Showing posts with label Infidelity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Infidelity. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Broken Covenant

Tuesday, July 26, 2016
“O Israel and Judah, what should I do with you?” asks the Lord.  “For your love vanishes like the morning mist and disappears like dew in the sunlight.  I sent my prophets to cut you to pieces—to slaughter you with my words, with judgments as inescapable as light.  I want you to show love, not offer sacrifices.  I want you to know me more than I want burnt offerings.  But like Adam, you broke my covenant and betrayed my trust.   Hosea 6:4-7(NLT)

This year has been particularly disturbing in the denomination to which I belong.  Officially the church has orthodox (traditional) doctrine and polity.  Recently that has meant nothing to a segment of leaders within the denomination.   Preacher groups on Facebook, as well as watchdog parachurch organizations have just blown-up with outrage over flagrant violations of our Book of Discipline (the rules, bylaws that govern behavior and consequences of members and clergy alike).

Here’s the most recent straw threatening to break the camel’s back:  A few weeks ago the Western Jurisdiction of the United Methodist Church elected as a new bishop a clergywoman, Dr. Karen Oliveto, a practicing lesbian, and married for more than two years to another woman.[ii]

Now, the first question many would ask is, why would the church do that?  Well, the reality is the church didn’t do that.  It was a small, tightly-run group of activists engineering an election outcome to push the door open on this Pandora’s Box of legitimizing homosexuality.  The other bishops are largely powerless to address the issue, at least formally. 

Some complaints have already been filed, and it will be up to the denomination’s Judicial Council (the United Methodist version of a Supreme Court) to decide on the validity of this new “bishop’s” election.  That will take some time.

In the meantime a small percentage of UMC clergy have been performing same-sex marriage ceremonies (also strictly forbidden by church policy) and relatively little is being done to remedy this renegade heresy.

Most of those who are participating in this practice have flatly stated they will continue to do so, despite the vows they took to uphold our covenantal relationship of a connection in Christ. 

To say this flaunts the very limits of ethical behavior would be akin to suggesting that the Pope may be slightly Catholic.  It is, as God laments through the prophet Hosea, a breaking of covenant and betrayal of trust.

One UMC Preacher (who recently ran for bishop in that same election process) posted a treatise on how the church needs to stay together; a posted response to that idea was something like this:

Suppose you are married, and your husband cheats?  Then he cheats again.  The two of you go to counselling to see about fixing this rift and he offers no remorse, no apology, and flatly states that he will continue to jump into bed with others at his own discretion.  He doesn’t care what vows you made together when you got married.  This feels right, so he will do it.

That is broken covenant.  It is spiritual adultery.  It is the same kind of thing Israel and Judah did when they ignored their God and did their own thing.  In reading Israel’s history you would have to admit, God was not pleased…and Israel suffered because of God’s judgment.

UMC leaders would do well to go back to seminary and learn this basic lesson of obedience.

For You Today

In light of my airing the dirty laundry of my denomination here, it seems this would be a good day to take a good look at those areas of our own lives that may need a rinse-out!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today…have a blessed day!

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NOTES
[i] Title Image: By Pink Sherbet Photography from Utah, USA, via Wikimedia Commons

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Two BILLION!

Friday, June 6, 2014
“I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart.  And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give.  So don’t be troubled or afraid.     John 14:27 (NLT)
In the world of professional sports nothing much surprises me anymore.  Donald and Shelly Sterling have owned the L.A. Clippers basketball team since 1981 when they bought the franchise for about $12 million.  They’ve found a buyer for $2 billion….TWO BILLION!  That’s like, two-thousand million. 

I’m just about speechless!  (Nobody at our church would believe that).

It’s not that a group of buyers are willing to pay that much.  The cost of a sports franchise reaching nine zeros goes along with the big business genus; big business costs big bucks.  What I have a hard time getting my mind around is how the sports and financial business is so much bigger in all this than integrity and fidelity. 

Consider what started the firestorm that is the Sterling-NBA headline squabble:  Donald Sterling was recorded uttering racial slurs in a (supposedly) private conversation with an African American woman he was pursuing.

Sterling, a white, lawyer-billionaire who has little respect for his players (who are mostly African-American), was cheating on his wife, chasing a black woman whose integrity was tied to a digital recorder.  The National Basketball Association was pushing to get the Sterlings out of ownership while the Sterlings threatened lawsuits.  

So, there you have it, Los Angeles drama at its finest:  sex, racism, legal posturing, money and headlines. 

Where is Integrity?  Where is Fidelity?  Where is Respect?

Or it just big business, power and unrestrained hedonism?

Sounds like the rarefied air of the fast-lane version of the American dream is more nightmare than sugar plums.

Where is peace of heart, soul and mind in any of that?  Answer…absent! 

By contrast, Jesus did not stutter when he told the disciples that the world (and all of its riches, power and fame) cannot give you a single cubit of peace.  But his gift is genuine peace; it’s a heart that is calm and a mind that is opened to life abundant. 

And the fact that God’s gift of free will to us allows us to choose what we will pursue in life sets-up the Garden of Eden all over again for each of us.  What will it be?  Shall we respond like mesmerized sailors to the siren calls of the mermaids of modern culture, where you’re promised bigger, better, more and more…all you ever wanted or dreamed of?

Or does your inner being require something more substantial?

For You, Today

There’s a better gift for you waiting in the wings; peace He gives!