Showing posts with label Counselling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Counselling. Show all posts

Friday, October 19, 2018

The Wisdom of Elihu - Part 2

Friday, October 19, 2018
Elihu, Job’s friend, continues his speech from yesterday, attempting to show Job the futility of arguing with God:

“Pay attention to this, Job.  Stop and consider the wonderful miracles of God!  Do you know how God controls the storm and causes the lightning to flash from his clouds?  Do you understand how he moves the clouds with wonderful perfection and skill?  When you are sweltering in your clothes and the south wind dies down and everything is still, he makes the skies reflect the heat like a bronze mirror.  Can you do that?  “So teach the rest of us what to say to God.  We are too ignorant to make our own arguments.  Should God be notified that I want to speak?  Can people even speak when they are confused?  We cannot look at the sun, for it shines brightly in the sky when the wind clears away the clouds.  So also, golden splendor comes from the mountain of God.  He is clothed in dazzling splendor.  We cannot imagine the power of the Almighty; but even though he is just and righteous, he does not destroy us.  No wonder people everywhere fear him.  All who are wise show him reverence.”  Job 37:14-24(NLT)

Yesterday, Elihu (in my humble opinion), flirted with the border of meddling where he didn’t belong, flinging out a defense of God’s character and behavior.  He offered the standard thinking of the day:  if you’re suffering, you’ve done something wrong, and God is justified in raking you over the coals until you get it right.
However, I believe Elihu missed two important points:
a.      He wasn’t qualified to know Job’s insides, and what guilt was or wasn’t there
b.      He definitely wasn’t qualified to know God’s insides, and why God does what God does!
Common sense would have been well-served had Elihu followed the advice of the sage:  It is better to keep one’s mouth shut and be thought a fool, than to open that mouth and remove all doubt![2]
Well, here, even though Elihu’s lips are still cranking out what his brain is trying to understand, he seems to have scrambled back on the higher ground of reverence for both God and Job, his friend, who appears to be going under in a classic crash-and-burn of self-justification. Elihu rehearses for Job some of the everyday miracles of God’s sovereignty over the universe – the heavens filled with clouds, thunder and lightning, and just like trying to look into that fireball of a sun with naked eyes will blind you, attempting to scrutinize Jehovah’s right to meddle with Job’s good life could get you toasted to a crisp.  Elihu is telling his friend to be careful when he opens a conversation with God.
As much as there is wisdom and verity in what Elihu says (and probably a very pure-hearted concern for Job), I still must take issue with that part about being careful when you speak to God.  Rather, I would say it is at those times when you talk to God that it is particularly important to drop your guard completely and let everything out!
Prayer is not a time to convince God of anything or try to flatter God into giving you what you want.  Prayer is a time for emptying the heart and letting God choose what to put in there.  As others, wiser than I have suggested, I don’t change circumstances by my prayer; in prayer God changes me to stand and face the circumstances.  I am like a frightened little boy who runs to his Papa.  Papa embraces me, and then turns me around to face what frightened me…from HIS perspective.
For You Today
And so, the bottom line, for Elihu, Job, or any of us, is:
When you go to God, don’t hold back…run full-speed into His arms, empty it all out, fears, needs, sorrow, joy, anger, unbelief…
And then don’t be surprised when he turns you back around to face the music; just know that you’re not standing alone…He’s standing right where He can have your back!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image: Courtesy of Pixabay.com
[2] Proverbs 17:28 (also famously attributed to such wise men as Mark Twain and Abraham Lincoln)

Thursday, October 18, 2018

The Wisdom of Elihu

Thursday, October 18, 2018
Elihu, Job’s friend is speaking, attempting to show Job where he slipped off the road and got so derailed that God had to use drastic misery measures to straighten him out:

“Let me go on, and I will show you the truth.  For I have not finished defending God!  I will present profound arguments for the righteousness of my Creator.  I am telling you nothing but the truth, for I am a man of great knowledge.  “God is mighty, but he does not despise anyone!  He is mighty in both power and understanding.  He does not let the wicked live but gives justice to the afflicted.  He never takes his eyes off the innocent, but he sets them on thrones with kings and exalts them forever.  If they are bound in chains and caught up in a web of trouble, he shows them the reason.  He shows them their sins of pride.  He gets their attention and commands that they turn from evil.  “If they listen and obey God, they will be blessed with prosperity throughout their lives.  All their years will be pleasant.  But if they refuse to listen to him, they will cross over the river of death, dying from lack of understanding.  For the godless are full of resentment.  Even when he punishes them, they refuse to cry out to him for help.  They die when they are young, after wasting their lives in immoral living.  But by means of their suffering, he rescues those who suffer.  For he gets their attention through adversity.  “God is leading you away from danger, Job, to a place free from distress.  He is setting your table with the best food.  Job 36:2-16(NLT)

With each statement Elihu throws out, God is “defended” just as this wise man proclaimed he would do…and yet, each statement becomes a target.  While his words are true in one sense, they fall apart elsewhere…at least from the human perspective.
For instance, being blessed with prosperity throughout their lives will be wildly applauded in Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church, but does that mean everyone living under the poverty line is a big-time sinner?  Or if Joel’s words are accurate, meaning prosperity will be measured with financial gain, that God somehow has lied, and keeps poor people from His blessing?
Twisting Scripture or using circular logic because God’s Word says one thing, and you want it to mean something else, is just plain wrong.  God’s Word is a stand-alone reality, needing nothing of human wisdom to complete what God wants to say. 
(That being said, I must be out of my mind to comment daily on God’s Word in this devotional…right?)
The whole point of what I want to say today is what I say often to the congregations who listen to my sermons every week:  Don’t just listen to what I say; check everything I say against God’s Word.  Hold me accountable to God’s Word! 
In the same way, don’t fall into the trap of Elihu.  He said some wise things to Job, but when you check out the first chapter of this book and hear the conversation in Heaven between Lucifer and God, you find out Job was not the problem; he hadn’t walked away from God, sinning so badly God had to pour adversity on him to get his attention.  Job was a poster child of obedience and worship.  In fact, he was so good God held him up as a challenge to Lucifer so that Job’s troubles could be a blessing to you and me.  God wanted us to witness the unfolding of God allowing bad stuff to happen to good people. 
Elihu, as wise as he was, had not heard the dialogue, nor read the transcript of the Heavenly plans that God was working out.  And so, he made the rookie counselling error of pushing his pet and pat theology on Job’s misery.  It was unrighteous salt in a righteous wound supervised in Heaven’s surgery center.
For You Today
If you’ve got a friend going through some deep water that doesn’t seem to make any sense, resist Elihu’s error, running off the at the mouth, giving all sorts of godly-sounding reasons for their misery.  Just do what Elihu started out with; sit with your friend – and sit silently.  God will speak when God is ready.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image: Courtesy of Pixabay.com