Showing posts with label Respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Respect. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 9, 2021

Widows & Orphans

 

Tuesday, November 9, 2021

Never speak harshly to an older man, but appeal to him respectfully as you would to your own father.  Talk to younger men as you would to your own brothers.  Treat older women as you would your mother, and treat younger women with all purity as you would your own sisters.  Take care of any widow who has no one else to care for her.  But if she has children or grandchildren, their first responsibility is to show godliness at home and repay their parents by taking care of them.  This is something that pleases God.  Now a true widow, a woman who is truly alone in this world, has placed her hope in God.  She prays night and day, asking God for his help.  But the widow who lives only for pleasure is spiritually dead even while she lives.  Give these instructions to the church so that no one will be open to criticism.  But those who won’t care for their relatives, especially those in their own household, have denied the true faith.  Such people are worse than unbelievers.                            1 Timothy 5:1-8

You cannot understate the importance of this passage.  Paul, the elder statesman of the fledgling Christian church, is passing along advice to a young pastor, his protégé, Timothy.  Paul is not simply handing Timothy a twelve-pound book of rules, but gives him life principles of attitudes and actions that apply at any age to the formation of Christian lives: 

·       Speaking to others with respect and care

·       Respect for women

·       Helping the helpless

·       Caring for aging family members

These life principles are so important in everyday living because they develop character and an attitude that strengthen any family towards Godliness, which leads to stronger, more Godly communities, that which is pleasing to God.

In our current culture, homelessness, divorce, domestic violence, and the abuse of children are not isolated numbers on a chart of trends; more they are the sad tell-tale spots of the spiritual illness that has rotted the strength of attitude and resolve to be Godly people.  We have managed to promote personal happiness as a cultural right so vigorously, Godliness has been disappearing in the rearview mirror. 

To illustrate that this is so, one need only point to the disarray of relationship our culture exhibits to God’s chief blessing for strength in the home – His church.  Say what you like about the demise of the importance of church in the 21st century, I lay blame at the feet of selfish desire to have personal fulfillment, rather than Godly wholeness.  Godly worship has changed from the obvious to the optional. 

Certainly, the abuses of clergy, ebb-and-flow of cultural preferences in worship styles, and other sad distractions do factor-in when it comes to the dismantling of institutions – including the church.  However, the real loser is the family.  The church has become the new widow, a directionless, homeless bride, slipping through the cracks of this culture’s quest for a supposed better life

It is time for those who truly worship God to state this message clearly and without apology, both in word and deed:

Without the church, families will become just another option,                                             not God’s primary gift of strength for all human existence.

For You Today

In another post, last year[1] I wrote:  It has been said that evangelism is one beggar telling another where he has found bread.  For the helpless, homeless, and hopeless among us, they must never become them or those people; WE must be one widow, orphan, or stranger showing another where there is kindness.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!  

[1] Title and Other Images:  Wikimedia Commons (public domain)  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©   

[1] See post from January 31, 2020, Widows, Orphans, & Strangers


 

Monday, March 8, 2021

The All-Inclusive Temple of God

 

Monday, March 8, 2021

Don’t you realize that all of you together are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God lives in you?  God will destroy anyone who destroys this temple. For God’s temple is holy, and you are that temple.  Stop deceiving yourselves. If you think you are wise by this world’s standards, you need to become a fool to be truly wise.  For the wisdom of this world is foolishness to God.  As the Scriptures say, “He traps the wise in the snare of their own cleverness.”  And again, “The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise; he knows they are worthless.”  So don’t boast about following a particular human leader.  For everything belongs to you—whether Paul or Apollos or Peter, or the world, or life and death, or the present and the future.  Everything belongs to you, and you belong to Christ, and Christ belongs to God.  1 Corinthians 3:16-23

There’s a truckload of talk about “inclusiveness” these days.  I perceive the overall sense of that word means that every person, with all their thoughts, ideas, quirks, nuances, proclivities, and baggage, is to be treated with respect.   

That’s not a bad thing, really.  It’s something like my mother taught me about manners.  Mom was pretty smart.  She was the Sunday School Superintendent at the church of my youth, and she always used a flannel-graph board with Bible pictures for the opening assembly to teach us kids about following Jesus.  One lesson was about the Golden Rule – treat others the way you want to be treated.  On the surface that seems quite doable.  You just live, and let-live, you know, don’t mess with what’s not yours, and don’t pull Peggy Broadway’s pigtails.   

The problem with that kind of thinking is that it’s largely passive, not doing anything to harm someone else…just leave them alone.  However, consider the Golden Rule from Jesus’ perspective:  treat others – that’s anything but passive; “treat” is a verb, displaying action, or, in the case of people, interaction

The apostle James taught the sense of being an active vs. passive Christian:

Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing.  What good does that do?     James 2:15-16

The trouble with being an active follower of Jesus is that it requires more.  Just leaving someone else alone requires nothing but a little restraint.  Okay, sometimes a lot of restraint if they have more than their share of “crazy”.  Being an active believer means being vulnerable; you must accept responsibility for meeting needs, defending the weaker ones of the human tribe, and stepping up to the plate in what your brother can’t do for himself.

This is like the difference between Cancel Culture and coming-up with helpful, real-world solutions.  Cancel culture enacted requires nothing…you don’t say this, or do that…it’s all passive.  Coming up with genuine solutions means you must speak, you must act.  To do less is to allow evil the whole stage!

Paul told the Corinthian believers to stop living in delusion.  His real-world solution for evil was to remember that everything created was given to us by God for use, enjoyment, and for helping to take care of every need.  And this means feeding our hungry sister, clothing our naked brother, and visiting our wayward cousin in jail. 

And it’s because all the stuff belongs to us, and each of us belongs to all the others of us, and all of it belongs to God.  No matter what level you prefer in that assessment, wherever you scratch at it, you will find human need, and the hand of God.  If we’re going to be an inclusive bunch on this planet, we’ve got to keep that in mind…and act that way.

For You Today

This whole concept of belonging to, or being part-of the all-inclusive temple of God is a huge concept to digest.  Living-into that is even bigger.  The good news is that you don’t have to eat that whole elephant in one bite.  Just be a little more alert this day to the people and circumstances God puts in front of you on this day.  And leave them both better than you found them.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!  

[1] Title Image:  Courtesy of Pixabay.com    Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©

Thursday, April 9, 2020

Passover's New Day


Thursday of Holy Week, April 9, 2020

While the Israelites were still in the land of Egypt, the Lord gave the following instructions to Moses and Aaron: “From now on, this month will be the first month of the year for you. Announce to the whole community of Israel that on the tenth day of this month each family must choose a lamb or a young goat for a sacrifice, one animal for each household. If a family is too small to eat a whole animal, let them share with another family in the neighborhood. Divide the animal according to the size of each family and how much they can eat.  Exodus 12:1-4

11 “These are your instructions for eating this meal: Be fully dressed,[a] wear your sandals, and carry your walking stick in your hand. Eat the meal with urgency, for this is the Lord’s Passover. 12 On that night I will pass through the land of Egypt and strike down every firstborn son and firstborn male animal in the land of Egypt. I will execute judgment against all the gods of Egypt, for I am the Lord! 13 But the blood on your doorposts will serve as a sign, marking the houses where you are staying. When I see the blood, I will pass over you. This plague of death will not touch you when I strike the land of Egypt.  14 “This is a day to remember. Each year, from generation to generation, you must celebrate it as a special festival to the Lord. This is a law for all time.  Exodus 12:11-14

Passover, the marking of the first day of freedom for the Israelites leaving Egypt, began last night, and ends with sundown this evening.  Jewish families will gather at the table and recite Scripture, explain their epic history of being God’s chosen people, joyful, worshipping people, disobedient, sinful people, and, like us, forgiven people; they will eat the meal of haste and remember.
As part of the remembering process they will think on the new order of things as God instructed them to consider this date as their New Year.  After 400 years of slavery they were getting a do-over, released from bondage to liberty.  This was their Fourth of July…a new, released-and-back-on-mission family of God.
I can’t help connecting this New Day feel to what we’re experiencing right now.  Of course our “bondage” to Coronavirus is only a few months old; hardly a four-century saga of suffering.  But I cannot help shaking the thought that we are on the cusp of a new normal that is game-changing.  And, if you’re asking exactly what that means, I have to demur speculation in favor of fuzzy.  I only have an impression something looms large for the human race. 
I will tell you what I hope, and that for which I pray: 

He who is the faithful witness to all these things says, “Yes, I am coming soon!”  Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!  Revelation 22:20

But, absent of that final prayer and promise of Scripture, the other possibility in my mind and heart is a regeneration of respect. 
·      Respect for our tongues and ears – where there is a kinder, gentler, more positive tone in daily speak in conversations, media, and any interaction between humans.
·      Respect for our stewardship of God’s resources
·      Respect for being what God created, not what our darkness imagined
·      Respect for God, Himself…a regeneration of refreshing revival
Our world has had enough of terrorism, plagues, and living in fear.  It’s time to get along and live the love of Passover’s New Day.
For You Today
The role of the church is not exhausted just because we’ve been locked out of our buildings.  Somehow, it seems, the church is reborn every time the pressure cooker of life starts to blow off steam.  This day is our new chance to get it right.

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You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!
Title Image:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©
For other posts on Exodus 12 and the Passover see Ready to Travel and Seder; Meal of Haste and This Holy Week – Part 4

Thursday, January 9, 2020

Honor the Lord

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Thursday, January 9, 2020

Honor the Lord, you heavenly beings; honor the Lord for his glory and strength.  Honor the Lord for the glory of his name.  Worship the Lord in the splendor of his holiness.  The voice of the Lord echoes above the sea.  The God of glory thunders.  The Lord thunders over the mighty sea.  The voice of the Lord is powerful; the voice of the Lord is majestic.  The voice of the Lord splits the mighty cedars; the Lord shatters the cedars of Lebanon.  He makes Lebanon’s mountains skip like a calf; he makes Mount Hermon leap like a young wild ox.  The voice of the Lord strikes with bolts of lightning.  The voice of the Lord makes the barren wilderness quake; the Lord shakes the wilderness of Kadesh.  The voice of the Lord twists mighty oaks and strips the forests bare.  In his Temple everyone shouts, “Glory!”  The Lord rules over the floodwaters.  The Lord reigns as king forever.  The Lord gives his people strength.  The Lord blesses them with peace.                          Psalm 29:1-11

The old story has it that the elderly woman is walking out of church after worship and says to the pastor, I hope you didn’t take it personally, Reverend, when my husband walked out during your sermon.
The preacher replied, I did find it rather disconcerting.
It’s not a reflection on you, sir, insisted the church goer.
Arthur has been walking in his sleep ever since he was a child.
If you Google the phrase sleeping in church, you’ll come up with 69.3 million web hits…most of them either funny, and/or referring to the lukewarm sleepy church in Laodicea. 
However, there is nothing humorous about being disrespectful to the Lord.  This Psalm has 11 verses with a total of 20 references to God or LORD as relates to His majestic power, beneficent kindness, or sovereign control of the universe.  There is nothing about God that suggests we ought to be bored in His presence.
I have seen my share of boredom in churches.  Some of it is age or attention-span related, or getting too close to the nap hour, or medication, or simply having stayed out too late on Saturday night.  Truth be told, though, I would have gone to sleep during some of my sermons.  However, that is on the preacher, and should never be used as an excuse for a child of God to let others’ failings become their downfall when it comes to honoring the Lord.
I’ve been in a lot of churches over the years and listened to a lot of sermons; more than a few could’ve used a little more preparation by the parson.  But I’ve never come away from a worship service without a sense of having been in the presence of the holy.  And I believe that’s because I was seeking His presence when I went there.  King David advised his son to treat his relationship with God that way:

“And Solomon, my son, learn to know the God of your ancestors intimately. Worship and serve him with your whole heart and a willing mind. For the Lord sees every heart and knows every plan and thought. If you seek him, you will find him. But if you forsake him, he will reject you forever.                 1 Chronicles 28:9

For You Today
Worship – for the life of your soul is as important as breathing – for the life of your body.  Fighting through boredom when it tries to dismember your spiritual life is as much Kingdom warfare as any prayer you’ve ever lifted.  And the stakes are high; don’t let Satan laugh over the joke you become when you’re sleeping on the worship job.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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[1] Title Image:  Slideshare.com      Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©

Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Religious Reeds Bending in the Wind

Ash Wednesday, March 6, 2019

“Shout with the voice of a trumpet blast.  Shout aloud!  Don’t be timid.  Tell my people Israel of their sins!  Yet they act so pious!  They come to the Temple every day and seem delighted to learn all about me.  They act like a righteous nation that would never abandon the laws of its God.  They ask me to take action on their behalf, pretending they want to be near me.  ‘We have fasted before you!’ they say.  ‘Why aren’t you impressed?  We have been very hard on ourselves, and you don’t even notice it!’   “I will tell you why!” I respond.  “It’s because you are fasting to please yourselves.  Even while you fast, you keep oppressing your workers.  What good is fasting when you keep on fighting and quarreling?  This kind of fasting will never get you anywhere with me.  You humble yourselves by going through the motions of penance, bowing your heads like reeds bending in the wind.  You dress in burlap and cover yourselves with ashes.  Is this what you call fasting?  Do you really think this will please the Lord?  “No, this is the kind of fasting I want:  Free those who are wrongly imprisoned; lighten the burden of those who work for you.  Let the oppressed go free, and remove the chains that bind people.  Share your food with the hungry, and give shelter to the homeless.  Give clothes to those who need them, and do not hide from relatives who need your help.  “Then your salvation will come like the dawn, and your wounds will quickly heal.  Your godliness will lead you forward, and the glory of the Lord will protect you from behind.  Then when you call, the Lord will answer.  ‘Yes, I am here,’ he will quickly reply.  “Remove the heavy yoke of oppression.  Stop pointing your finger and spreading vicious rumors!  Feed the hungry, and help those in trouble.  Then your light will shine out from the darkness, and the darkness around you will be as bright as noon.  The Lord will guide you continually, giving you water when you are dry and restoring your strength.  You will be like a well-watered garden, like an ever-flowing spring.  Some of you will rebuild the deserted ruins of your cities.  Then you will be known as a rebuilder of walls and a restorer of homes.  Isaiah 58:1-12(NLT)

“Going through the motions of penance” is what some of my colleagues used to call profession without possession.  It’s saying the right things (that other people need to hear to accept you as part of the group) without meaning it; there’s plenty of talking the talk, and precious little walking the walk.
This was Isaiah’s message to Israel.  They claimed to be God’s people, even showing up at the temple daily for prayer and instruction; they went away no different than when they walked in the front door.
A modern-day counterpart of Isaiah’s wayward generation would be a man who is well-respected down at the church, because he’s a leader, well-spoken, often at the head of committees, even teaching the class in Sunday School.  When he leaves the church house in his distinctive $70,000 SUV he heads for the club, dines and drinks lavishly, having exceeded the intoxication limits twice-over.  On the way home he plows through a red light and a young family of four in an old sedan.  He looks around, sees no witnesses and speeds off.  When he awakens the next morning his wife is making so much noise cleaning up the mess he made crashing around in his drunken stupor, he launches into a vicious tirade, beats her unconscious, showers and takes off in his slightly dented SUV to attend the opening of the new battered women’s shelter he helped sponsor, so he can cut the ceremonial ribbon.  The mayor, in his dedication speech is effusive in his praise of this fine citizen, who is a Godly pillar of the community.  All the citizens applaud, like reeds bending in the wind.  Certainly, God in His heaven must have a special place for someone like that.
For You Today
Ash Wednesday is a red light in the traffic pattern of the year.  We should use the time to take stock.  Instead of the usual rehashing of how tough it’s been, or how much you’d like to do, or the chocolate you’ll do without over the next 40 days, how about taking out the checkbook and calendar.  Look at what you did with the resources and time God gave you over the past year. 
As we push through the next six weeks of Lent towards the celebration of Easter’s gift, that most important giving up should be the tendency to go through the motions like so many religious reeds bending in the wind.  How about refreshing the scene by finding someone whose life you can bless with not the slightest chance they ever could or ever would repay you? 
God just might be pleased with that kind of fasting!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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Sunday, July 1, 2018

When All is Well


What sorrow awaits the unjust judges and those who issue unfair laws.  They deprive the poor of justice and deny the rights of the needy among my people.  They prey on widows and take advantage of orphans.  What will you do when I punish you, when I send disaster upon you from a distant land?  To whom will you turn for help?  Where will your treasures be safe?  You will stumble along as prisoners or lie among the dead.  But even then the Lord’s anger will not be satisfied.  His fist is still poised to strike.  “What sorrow awaits Assyria, the rod of my anger.  I use it as a club to express my anger.  I am sending Assyria against a godless nation, against a people with whom I am angry.  Assyria will plunder them, trampling them like dirt beneath its feet.  But the king of Assyria will not understand that he is my tool; his mind does not work that way.  His plan is simply to destroy, to cut down nation after nation.  He will say, ‘Each of my princes will soon be a king.  We destroyed Calno just as we did Carchemish.  Hamath fell before us as Arpad did.  And we destroyed Samaria just as we did Damascus.  Yes, we have finished off many a kingdom whose gods were greater than those in Jerusalem and Samaria.  So we will defeat Jerusalem and her gods, just as we destroyed Samaria with hers.’”  After the Lord has used the king of Assyria to accomplish his purposes on Mount Zion and in Jerusalem, he will turn against the king of Assyria and punish him—for he is proud and arrogant.  He boasts, “By my own powerful arm I have done this.  With my own shrewd wisdom I planned it.  I have broken down the defenses of nations and carried off their treasures. I have knocked down their kings like a bull.  I have robbed their nests of riches and gathered up kingdoms as a farmer gathers eggs.  No one can even flap a wing against me or utter a peep of protest.”  But can the ax boast greater power than the person who uses it?  Is the saw greater than the person who saws?  Can a rod strike unless a hand moves it?  Can a wooden cane walk by itself?  Therefore, the Lord, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, will send a plague among Assyria’s proud troops, and a flaming fire will consume its glory.  The Lord, the Light of Israel, will be a fire; the Holy One will be a flame.  He will devour the thorns and briers with fire, burning up the enemy in a single night.  The Lord will consume Assyria’s glory like a fire consumes a forest in a fruitful land; it will waste away like sick people in a plague.  Of all that glorious forest, only a few trees will survive—so few that a child could count them!  In that day the remnant left in Israel, the survivors in the house of Jacob, will no longer depend on allies who seek to destroy them.  But they will faithfully trust the Lord, the Holy One of Israel.  A remnant will return; yes, the remnant of Jacob will return to the Mighty God.  But though the people of Israel are as numerous as the sand of the seashore, only a remnant of them will return.  The Lord has rightly decided to destroy his people.  Yes, the Lord, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, has already decided to destroy the entire land.  So this is what the Lord, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, says: “O my people in Zion, do not be afraid of the Assyrians when they oppress you with rod and club as the Egyptians did long ago.  In a little while my anger against you will end, and then my anger will rise up to destroy them.”  The Lord of Heaven’s Armies will lash them with his whip, as he did when Gideon triumphed over the Midianites at the rock of Oreb, or when the Lord’s staff was raised to drown the Egyptian army in the sea.  In that day the Lord will end the bondage of his people.  He will break the yoke of slavery and lift it from their shoulders.
What sorrow awaits you who are praised by the crowds, for their ancestors also praised false prophets.  Luke 6:26 (NLT)
Woe, when all speak well of you!  Have you ever gotten a pat on the back with praise for a job well done?  Was it truly a pat on the back, or was the patter simply checking the target zone for inserting a knife?  If you’re going to be in politics these days, you might as well get used to that kind of praise and pat-down! 
Isaiah’s prophecy reads like a glowing reminder; a flashing, iridescent red caution light which ought to be on every world leader’s desk to be humble, worship and honor God, and lead as if the Lord God, Jehovah, Yahweh is watching closely…. because He IS!
In the text before us God is about to bring down the hammer of judgment on Israel for their ungodliness.  And strangely enough God is going to use Israel’s enemy, Assyria, a pagan nation, to swing that hammer.  If you read between the lines of this political mess you can see that conquering Israel will only mean harsher punishment in the long run for Assyria, while Israel’s punishment for deserting Yahweh, and acting like a pagan nation, will only be for a short time.  Assyria, on the other hand, will be destroyed utterly.  There’s a message in that for America…and for all the world’s leaders!
Of course, Isaiah was a prophet who, like Billy Graham, Rick Warren, and Jesse Jackson, had access to the king’s ear…the seat of power.  And so, God’s warnings through Isaiah toward Israel and Assyria were widely published.  But none of the powers that be listened to a word.  Isaiah was put aside like the preachers of Christian faith these days. 
It’s said that power corrupts, and absolute power, such as held by the king of Assyria, corrupts absolutely.  Had Isaiah’s words been full of victory, praise, and prosperity for the kings, he would have been lauded as the nation’s hero.  But Isaiah gave a stern warning of judgment because of the nation’s sin, and they threw him in jail.  Eventually they killed him by sawing him in two pieces!  So much for respecting the clergy!
Dateline:  America c.2018
As we approach the 242nd anniversary of this nation’s independence there are some parallels and lessons we can draw from Isaiah’s prophecy about Assyria and Israel.  There’s enough political wrangling in this story to choke anybody’s horse!
In Isaiah’s Israel the hot button issues were unfair judges making laws to line their pockets.  They ignored the poor, favoring their rich friends, building palaces, extravagant lifestyles and reputations, while the widows and orphans went hungry. 
With the King of Assyria, all that interested him was conquest; he was going to plunder whatever other nations had; he was going to make his mark in history.  If Israel resisted, so much the better; he then had reason to make their blood flow like a river. 
Some things never change.
In 2018 we have our controversial hot button issues too:  abortion, homosexuality in the culture and church, and, today, the issue du jour:  our border, who gets to cross it, and whether to separate children from the parents, or just charge entire families as criminals. 
The debate over such things is endless, bitter, and entirely lacking in civility.  Mostly all the arguing and bickering over these things accomplishes nothing. 
There are more than a few “sides” on each issue; it’s not just the conservatives and liberals, Democrats or Republicans.  In fact, considering we are talking about Washington D.C., there are as many sides as there are politicians.  That’s because, in the halls of any government, there are as many different agendas – mostly hidden – as there are Senators, Congresspersons, and Administration officials, elected or appointed.
So, whichever “side” you see this from, remember that all sides these days seem to be claiming that the other side is the one making unfair laws concerning whatever they’re disputing.
In much the same tone, and with the same thought process where people claim victim status these days, where everything is always someone else’s fault, we have a political climate (and therefore, a cultural dilemma) in which there is plenty of blaming going on, but precious little accepting of responsibility.  It’s a stalemate to righteousness.
In that atmosphere it is the people who wind-up choking on the bitter pill of empty promises.  We are, in the words of James, the half-brother of Jesus, governed by empty rain clouds that proclaim the rains are coming, but somehow never seem to get here.  James got that one from Solomon:
A person who promises a gift but doesn’t give it is like clouds and wind that bring no rain.  Proverbs 25:14(NLT)
A Christian MUST be better than that!  We are not arrogantly above others, but we must be above acting and thinking like the world…otherwise we deny Christ and make the cross a joke.
And so, to the point of being better than that; because there is both good and evil at work in all human activity…and because we are not God, knowing all things, there are some cautions from God’s Word we need to hear and heed about how we are to conduct ourselves in the world. 
These cautions – warnings, really – are what help us approach any debate on our current hot button controversies, or any other issue that affects us in our family, on the job, at school, or in the stores, or at ball games, or even in church. 
Here are four such CALLS TO EXHIBIT CARE in our words before we open our mouths:
1. Be respectful to everybody
If you claim to be a child of God, brother to Jesus, there is never a time when it is alright to denigrate the person or reputation of another human being.  We are, every one of us, created with the image of God stamped on our souls.  And, truth be told, we all sin that image away.  That’s why grace is required – God’s forgiveness is not extended without the cross, and none of us deserved what Jesus offered, written in His own blood.
That being said, every time you trash someone else’s reputation, either behind their back in gossip, or in-person with an in-your-face belligerence, you assault the image of God.  I have an older brother, Thom, with whom I have had disagreements – mostly when we were kids, over who gets the bigger piece of apple pie – but he is my brother.  The two of us also have a bigger Brother, named Jesus.  If I attack my brother, Thom, the line is blurry about where the attack on him ends, and the attack on Jesus begins.
Last week at Annual Conference I heard a speaker refer to our President as a dictator.  That was disrespectful, and an horrific display of what has become commonplace in our culture.  I do not agree with some of the things our President does, nor do I like the example his demeanor represents, but we must not let the atmosphere of our communication destroy any hope of fellowship.
And, by the way, that disrespect is learned VERY early in life.  Children who are allowed to run rough-shod over their parents, peers, teachers, or anyone else, either in authority, or not, are being taught by their parents that the image of God in anyone else doesn’t count.  They’re being taught to get their own way, be the center of attention, and win at all cost.  In short, they’re being taught to live like Lucifer, instead of communing like the Christ!  Respect is a hallmark of Christian character!
2. Don’t agree with those who demonize others
This warning is very much tied to respect.  It doesn’t take much to agree with those who want to blame and demonize other people (make them the villain, or the sole cause for what’s wrong).  All it takes is not speaking up in defense.  The Latin phrase is: quī tacet cōnsentīre vidētur (he who is silent is understood to consent).  If you don’t speak your objection you are complicit in someone else’s character attack on another.
Rather, then, speak-up; even when you’re afraid of the consequences, or embarrassed that you haven’t got eloquence on your side.  Speak up anyway! 
The only caution we ought to have about defending the weaker, or defending what’s right is to make certain we do it in the right spirit.  Doing the right thing with a caustic, angry spirit is harmful in the long run.  But keeping the right spirit, kind, loving, humble, and helpful, even if you make a wrong guess, or use insufficient words leaves room for God’s Spirit to work; it leaves the door open for reconciliation and progress in the Kingdom.
3. Don’t be boastful
Do you recall what Isaiah said about the King of Assyria?  The King boasted he was invincible; and here’s what God said about that:
But the king of Assyria will not understand that he is my tool; his mind does not work that way.  His plan is simply to destroy, to cut down nation after nation.  He will say, ‘Each of my princes will soon be a king.  We destroyed Calno just as we did Carchemish.  Hamath fell before us as Arpad did.  And we destroyed Samaria just as we did Damascus.  Yes, we have finished off many a kingdom whose gods were greater than those in Jerusalem and Samaria.  So we will defeat Jerusalem and her gods, just as we destroyed Samaria with hers.’” 
After the Lord has used the king of Assyria to accomplish his purposes on Mount Zion and in Jerusalem, he will turn against the king of Assyria and punish him—for he is proud and arrogant.  He boasts, “By my own powerful arm I have done this.  With my own shrewd wisdom I planned it.  I have broken down the defenses of nations and carried off their treasures. I have knocked down their kings like a bull.  I have robbed their nests of riches and gathered up kingdoms as a farmer gathers eggs.  No one can even flap a wing against me or utter a peep of protest.”  But can the ax boast greater power than the person who uses it?  Is the saw greater than the person who saws?  Can a rod strike unless a hand moves it?  Can a wooden cane walk by itself?  Therefore, the Lord, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, will send a plague among Assyria’s proud troops, and a flaming fire will consume its glory.  The Lord, the Light of Israel, will be a fire; the Holy One will be a flame.  He will devour the thorns and briers with fire, burning up the enemy in a single night.  The Lord will consume Assyria’s glory like a fire consumes a forest in a fruitful land; it will waste away like sick people in a plague.  Isaiah 10:7-19 (NLT)
In the New Testament, Paul the apostle picked up on what the Psalmist had to say about boasting:
“If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord.”      1 Corinthians 1:31(NLT)
And then a last call to be careful about our words:
4. Be ready to Hear twice and Speak once
Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters:  You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.  James 1:19(NLT)
This one is clear; God gave us all only one mouth and two ears.  The progression concerning our physical bodies ought to be a constant reminder about what God expects from His family. We are given one mouth and two ears, so our speaking should be smaller than our hearing.  Listen well before you speak.
We are given two hands and two feet; after listening well, we are to put hands and feet into action to do what God calls us to do.  So, that’s the progression; we have one mouth, two ears, four limbs.  Listen much, speak little, do help…lots!
God expects us to be faithful in attempting to influence the world and its culture for good and godliness. 
That’s what Jesus meant when he told his disciples to occupy until [I] return.   It was not the kind of “Occupy” movement of angry protest we see today.  Rather it is with the heart of Christ we embody the role of servants to all; we occupy the place of meeting the needs of the least, the last, and the lost.
And if we ever hope to be faithful towards that end, we must press on with the example of civility, kindness, charity, and the compassion of God’s Holy Spirit.
It is time for us to repent of our name calling, demonizing, blaming, boasting, and running off at the mouth every time a thought crosses our brains.  These are the kinds of things that destroy communion in the body of Christ and sour the world on the church.
It is better to be silent like Jesus before his accusers and be thought a fool, than to be constantly opening our mouths in worldly debates and prove it beyond all doubt.
Let the church say “Amen”!

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