Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Searching for JOY - Part 3

Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God.  Whenever I pray, I make my requests for all of you with joy, for you have been my partners in spreading the Good News about Christ from the time you first heard it until now.  And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.  Philippians 1:3-6

There’s a question that must be answered before leaving all the “Mudville” stuff:

Who are the most joyful people?

It stands to reason that believers who practice their faith would be the most joyful.  As participating partners in the faith we share together the mystery and splendor of the gospel ... and that produces some things:

JOY OF PURPOSE

Paul called himself a servant.  The word literally means “slave”.  That doesn’t sound too joyful, but in ancient times a servant could come and go as he pleased, within certain limits.  A slave, however, was a lifetime property of his master.  Paul humbly addressed himself as a slave of Jesus Christ. 

It takes a great deal of humility to enslave yourself to another.  What can make a person do something like that?  Paul sensed that being In Christ was greater than anything else life offered.  Paul was a "mainstream mover and shaker" of the highest order!  Then he met Jesus on the road to Damascus, and he discovered all that self stuff was empty – empty – empty!  Paul had been climbing social, political, and personal ladders, but compared to the loveliness of Christ, all that personal fulfillment stuff paled, lost its attractiveness, and faded into oblivion. 

Paul used the phrase In Christ or In the Lord some 150 times in his epistles.  Much like a fish lives in water, Paul could feel the close, comforting, compelling presence of Jesus in every waking moment.  Paul had given himself over to the cause of Christ – it had become his purpose.  There is something unique and joyful about people who are driven from within, in a noble cause that is from above. 

In the novel, The Man Who Lost Himself[1] a detective is trailing a man in Paris.  He wants to know if the man he was after stopped at a certain hotel.  He went to the clerk at the desk and gave his own name, asking if he was there.  He knew he wasn't registered; he wanted to have the clerk search the register so he could peek!  But, to his surprise, the clerk looked up and said, Yes, he has been looking for you.  He's in room #40; I'll have you shown right up.  What could the detective do?  He followed the clerk to the room, whereupon opening the door, the man came face to face with another man who looked remarkably like himself, just 20 years older.

The story behind that story is that there is a person out there whom you must face someday.  It is the person you're becoming.  How is that happening?  The purpose to which you give yourself will define the person you will become.  Paul gave himself to Christ as Lord and Master – slave for life! 

For You Today 

The spiritual principle is that the slave will do the Master's will, and in the doing, become like the Master.  In Christ, Paul's life was purpose-filled, purposeful; he called it the joy set before him.  A partnership in the gospel gives joy of purpose.  Tomorrow we will look past purpose to peace and prayer.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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[1]Sitwell, Osbert, THE MAN WHO LOST HIMSELF, (St Clair Shores, Mich, Scholarly Press, 1971)

Monday, December 12, 2022

Echoes of the Abandoned

Dear friends.  In case you've been wondering, last week was a vacation.  Not really...cannot say that about COVID.  It was time away from doing what I love, studying, praying, preaching, and in some/many ways sharing God's love.  Thank you for your patience and prayer.  
We now resume our regularly scheduled Rocky Road interference with the complacent life. 

Monday, December 12, 2022

Why am I discouraged?  Why is my heart so sad?  I will put my hope in God!  I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!  Now I am deeply discouraged, but I will remember you—even from distant Mount Hermon, the source of the Jordan, from the land of Mount Mizar.  I hear the tumult of the raging seas as your waves and surging tides sweep over me.  But each day the Lord pours his unfailing love upon me, and through each night I sing his songs, praying to God who gives me life.  “O God my rock,” I cry, “Why have you forgotten me?  Why must I wander around in grief, oppressed by my enemies?”  Their taunts break my bones.  They scoff, “Where is this God of yours?”  Why am I discouraged?  Why is my heart so sad?  I will put my hope in God!  I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!  Psalm 42:5-11

Six times in seven verses the Psalmist uses that piercing interrogative:  WHY? There aren’t many humans who don’t go there; many live there.  We want to know why we must suffer; the question suggests a tone of intimating God may be at fault for this injustice…Me?  ME? of all people, ME?  It’s like a raging child flinging an I HATE YOU to the parent because he’s been sent to his room.  It’s odd, isn’t it, being banished to a cheerfully-decorated suite with tech-toys, computer, personal phone, and cable-loaded Smart-TV, and imagining you’re a victim of a Siberian death sentence. 

The redeeming turn of the writer’s tone is found in both the first and last verses.  Twice in this Psalm we hear:  I will put my hope in God.  In all Biblical-era literature, and many modern genres, repetition means it’s important; it means pay attentionTHIS is BIG STUFF!

To put hope in something, or someone, is to trust.  Hoping in God is the opposite of blaming God.  It is placing your full trust in His wisdom.  It is not a careless abandonment of your free will – rather, it is a considered choice to lay down the defensive victim-claiming, in favor of picking up holy hands to praise the One who created you…never doubting, even when fearing, that you acknowledge He alone is the answer, because He alone, is truly your redemption.

There are two ways (at least) to read this Psalm. 

·       The first is the blame game, with that tone that says: 

“God, what are you thinking with all this YOU are letting happen to me?” 

·       The second way is with the explanatory interrogative

“Father God, some people are asking why I suffer, and I want them all to know, I’m placing every egg I’ve got, my whole future, in Your basket, God, no matter what may come.”

For You Today  

It’s easy to go for the woe, despair, and agony on me choice #1 of blaming God.  Being a victim is so easy and acceptable in today’s culture.  Make your pain sound grotesque enough, and you’ll get a settlement in somebody’s court. 

For a believer, that’s nonsense.  We are not victims, no matter what the world may label us, do to us, or what any of the world’s big shots say about us.  We are, as Paul declared more than conquerors, held securely in the love and favor of the Father’s hands.[1]  We are never abandoned!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

       Afraid to Die   and   An Okra Kind of Christmas

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Tuesday, August 21, 2018

Formula for a Lonely Life

Tuesday, August 21, 2018
I will sing of your love and justice, Lord.  I will praise you with songs.  I will be careful to live a blameless life—when will you come to help me?  I will lead a life of integrity in my own home.  I will refuse to look at anything vile and vulgar.  I hate all who deal crookedly; I will have nothing to do with them.  I will reject perverse ideas and stay away from every evil.  I will not tolerate people who slander their neighbors.  I will not endure conceit and pride.  I will search for faithful people to be my companions.  Only those who are above reproach will be allowed to serve me.  I will not allow deceivers to serve in my house, and liars will not stay in my presence.  My daily task will be to ferret out the wicked and free the city of the Lord from their grip.  Psalm 101:1-8(NLT)   
Man, there are a LOT of I will’s and I will not’s in that Psalm!  The author is David, according to many scholars, and it agrees strongly with what Scripture says about Israel’s king:  …for the Lord has sought out a man after his own heart.  1 Samuel 13:14b(NLT) But David didn’t live up to that list of do’s and don’ts.  In fact, if you simply read the account of David’s sin with Bathsheba[2], you’ll find that the list-maker broke every single vow he made in Psalm 101. 
Lists are everywhere; there are checklists, to-do lists, parts lists, bucket-lists, and some-assembly-required lists…the (ahem) list of lists is endless! 
Lists can be very helpful, such as when I go to the store to pick up a few items…or many; without that list my life would be one continuous treadmill of return trips for a hundred forgotten items.  In my life’s work of ministry lists of the sheep for which I’m responsible is a must.  I have lists of who is in the hospital, in-crisis, has a need, or is just someone I haven’t contacted in a while.  I do depend upon my lists!
But lists can also set you up for a fall!  Once you make a list you become something of a slave to its completion.  And you also create evidence of neglect when you don’t finish what you started.
One thing I noticed about David’s list of wills and won’t is how he set himself up for a lonely life.  If you eliminate contact with all the people he categorized as he attempted to lead a “blameless life” you will also experience the loneliness of a deserted island.  David promised he would not be around anything vile or vulgar, crooked people, perverse ideas, slander, conceit, pride, reproachable people, deceivers, and liars. 
David didn’t list the hypocrites (how could he…he was guilty of all of that in his adulterous affair with Bathsheba, and the ensuing cover-up, which included murder and conspiracy?).  So, with all those unacceptable types of people in David’s life, who’s left?  The only answer I can come up with is:  children and dogs.  All the adults I know (including the one sitting at my keyboard) have all those human traits David didn’t want to be around.
The truth is, spending your life avoiding the sins of other people can be more than a full-time occupation; it can consume your whole being.  You would be like a bride in a white dress trying to stay clean in a coal mine. 
Yet, David’s list, despite David’s miserable failure, is not without merit.  The fact remains that we humans need targets; we need to have something at which we can aim.  The alternative is to wander through life, just doing the next thing that comes along.  That wandering leads to little which is truly productive, and often finds its resting place in no-good.  Just ask David!
I believe God allowed us to have Psalm 101, not as a pattern we would follow, but as an example of just how much we need grace.  It is only by the grace of God that we can have fellowship with God at all…and that reality extends to cover all human interaction. If we are to ever have a genuine relationship with another human being, it is only going to happen in truth, and with complete trust.  That means the entire list serves as the warning signs of friendship and love headed for terminus.  It is God’s loving call for us to live in grace, and extend it to others…even the reproachful, deceitful, vile, perverse, slandering, crooked liars and hypocrites who make up the human population.
For You Today
Knowing and recognizing (in yourself and others) the signs of grace deteriorating is important…it’s what leads you back to fellowship with God.  So, don’t throw away David’s list…it has a purpose.  And, about you, and me…we made that list…that list of all the people God loves!
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[2] 2 Samuel 11