Showing posts with label Why?. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Why?. Show all posts

Monday, October 23, 2023

Good Times - Bad Times

Monday, October 23, 2023

O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you.  My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water.  I have seen you in your sanctuary and gazed upon your power and glory.  Your unfailing love is better than life itself; how I praise you!  I will praise you as long as I live, lifting up my hands to you in prayer.  You satisfy me more than the richest feast.  I will praise you with songs of joy.  I lie awake thinking of you, meditating on you through the night.  Because you are my helper, I sing for joy in the shadow of your wings.  I cling to you; your strong right hand holds me securely.  

Psalm 63:1-8

If you’ve lived three minutes on this planet you know there is a raging war which cannot be seen.  The battlefield is within, and the fighting is intense every day.  Like the results of a physical conflict, you can see the results of the mental and spiritual battle:  deep furrowed lines on faces, matching the hollowed, empty eyes staring at nothing in particular.  Substances, meant to relieve pain caused by the struggle, have replaced the inner determination to keep breathing, marching, or thinking.  It is survival mode; it is not pretty, a void-like existence…not living. 

There are enough personal stories to illustrate that struggle; we need not point a finger at anyone to understand the reality of abyss-darkness, the place where those who enter must, as Dante penned it, abandon all hope. 

All humans experience fear, loneliness, heartbreak, and grief.  In that internal pain, we tend to dwell on the worst-case scenario…the place where we find ourselves beyond hope, with only the memory of past “good times”.  The memory of “bad times” in the past, drag with them the dread they’ll return.  Strains of the song Never Again play in our head, an unspoken vow of “doing better”.

King David knew, perhaps on the most intense level, both privately and publicly, the heights and depths of both good and bad “times”.  He was a national hero in Jerusalem, favorite to the king, hated and hunted by the same king.  He won battles often, and failed the simple choice of faithfulness, enough to lose a kingdom.  David had known hero and zero in his life, the products of wisdom and foolishness.  He’d been up and down, in and out, and understood the fact that power, riches, pleasure, and pride were (as his son, Solomon would later write[1]) vanity…empty…a languishing, disappearing vapor of hope-turned to despair. 

Now, if this sounds unfamiliar, like it only happens to other people, just hold on; you’re not smarter than Solomon, or better looking and popular than David.  You’ve just not lived long enough, or sinned big enough…yet.  When that time gets here, you don’t have to email or text me about what to do.  David’s inner thoughts, and what he did, how he prayed, and how he depended on God are wiser, better, and stronger than any advice I’d have.  All I would do – all I could do is point you to Psalm 63, and say:  Do what he said!

For You Today 

So-called good times and bad times are part of the human experience. Each person must deal with pain, and enjoy what pleasure God gives us, and leave the balancing of it to Heaven’s lovingkindness and grace.

If you have just come through a night when all you could do is lay awake, opening the painful wounds of your heart to God with tears and that old friend of a question on your mind…WHY, God….Why?...then you’re not far from the kingdom, my friend.  Keep asking, seeking, knocking…His care is near; He’s got you, and His grip is secure!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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[1] “Everything is meaningless,” says the Teacher, “completely meaningless!”  Ecclesiastes 1:2

Tuesday, August 27, 2019

Why?


Why is one of the first words a three year old begins to understand he can use to drive his parent crazy from the backseat of the family van!  It is asked no less than 82 gazillion times an hour!
That “why” word must’ve loomed large in the youthful mind of Jeremiah when God called him to speak as Heaven’s messenger. 
Like Timothy, Paul’s protégé’ in the New Testament, Jeremiah figured he was just a youngster, why would all the people in power listen to a word he spoke.  God told Jeremiah to lose that thinking and just trust him. 
The Lord gave the fledgling prophet assurance because of three facts:

1.        God’s Sovereignty

The Lord gave me this message:  “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.  Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”  Jeremiah 1:4-5

God did what only a sovereign can do; he chose Jeremiah.  Sovereigns don’t answer, especially to those they rule. Had Jeremiah not been the one for God’s plan, he wouldn’t have heard from God in the first place.
In this particular case, even before Jeremiah’s mother gave birth to him, God had appointed him to God’s service.  That may seem arbitrary, but we are talking about the same One who spoke the universe into existence; it is the Creator’s right to have His way with the creatures.  Even if we don’t understand or agree with that, there is a part of each of our insides that says we must respect Him.
Remember Lot’s wife?  She had gotten so used to being a resident of Sodom she didn’t want anything else.  When God decreed the destruction of that wicked city it was time to leave; God brought the Lot family out as a matter of kindness.  Mrs. Lot didn’t agree, and even though God had warned not even to look back, she just had to have one last look.  She didn’t respect God’s command or His Sovereignty, and she was frozen in time as a pillar of salt, forever to stare at the destroyed city.
It is not wrong to ask why, but when God says I’ll tell you later – just do what I said, it isn’t time to quibble or struggle.  He is still sovereign over all, and that is a comfort Jeremiah needed if he was going to serve the God with no name.
A second fact that comforted the newly-ordained prophet that day was:

2.        God’s Intimacy

Notice all the personal pronouns that describe God’s relationship with Jeremiah:

“O Sovereign Lord,” I said, “I can’t speak for you! I’m too young!”  The Lord replied, “Don’t say, ‘I’m too young,’ for you must go wherever I send you and say whatever I tell you.  And don’t be afraid of the people, for I will be with you and will protect you.  I, the Lord, have spoken!”  Then the Lord reached out and touched my mouth and said, “Look, I have put my words in your mouth!  Jeremiah 1: 6-9

Five times in these 4 verses God refers to His personhood “I” and “my”.  And he marries that with “you” and “your” when referring to Jeremiah.  We serve a God who is sovereign, but not aloof.  The whole reason God created us is for relationship.  We are hard-wired for fellowship with God and each other. 
The next time you begin to ask why remember the God of the universe understands every heartbeat of your pulse, intent and purpose of your thoughts and soul, and loves you more intensely than any parent could even imagine.  And on top of that, He is engineering everything to bless you.

28And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. 29 For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.  Romans 8:28-29

The ultimate answer to the question “why” is “love” – that word agape’ means doing the best for someone else…that someone is you!  Sometimes the best may not look like it at first…but with God it is always the best in the universe!
Marianne was a friend of Elizabeth and mine years ago.  She and Richard had a mongrel dog they loved named Sadie.  The mutt gave birth to a litter of pups.  She came back in the house one afternoon covered with fleas.  Marianne, a clean-freak of the Marine drill sergeant variety went into overdrive.  She prayed, Lord, how could this happen?  I’m so careful, and I can’t afford another big vet bill, but I can’t put this mama in with the pups with all those fleas.  They took the mutt to the vet and, in the examination the vet discovered the dog had a problem that would’ve killed her, but could be cured with a simple, inexpensive shot.  Marianne came to Bible Study that night praising her sovereign, loving Lord for fleas; FLEAS!  Those little ugly bugs that are 90% teeth may not look like a blessing, but without them Sadie the mama dog would’ve been only a memory.
And then, the sovereign, intimate Lord, who chose and loved Jeremiah, gave his life purpose and direction with a mission to accomplish because of:

3.        Eternity

Today I appoint you to stand up against nations and kingdoms.  Some you must uproot and tear down, destroy and overthrow.  Others you must build up and plant.”  Jeremiah 1: 10

Talk about things we don’t understand; God’s plans are certainly something you and I have a great deal of problem comprehending.  God uses a different lens to look at eternity than we do.  Our only choice is to trust Him.
Let’s do a little survey of Bible people who God has used to teach us the reality of trusting a Sovereign, intimate, and eternal God.  These are all people who tried to do right, obey God, but had stuff happen that gave them reason to ask why:
·      Job was a model citizen who served God with a passion; his life fell apart and the pain of not knowing why was killing him.
·      Joseph loved God and behaved himself; his brothers threw him in a hole, then sold him to slave traffickers…why, indeed?
·      Paul gave up everything he’d ever earned, including the respect and trust of the movers and shakers of the world, just to serve God; he got shipwreck, beatings, humiliation, prison, and eventually beheaded.  Why?
·      Peter knew Jesus, and served Jesus, and loved Jesus ferociously; as thanks he got crucified upside-down.  Why?
·      John, the apostle Jesus favored more than just about anyone else spent his retirement years imprisoned in a God-forsaken island prison camp working on the chain gang, digging coal.
But the biggest why of all belongs to the carpenter’s son, Jesus.  He gave his life helping others, teaching love, healing lepers, cripples, blind beggars, feeding the multitudes, and standing up for the oppressed.  They beat Him, mocked Him, and put Him on a cross.  In the end he cried out why have You forsaken me?  I tend to think Jesus understood the cost of sin being forgiven was to have the Father turn his back on Him.  He said that because the pain was great to bear, and we needed to know that He knows our pain. 
He said it to bear our pain…That’s Why!   
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit…Amen!

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