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Friday, January 7, 2022

Epiphany's Child

 

Friday, January 7, 2022

With the Lord’s authority I say this: Live no longer as the Gentiles do, for they are hopelessly confused.  Their minds are full of darkness; they wander far from the life God gives because they have closed their minds and hardened their hearts against him.  They have no sense of shame.  They live for lustful pleasure and eagerly practice every kind of impurity.  But that isn’t what you learned about Christ.  Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception.  Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.  Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.  So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body.  And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.”  Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.  If you are a thief, quit stealing.  Instead, use your hands for good hard work, and then give generously to others in need.  Don’t use foul or abusive language.  Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.  And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live.  Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption.  Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.  Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.  Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children.             Ephesians 4:17 – 5:1

Yesterday’s devotion was of “Epiphany” the dawning of the light, coming of the Day Star, Jesus, born to set us free, to become Epiphany’s children of the light.

Apostle Paul does have a lengthy list here, of what it means to shed the darkness and live in the light.  The list includes an entire change of actions to go with the metamorphosis of mind and spirit.  It’s something like the children’s song:  If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands, stamp your feet, say ‘amen’, do all three!  There’s an echo from the sarcastic among us:  If your heart is happy, tell your face about it. 

Well, sarcasm can be funny, but never when it hits close to home.  The whole point of matching the actions of our lives with the change Christ brings to our hearts, is exiting a life of darkness into God’s marvelous light. (1 Peter 2:9)  That is no small thing – darkness is easy, because you can do anything you want, and you can blissfully ignore the consequences.  When life falls apart, you just go on to the next thing you want to do and let everyone else bear the mess you left behind.  Living in the light, however, means agape’ love, doing the right thing for your neighbors, family, friends, and even your enemies.  That’s a more demanding way to live, but whoever said following Christ down the Via Dolorosa with a cross on your back would be easy?  If you can think of anyone who said that, make sure you notify the local psyche-ward of their whereabouts; they need supervision!

For You Today

If you’re reading this, or watching on YouTube, go back to the beginning and re-read Paul’s shopping list of light replacing the darkness.  Read it slowly, looking in the mirror.  Is that what Epiphany’s child looks like?

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!  

[1] Title and Other Images:  Pixabay.com   Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©   

For other posts on this text see Catch and The Fullness of Time



 

Friday, August 2, 2019

According to Design

Monday, August 5, 2019

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting for those who belong to the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly.  Children, always obey your parents, for this pleases the Lord.  Fathers, do not aggravate your children, or they will become discouraged.  Colossians 3:18 – 21

I was going to begin this devotion with this sentence:  If only Paul hadn’t said it that way.  But, ultimately, this isn’t Paul talking!  If this is truly God’s Word, then it is He who speaks; it is also He who designed the family, giving us the way of love as our motivation, pathway, and attitude for how it all works best.
I know; I know…this goes against the grain of modern culture’s understanding of human freedom – we are to be independent, self-sufficient, inviolable, and so completely in charge of our lives, consummate masters of our fate, captains of our souls, and lost as a goose in a snowstorm!
So, is that it, Russell?  Is the world upside down…and you’re the one who’s got it all together?  I hardly have to answer that; I’ve lived long enough, and sinned big enough to know better.  I’m not the one who has it all right, but, like one beggar sharing the news with another beggar about where he’s found bread, if you’re asking about design – how God intended for us to be, and live, and act…well, I can point heaven-ward towards the Designer.  In so doing, if we’ll be honest, we see the difference between Heaven’s perfection and what’s going on down here.
For my two-cents, upside-down is a mild way of assessing where we are as a human family, let alone husbands, wives, children, and cousins by the dozens.  The family, as a nurturing, loving, safe unit is an endangered species.
One salient point for our thoughts today.  God’s word is not male-dominant and oppressive; it’s just the opposite…it is all love.  The problem is, we humans have corrupted the meaning of that word, until it is no more recognizable than a fox in a chicken suit given the keys to the hen house.
God’s love is agape, the word meaning doing the best for the other person’s sake.  That’s what God did as Jesus on the cross.  It wasn’t that God preferred to suffer a cruel, humiliating death on a cross, taking our punishment for sin…it was what was required for our redemption.  And nobody but the Son of God could accomplish that; love compelled Jesus to choose the cross.
Love is always a choice…it hardly has anything to do with romance.  When a woman becomes a wife, the act of her submitting to her husband is a choice.  It’s the same choice when I get on the Interstate.  I can choose to drive the way the designer of the road set-up as the safest, most enjoyable, most socially-beneficial way to arrive at my destination – or I can drive like Beelzebub, half in this lane, weaving into that one, 150 miles-per-hour, refusing to brake when the traffic slows.  I may have my fun (for a few moments), but road rage would be nothing compared to what will inevitably happen when reality shows up.  Same thing for the family design God gave us.  Submitting in love, doing the best for those with whom we choose, and God paces in our path, is the design.  Like it or not, that is how we’re hard wired for better or worse!
For You Today
In marriage, parenting, or anything else to do with family, career, and all interpersonal relationships, submission isn’t a cuss word; it’s the key to design, Intelligent Design, of how we’re made, and how we function best.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image:  Pixabay.com        Unless otherwise noted, Scripture used from The New Living Translation©