand.  It was the coldest, most refreshing water she had ever tasted.  You didn’t need to drink much of it, for it quenched your thirst at once.  Before she tasted it she had been intending to make a dash away from the Lion the moment she had finished.  Now, she realized this would be on the whole the most dangerous thing of all.[2]

This stand-off is what we face when we come to the decision to put away the safe prayers to which we may have become accustomed, and choose to really pray.  This is the bottom line in real Kingdom prayer – we’re always making a choice to either run from God or towards God, but, ultimately, despite our fear, deep within our hearts and souls, we know that the prayer of running TO God will carry us one step closer for a drink of living water; and isn’t that what you REALLY want to do?

Our Prayer

Father God, here we are – again – with our eyes closed and our heads bowed.  And our souls conflicted.  We really do want to pray, be open, honest, and just let it all hang out for You to examine.  We know it will be worth it – the very best for our souls, if we just let go and trust that You will still be true to Your covenant, that you will honor Your Son’s blood, spilled for our saving.

Grant us courage to put the fear, and the need to control, and the flirtation with hiding our embarrassment aside.  Wash us, and we shall be whiter than snow; cleanse us and we shall be holy; purge us, and we will shine as your people.

For the glory, honor, and praise to which You alone are worthy, o Lord, we pray in the Name of the Son, cooperating with the Spirit, to honor and exalt the Majesty of the Father. 

Let it be so in each of our lives…Amen!

Title Image:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation  Matthew 10:24-39©



[1] Genesis 2:18

[2] C.S. Lewis, The Silver Chair, (Collier Books), pp.16-18

 

Sunday, December 24, 2017

Good Medicine - Part 4: SUPPLICATION

In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a village in Galilee, to a virgin named Mary.  She was engaged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of King David.  Gabriel appeared to her and said, “Greetings, favored woman!  The Lord is with you!”  Confused and disturbed, Mary tried to think what the angel could mean.  “Don’t be afraid, Mary,” the angel told her, “for you have found favor with God!  You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you will name him Jesus.  He will be very great and will be called the Son of the Most High.  The Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David.  And he will reign over Israel forever; his Kingdom will never end!”  Mary asked the angel, “But how can this happen? I am a virgin.”  The angel replied, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.  So the baby to be born will be holy, and he will be called the Son of God.  What’s more, your relative Elizabeth has become pregnant in her old age!  People used to say she was barren, but she has conceived a son and is now in her sixth month.  For the word of God will never fail.”  Mary responded, “I am the Lord’s servant.  May everything you have said about me come true.”  And then the angel left her.  Luke 1:26-38(NLT)
We have been journeying through Advent looking at Good Medicine for our souls. 
·       In week 1 we saw how Adoration, praising our Heavenly Father releases all the praise stored in our hearts.  It’s like personally offering the Great Thanksgiving we always pray before sharing the Eucharist, the Lord’s Supper.  We praise Him and it is good medicine for our souls.
·       In week 2 we learned that Hope brings us close to God and helps us hold-fast to the faith once-delivered to the saints, and the impact that makes on the world makes a difference in the world.  Making a difference is good medicine for our souls. 
·       Last week we explored Thanksgiving, the right response to being cleansed of our sins, and how that opens the pathway for genuine worship.  All good medicine for the soul!
Today, on Christmas Eve, we will complete this series as we consider the good medicine of Supplication – a fancy word for asking for stuff.  Now, that’s very connected to what we hope will be under the tree tomorrow morning. 
At this stage of December little children have written volumes of letters to Santa, asking for toys, baby dolls, puppies and ponies.  Older children have asked for new bicycles, Playstations™ and new IPhones™.  Women have dropped hints (some subtle, and others not-so-subtle) about what kind of jewelry they prefer (as well as where such baubles can be purchased), and men have wondered why they haven’t gotten a new Mercedes or fishing boat on previous Christmas mornings.  We all understand the concept of supplication!
But this season is not without its stressors.  And stress shows up in many unexpected ways (and all of them unwelcome); just ask the man who was engaged to Mary – Joseph.  As a local carpenter from a good family Joseph thought he had everything he wanted for that first Christmas.  His life was in order.  He was engaged, betrothed to the love of his life.  Mary was beautiful and his career as a carpenter was on track.  This changed everything.  It was big time stress! Betrothal was more than engagement; in those days it was legally marriage, except for the couple living together.  That’s so different from today where many couples live together and have children before marriage.
Well, Joseph had it all going in the right direction...until the news hit him that Mary was pregnant.  Joseph knew he wasn’t the father, so this shattered his dreams and hopes for a normal, respectable life.  It had to have crushed his heart.  Christmas stress indeed!   Joseph came to the first Christmas without tinsel, twinkling lights or fruitcake.
Scripture tells us Joseph didn’t want to see Mary hurt or embarrassed.  So he hatched a plan to divorce Mary privately.  He didn’t want her to go through the public humiliation he knew was coming.  It was more than just the snide remarks and social snubbing to which they’d be subjected.  While it may be hard for many in our 21st century culture to imagine why they would be judged for having a baby before marriage, in those days it was downright against the law!  That was the pressure society would bear on remaining a virgin until marriage.
Elizabeth and I know something of that pressure.  We married in 1967.  I had been inducted into the Army five months prior.  We made the decision to get married if I got orders for overseas, but we didn’t share that with anyone but our parents.  When the orders came I called and told Elizabeth I had nine days leave.  We met with the minister, bought all the stuff and had a wedding three days later.  We are certain some of our friends (and a few snooty relatives) were doing math for the next nine months!  (Jennifer came along a little more than four years later; so there!)
These days that kind of thinking is seen as prudish; something out of the Victorian-era.  In the eyes of the new millennium person, marriage is either seen with a romantic’s eye, that everything must be perfect because everyone is happy, stays happy, and lives happily ever after.  Or marriage is viewed as a throwback to oppressive male domination and is to be avoided at all costs.  Either way, Biblical marriage of one man and one woman for one lifetime has become the rare exception, rather than the norm.
Now the reason Joseph scurried around to find a plan to do something about this development privately is that sticking with Mary would bring danger into Joseph’s equation.  Mary had a few serious liabilities:
·       Legal liability – as a convicted adulteress she could have been stoned under Jewish law. 
·       Religious liability – Mary claimed to be pregnant by God; the Pharisees would’ve had a field day with that one.  They hung Jesus on a cross for that kind of claim.  Mary could have gotten the death penalty for blasphemy
The first Christmas was extremely stressful for Joseph.  His stress came from financial, emotional and spiritual drains.  He was picturing a wife, kids, dog, and white picket fence kind of life.  What he got was over-taxed, shamed, confused and run out of town.  Is this first Christmas not the most stressful you’ve ever heard about?
Turning back to our friend Luke’s story about Mary we find there was family stress in her first Christmas as well…in two different cities.  Of course Mary faced all of what Joseph was feeling – with the added factor that she was the one the community would stone if things went badly. 
But there was also Mary’s Aunt Elizabeth to consider.  Everyone in her family knew Elizabeth was unable to conceive, and she was well-past child-bearing age.  But the angel visiting Mary told her old Aunt Elizabeth was already six-months along.  So, really, there are two miracles in this story.  Mary is pregnant even though she is too-young and still a virgin, and so is Elizabeth, the too-old barren one.  These two are connected at opposite ends of the spectrum.
What’s really surprising here is that Mary went to her Aunt for comfort and enlightenment; but Elizabeth was the one who got both.  From this we learn that humble hearts are connected and never overlooked by God when it comes to blessing.  Mary was young, Elizabeth old; God blessed both of them.  We also must learn to not judge the young Marys or the old Elizabeths in our lives.  Unexpected beginnings are not endings!
Granny Parker was a church member in a small church I served in Florida.  By virtually all human standards she was not influential or revered as a leader.  Granny had a learning disability and couldn’t participate in a traditional education process.  But that was only her beginning.
As a young woman in the depression, Granny’s parents died and she inherited the 100 acre farm she lived on all her life.  When the opportunity came to start a mission church she gave two acres to begin the work.  Later she graciously parted with 10 more acres as the church grew and needed more space.  Today, where humble Granny Parker began life on a small farm in 1911 there is a 600-seat sanctuary and several other buildings to serve that community for Christ.
Granny died shortly before reaching 100 years in her journey.  This under-educated, unsophisticated, rough farm girl could barely write her own name, but her relationship with God was so strong, when you heard her pray, it was clear every angel in heaven had stopped what they were doing and were paying attention as Jesus and Granny caught up on the day’s events.
The Mary in our story is something like that.  When the angel told Mary what the future was going to look like she asked a question…how can this be…I’m a virgin…never even been with a manWhen the angel told her to trust God, she bowed in worship, and with a simple statement Mary teaches us what genuine supplication looks like:
I am the Lord’s servant.  May everything you have said about me come true.
Mary made her petition, supplication – tell me about this impossibility.  She got what she requested, and it wasn’t anything like she could have possibly dreamed.  But it was good medicine for her soul, because she embraced it as a gift from the hand of God.
Beloved you wrestle this week with embracing what Mary faced, in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, Amen!

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Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Asking

Thursday, June 22, 2017
Bend down, O Lord, and hear my prayer; answer me, for I need your help.  Protect me, for I am devoted to you.  Save me, for I serve you and trust you.  You are my God.  Be merciful to me, O Lord, for I am calling on you constantly.  Give me happiness, O Lord, for I give myself to you.  O Lord, you are so good, so ready to forgive, so full of unfailing love for all who ask for your help.  Listen closely to my prayer, O Lord; hear my urgent cry.  Psalm 86:1-6(NLT)
Did you catch all the pleading verbs?  Bend, Hear, Answer,
Protect, Save, Be Merciful, Give, Listen, Hear; prayer like that is part of our life as believers. 
We ask because Jesus taught us to go to the Father; Paul took it a step farther and told us to come boldly to the throne[ii] for a large helping of grace!
But asking is only part of our prayer life. 
·       There is also adoration, when we look with loving hearts on the One who loved us enough to die for us and save us from our sinfulness. 
·       There is confession, the acknowledgement that we are sinful and humbly agree with God that there is no part of unholy thoughts and deeds that can be part of our relationship with the Heavenly Father.
·       And there is also thanksgiving, the praise of hearts that are forgiven and freed for service to our King.
Back to the pleading of our Psalm – there is nothing wrong with laying out your needs and the desires of your heart before the Lord.  But it is a good and helpful reminder of how God arranged the order answered prayer, and the kind of heart He wants to bless.  Note the Psalm once again:
Give me happiness, O Lord, for I give myself to you.
When we give ourselves unreservedly over and into the keeping of God, it is deferring our own will in favor of His.  It is like Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane:
“Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me.  Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”  Luke 22:42(NLT)

For You Today

In your prayer of adoration, confession, thanksgiving and asking, whose will are you seeking…yours or His?  If you can say BOTH, you may be a Methodist after all!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road…have a blessed day!
NOTES


[i] Title Image: Pixabay.com
[ii] Hebrews 4:16

Monday, January 12, 2015

SERIES: The Promises in the Promises #1. We Promise Our Prayers

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.  The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.  James 5:16(NLT)
When a person officially joins with a congregation, he or she makes a commitment to participate in the ministries, financial support, and decision-making of the church.  Therefore, the church not only counts members, it counts on them to be a formal part of the body of Christ and to accept and exercise their responsibilities in that role.  People who join a United Methodist Church commit to “uphold the church by their prayers, their presence, their gifts, their service and their witness.”  Honoring this membership commitment through a lifetime builds a strong community of believers who are disciples of Jesus Christ.[1]
Becoming a part of a group is always much more than signing on the dotted line.  In the case of becoming a part of the church of Jesus Christ it means transformation; it means receiving the DNA of eternal life.
In the formal “joining” of a local congregation there is a ceremony and we make promises to God and each other. 
Ultimately the promises we make when joining the United Methodist Church can be focused under one word:  discipleship!  To accept the call to be a disciple of Jesus Christ is to place oneself at the disposal of God and in the service of his kingdom.
Now, working-out exactly what it means to be “in the service of God’s kingdom” can be vague if we don’t put a target out there upon which we can focus our energies.  So, as United Methodists we have found it Biblically-appropriate to let five promises (to God and each other) represent the measuring stick of what it means to be “in service”.  These promises are prayers, presence, gifts, service and witness.
Today our focus is on prayers, the promise we make to pray for one another.  It’s no small thing that this comes first in the series; it also comes first in many Biblical texts which speak about Christian responsibilities towards one another.
·        Matthew 5:44 – pray for those who persecute you
·        Ephesians 6:19 – pray for those who work in the ministry
·        Colossians 4:3 – pray for opportunities to share the Gospel
·        1 John 5:16 – pray for those who are sinning
And, in our main text (James 5:16) we are strongly encouraged to pray for healing. 
It’s more than a little telling about the focus of most Christians, particularly in America, that, overwhelmingly when you have a “season of prayer” we bring up our physical health.  Take a look at the prayer lists and you’ll see; heart attacks to hangnails, we spend 99% of our time praying for comfort for ourselves and our loved ones. 
And that’s a little off-target when you consider that in Scripture, asking for prayer, and instructions about praying, focus much less on personal health and comfort, and much more towards the health and strength of God’s Kingdom. 

How To Be Faithful in Your Promise to Pray

First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for everyone, 1 Timothy 2:1  (NRSVA)
This morning I wish to take those four words supplications, prayers, intercessions and thanksgivings, and show you how they build the columns of a house of prayer:

First Word:  Supplications – We Bind

The prayer translated "supplication" comes from a root word that means "to bind."  In praying we are binding ourselves to the will and way of God.  We promise to be governed and instructed by His character and His claims on our life.  This comes out of a sincere recognition of our deep need for Him.
Near the end of Jesus’ ministry when He started talking about picking up crosses and death – the cost of discipleship, the crowds thinned-out.  Jesus asked the disciples:  Are you going to leave me too?  Peter had the right answer, Lord, to whom shall we go? (John 6.68b).
How does that work out in the life of the person who prays?  It means willingness to accept the answer that God gives – even if it’s not the answer we want.  One lady shared how her daughter demonstrated that willingness to be an intercessor, bound to God’s will:
One night my 11-year-old daughter Eva noticed I was distracted as I tucked her in to bed.  I told her about a friend’s teenage daughter whose hair was mysteriously falling out and I encouraged Eva to pray for Amy.  Her simple words, "Jesus, please hold Amy’s hair on her head," touched me.
As the doctors experimented with different treatments, Amy continued to lose her hair.  Eva continued to pray the same prayer. 
After six weeks the doctors determined Amy had alopecia, an extremely rare disorder where hair loss is unpredictable but can be complete and permanent.  When I told Eva, she took my hand and closed her eyes.  This time her prayer was different.  Dear Jesus, if you won’t hold Amy’s hair on her head, would you please hold Amy?  Tearfully, I realized how sometimes God doesn’t move mountains; he moves us.[2]
When you hit your knees recall often that we seek first the kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 6.33); we bind ourselves to it!

Second Word:  Prayers – We Bend

When Paul says I urge …supplications and prayers …This word "prayers" is the prayer of prostration, or worship.  It is important to remember that prayer should be more than a monologue.  Listening is perhaps more important than talking to God.
The late president, Richard Nixon had a godly Quaker grandmother.  Her advice to him when, as a nine year old he asked why the Quaker meetings were so silent...
"What thee must understand, Richard, is that the purpose of prayer is to listen to God, not to talk to God.  The purpose of prayer is not to tell God what thee wants, but to find out from God what He wants from thee."[3]
Listening to God is a matter of getting it right about the attitude of bending, as the concept of worship demands.  Bruce Wilkinson has taken some heat for his books concerning the Prayer of Jabez.  Some misinformed folks have taken that prayer as a kind of mantra to be repeated constantly so they can get what they want.
The author recently told how one of the tabloid articles had placed the prayer of Jabez in a cut-out shield and told people how to position the shield on a lottery ticket to win the lottery – or place it under a pillow at night and sleep on it to get that special guy or girl.[4] 
That is not the worship of God; that is not prostration in prayer.  It is worship of self – and it is sin.  
Intercession is not hoping to change the heart of God, so that God changes the circumstances of a brother’s life, so he gets what he wants.  But we rather bend towards Him – seek Him, so that we might understand how we are to act in the circumstances whether God changes them or not.
The church in Florida to which my daughter belonged was meeting in an Elementary School.  They had grown to around 300 in attendance, but property was so expensive in that area it would take about $4 million to purchase the 15 acres they need.  They were praying for land, and the pastor of a small struggling mission (about 25 people) in that area came to the pastor of my daughter’s church, offering to merge with their church family.  Their land -- about 15 acres, with an option on 5 more, and the building – in the area they needed to reach – was given to my daughter’s church, debt-free, ready to build a new building.  
When you bend in His direction, he opens doors wide! 
We bind ourselves to His will; bend ourselves to His way, and…

Third Word:  Intercessions – We Be

Grammatical correctness is difficult to frame here.  However, the word translated "intercessions" is one of those nouns that really screams to be a verb!  To intercede in Bible times meant to plead with the king on behalf of a friend.  In our application, the real sense is to be; it is to be involved – in the middle, standing in the gap.
Estee Lauder said that most women don’t wear enough perfume.  They always think they should just dab a little on the wrists, and the pulse points.  NOT SO, says the lady.  "The best way to apply fragrance is to spray the air in front of you and walk into it.  Wearing perfume is a little like loving – you can’t be stingy.  You have to use it abundantly."
It just may be that Estee Lauder has given the best illustration of interceding in prayer.  We must fill our entire existence with the presence of God, and the problem our brother faces, and walk in it, abundantly!  
Bound to His will, Bent to His way, Being in His presence, and…

Last Word:  Thanksgivings – We Beam

The word is “eucharista” which is literally “the thanksgiving.”  It is the act of gratitude.  
Once again, prayer is active – part of a lifestyle, rather than a ritual.  Part of every believer’s daily (hourly) living ought to be an active, vibrant attitude of gratitude for God and fellow men and women.  
Let’s face it, if we are of the belief that everything happens under the control of God, and He is working it for good (Romans 8.28), then we must be thankful for all of it; we must be thankful even when we cannot understand what God is doing in our lives.
There are things I didn’t understand when I was younger.
·     I couldn’t understand how some childhood bullies I knew were not incinerated by lightning for their ways.  How could I be thankful for them?

·     I didn’t understand why my Dad had to work the graveyard shift.  He was working at night when I wanted him home.  But my lack of understanding at that point doesn’t change the fact that it was his love for his family that made him work just to keep food on the table.  I admire him now, understanding his sacrifice.  I admire his being there at ball games to cheer for me when he was probably exhausted from working those late hours.
·     I confess -- it is difficult for me to be thankful for mosquitoes and chiggers, but I will praise Him now (and ask Him why when I get home).
Bind to His Will, Bend to His Way, Be in His Presence, Beam with Thanksgiving….a lifestyle of intercession, praying for one another!

How to Respond

·     If you are a person who has a relationship with God the Father, because, in faith you asked His Son, Jesus to forgive your sins, and the Holy Spirit has placed you in the body….
·     and you recognize that it is time to get in the battle, and the front of the battle is where you are called, and you’re ready to follow your Captain Jesus wherever He leads…we say,
·    Come…come and die with us; die with us in the prayer room.
·    Come stand in the gap for your brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus.
·    Come stand in the gap as we pray for marriages and children.
·    Come stand in the gap as we storm the gates of Hell against drugs, alcohol and all the habits that enslave and impoverish and kill in our communities.
·    Come stand in the gap for your neighbors, our President and all leaders, and for missionaries around the world.
·    Come stand in the gap against sin, powers of the air, wickedness in high places.
·    Come stand in the Gap!
Come now and stand in the GAP!



[1]Website, Leadership section; General Board of Discpleship of the United Methodist Church
[2] Elisa Morgan in Christian Parenting Today. Christian Reader, Vol. 34.
[3]Chuck Colson, Born Again
[4] A Commitment to Prayer, ALAN PERKINS, SermonCentral.com