Showing posts with label Unanswered Prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Unanswered Prayer. Show all posts

Monday, March 6, 2023

Believing Behavior

Monday, March 6, 2023

Then the people of Israel set out from Mount Hor, taking the road to the Red Sea to go around the land of Edom.  But the people grew impatient with the long journey, and they began to speak against God and Moses.  “Why have you brought us out of Egypt to die here in the wilderness?” they complained. “There is nothing to eat here and nothing to drink.  And we hate this horrible manna!”  So the Lord sent poisonous snakes among the people, and many were bitten and died.  Then the people came to Moses and cried out, “We have sinned by speaking against the Lord and against you.  Pray that the Lord will take away the snakes.”  So Moses prayed for the people.  Then the Lord told him, “Make a replica of a poisonous snake and attach it to a pole. All who are bitten will live if they simply look at it!”  So Moses made a snake out of bronze and attached it to a pole.  Then anyone who was bitten by a snake could look at the bronze snake and be healed!  Numbers 21:4-9

Have you ever wondered why a prayer you lifted to Heaven never got answered?  You’re not alone.  Most people are reluctant to say that out loud, fearing perhaps God might immediately strike them dead with a lightning bolt, or, at the least, they’ll be embarrassed.

I think the answer to the question about why a prayer seemingly goes unanswered has to do with our lack of believing behavior.  We fail to see how this thing we’ve asked for will be answered, and our expectation becomes our reality; nothing happens.  It’s like a golfer taking a half-hearted swing at the ball, because he really wasn’t confident he could make the shot.  The result is what he expected deep down, not what he wanted.  His behavior wasn’t believing.

Now, please don’t lump me in with the name it and claim it or blab it and grab it fruitcake clans.  Most of that tripe is, at worst, thinking you can control God, forcing the Almighty into a corner with His promises attached to your unholy and thinly-disguised greedy materialism.  At the very least it is a misguided view of who is God, and who is not God.

In the case of God’s children in the wilderness, they wanted a change from manna, that supernatural, gracious provision from Heaven.  They weren’t satisfied and began to blame God and Moses for bringing them out to the wilderness and providing everything they needed on their journey to the Promised Land…also freely offered to them by their God.  That whole snake thing could have been avoided, but their unbelief in the way God was releasing them from Egyptian bondage, made their behavior a stench in Heaven’s nostrils.   

Horrified by the thought of being exterminated by the serpents, one painful bite at a time, they turned in repentance.  They cried-out loudly:  We have sinned!    Notice however, God didn’t just make the snakes disappear; he had Moses make another snake, bronzed and on a pole.  Their faith wasn’t behavioral obedience until they looked to the serpent on the pole.  

In following through (like a golfer, confident in his shot would follow through) those who had been bitten would be healed.  Perhaps, like any good father would expect from a child who has broken the rules, the LORD wanted to see if their belief would truly become behavior.

For You Today 

If your desire is to go beyond wish kind of prayers, to faith prayers, let your behavior follow the words you utter with bowed head.  Believing Behavior!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,500 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper explore some of these:  Snake On a Pole  and  Fall, Repent, Repeat      

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Tuesday, February 14, 2023

An HONEST Prayer

 

Tuesday, February 14, 2023

How can a young person stay pure?  By obeying your word.  I have tried hard to find you—don’t let me wander from your commands.  I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.  I praise you, O Lord; teach me your decrees.  I have recited aloud all the regulations you have given us.                  I have rejoiced in your laws as much as in riches.  I will study your commandments and reflect on your ways.  I will delight in your decrees and not forget your word. Psalm 119:9-16

There are some images that stay with you for life.  Some are because they were dramatic, or explosive, like a tragic accident, or first experience with death, or birth.  There are other lifetime moments that insidiously sneak up on you. 

One of those sneaky images I have is something I heard in a pastor’s sermon many years ago about why some people don’t believe in God.  A child prays for a pony…his family lives in a city apartment, so we know how that turns out.  Later he prays that big kid in his third grade class who’s been bullying him all year will catch the fever and die.  We know God rarely grants that one.  By the time he’s a freshman in college he’s about had it with God, but he’s got a big math test coming up, so he decides to give the man upstairs (ugh…how I hate that)…just One. Last. Chance.  He stands in the field next to his college dorm and lifts the challenge:  God, if you’re really there, I need a ‘B’ on this test…no, make it an ‘A’.  With that base covered he runs to the bar where he and his fraternity buddies drink the night away.  The next day, he flunks the math test because he didn’t study at all.  His sulking thought:  I knew it; I now have proof:  there is no God!

In comparison to our young friend with the tried that praying to God thing, and it doesn’t work, attitude chip on his shoulder, the Psalmist paints a different picture, of a young person trusting God, not challenging God. 

Notice what he does:

·       He recognizes his weakness, and the need to stay close to God, so he studies God’s ways and commands. 

·       He memorizes those parts that speak warning to his heart so those will be second-nature when the temptations come.

·       He is teachable, even rejoicing while asking God to fix His Word deep in his soul.

The bottom line for this young man is open and honest with his prayers before God.

For You Today  

How’s your prayer life lately?  Is there openness with being honest, teachable, and willing to change as God directs you through His word?

If not, today’s a good day to begin.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

When Words & Deeds Collide  and  Finding Wisdom 

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Wednesday, February 8, 2023

Schizophrenic Praise - Part TWO

Wednesday, February 8, 2023

All heaven will praise your great wonders, Lord; myriads of angels will praise you for your faithfulness.  For who in all of heaven can compare with the Lord?  What mightiest angel is anything like the Lord?  The highest angelic powers stand in awe of God.  He is far more awesome than all who surround his throne.  O Lord God of Heaven’s Armies!  Where is there anyone as mighty as you, O Lord?  You are entirely faithful.  You rule the oceans.  You subdue their storm-tossed waves.  You crushed the great sea monster.  You scattered your enemies with your mighty arm.  The heavens are yours, and the earth is yours; everything in the world is yours—you created it all.  You created north and south.  Mount Tabor and Mount Hermon praise your name.  Powerful is your arm!  Strong is your hand!  Your right hand is lifted high in glorious strength.  Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne.  Unfailing love and truth walk before you as attendants.  Happy are those who hear the joyful call to worship, for they will walk in the light of your presence, Lord.  They rejoice all day long in your wonderful reputation.  They exult in your righteousness.  You are their glorious strength.  It pleases you to make us strong.  Yes, our protection comes from the Lord, and he, the Holy One of Israel, has given us our king.  

Psalm 89:5-18

I like consistency; I like to know what’s planned, and I like to see things unfold exactly as planned.  Call it O.C.D. (obsessive-compulsive disorder)…but I don’t like surprises.  It was painful to read Psalm 88 yesterday, with its darkness, despair, and questioning.  And now, here I am this morning, reading the unabashed gushing of unwavering faith and praise in Psalm 89. 

If you lay aside the circumstances of these two psalms, the change from valley to mountaintop can make one dizzy!  What a ride!

As settled as I like things and people to be in my life, I am often moody and affected by uneven circumstances and events.  Life is not charted with a straight edge.  Rather, it can be, and often is, messy.  I’ve heard all kinds of advice…

There are Psalm 88 folk who are deep thinkers…go ahead, question God, they say; Brood if you must; God will answer when he’s ready.  It’s a dark way.      Psalm 89 folk are more positive….they say (with a smile):  when you’re bummed, just lift your hands and praise!  God is good; circumstances aren’t important!  Because I’m more of a brooder, I want to smack Psalm 89 folk upside their happy countenance (in a loving, Christian way, of course!).

So, what to do?  As much as I hate to admit it, I always feel better when I praise God in a Psalm 89 burst of praise.  The problem is, the rarefied atmosphere of the mountaintop fades away, and I’m left wondering if God heard anything I said.  When I stay chained to Psalm 88, with its questioning, blood-letting agony of walking God through why His plan doesn’t seem to be working (often winding-up in the woodshed for my trouble), I am also left wondering if thinking this deeply is worthwhile.  So….maybe this is the reason why God had these Psalms put next to each other.  We are supposed to do the gut-wrenching work of Psalm 88, questioning and agonizing with God like Job.  But we’re also meant to frame it all with the praise of Psalm 89!  It’s a two-pronged fork…Probing and Praising!

For You Today  

I’ve found this to be so helpful.  Whether you’re a brooder or a praiser, get out of your rut!  Get in there and wrestle with God like Jacob at the River Jabbok Genesis 32, but then come out praising Him like a charismatic at a camp meeting!  It’s not schizophrenic – it’s living life close to the vine!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

Worship Smiles  and  Bi-Polar Prayers 

This is an updated version of “Schizophrenic Praise - 2013 published on Rocky Road Devotions August 12, 2013

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Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Schizophrenic Praise - Part ONE

Tuesday, February 7, 2023

For the choir director: A psalm of the descendants of Korah. A song to be sung to the tune “The Suffering of Affliction.”  A psalm of Heman the Ezrahite.

O Lord, God of my salvation, I cry out to you by day.  I come to you at night.  Now hear my prayer; listen to my cry.  For my life is full of troubles, and death draws near.  I am as good as dead, like a strong man with no strength left.  They have left me among the dead, and I lie like a corpse in a grave.  I am forgotten, cut off from your care.  You have thrown me into the lowest pit, into the darkest depths.  Your anger weighs me down; with wave after wave you have engulfed me. Interlude

Can those in the grave declare your unfailing love?  Can they proclaim your faithfulness in the place of destruction?  Can the darkness speak of your wonderful deeds?  Can anyone in the land of forgetfulness talk about your righteousness?  O Lord, I cry out to you.  I will keep on pleading day by day.  O Lord, why do you reject me?  Why do you turn your face from me?  I have been sick and close to death since my youth.  I stand helpless and desperate before your terrors.  Your fierce anger has overwhelmed me.  Your terrors have paralyzed me.  They swirl around me like floodwaters all day long.  They have engulfed me completely.  You have taken away my companions and loved ones.  Darkness is my closest friend.  

Psalm 88:1-7, 8-10

If contemporary worship gurus wrote hymns these days, this one would never make the list.  this song even has choir notes:  Sing it to the suffering tune.  In today's culture worship requires "happy and up-beat."  Not so in Psalm 88!

Excepting the first 6 words (O Lord, God of my salvation) the Psalm is pure lament (whining, if you will); the flood of an anguished soul.  The Psalmist is laying-out the miserable conditions of his life and, standing in the death of his emptiness, demanding an answer, Can the darkness speak?  Give me a little light on the subject, here, God!  What’s up with this life of mine? 

Ever done that?  Have you ever laid it out there for God to speak out of the darkness of your existence?  If you haven’t, or at least if your personal lament hasn’t been quite as gruesome as Psalm 88, let Scripture remind us today that the worst possible scenario has already been center stage for God’s answers.

The people which sat in darkness saw great light; and to them which sat in the region and shadow of death light is sprung up.  Matthew 4:16 (KJV)

Matthew ties the life of Jesus to Isaiah’s prophecy that a great light, God’s light on a dark world, would come to cover even the shadow of death.  While we remember that Jesus came to bring light and life, sometimes our personal darkness is so overwhelming.  Can that darkness we face really speak?  Does it say anything worthwhile?  Does it have meaning?

Do you recall the man who asked Jesus to heal his son? Mark 9  Jesus brought up the issue of faith to a man facing the darkness of losing his child.  The man said, I believe…help me out of my unbelief.  Sometimes the greatest darkness is meant to frame the light we’ve been missing; it comes to display our unbelief and the pathway home to faith.

For You Today  

Father, in this day there may be darkness ahead.  When I’m stumbling around let faith light whichever pathway brings me to you.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

Why Doesn't God Answer My Prayers?  and  Bi-Polar Prayers 

This is an updated version of “Can the Darkness Speak?” published on Rocky Road Devotions August 13, 2013

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Monday, December 19, 2022

When God Makes You Laugh

Monday, December 19, 2022

Then God said to Abraham, “Regarding Sarai, your wife—her name will no longer be Sarai.  From now on her name will be Sarah.  And I will bless her and give you a son from her!  Yes, I will bless her richly, and she will become the mother of many nations.  Kings of nations will be among her descendants.”  Then Abraham bowed down to the ground, but he laughed to himself in disbelief.  “How could I become a father at the age of 100?” he thought.  “And how can Sarah have a baby when she is ninety years old?”   Genesis 17:15-17

There are those times when God unveils a blessing that’s just too good.  Scripture records the kind of laughter Abraham experienced as unbelief.  That’s very different from being known as the father of the faithful.  But, in this case, it’s somewhat understandable.  Abraham’s heart had hungered so long for the reality of the promise God had made to him, yet he and Sarai had never been parents together.  They were well-past such things.  Now he was a hundred, and his bride was 90.  Was God unaware nursing homes aren’t equipped with maternity wards?  I can just see the smirk forming at the corners of Abram’s lips, picturing himself signing-up for Lamaze classes down at the VFW.  It seemed like a cruel joke to play on an old man.  For decades he’d hoped and been patient.  Now, when all that hope seemed a mere frustration, was God just messing with Abram’s mind? 

Rewinding the video to an earlier time, Abram had never smiled at the hard things before.  There was that moment when God said:  Pack your bags, Abe; bring Sarai and all your stuff…got something I want to show you.  Abraham looked at the horizon beckoning, and just took the first step…not much of a miracle. 

But  God asking him to believe in becoming a dad when he was already on Social Security…this was just too much a fantasy.  How could he NOT laugh?  Scripture tells us Sarai also laughed over that incredible idea, but 9 months later there was a cradle in their bedroom, and the fulfillment of God’s Word meant diapers, and a whole new way of thinking about this life of faith to which God had called them.  What a ride!

For You Today  

Have your prayers gone unanswered?  Are there some things you’ve hoped for that no other person on earth knows about, but have been almost daily in your prayers?  Does it seem too good to be true that God might be telling you to hang-in with Him a little bit longer…because His promises are certain? 

And what if it happened?  What would it be like to have God make you laugh…today?

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

   An Uncomfortable Answer from the Whirlwind and The School of Suffering and Unanswered Prayer

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Monday, December 12, 2022

Echoes of the Abandoned

Dear friends.  In case you've been wondering, last week was a vacation.  Not really...cannot say that about COVID.  It was time away from doing what I love, studying, praying, preaching, and in some/many ways sharing God's love.  Thank you for your patience and prayer.  
We now resume our regularly scheduled Rocky Road interference with the complacent life. 

Monday, December 12, 2022

Why am I discouraged?  Why is my heart so sad?  I will put my hope in God!  I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!  Now I am deeply discouraged, but I will remember you—even from distant Mount Hermon, the source of the Jordan, from the land of Mount Mizar.  I hear the tumult of the raging seas as your waves and surging tides sweep over me.  But each day the Lord pours his unfailing love upon me, and through each night I sing his songs, praying to God who gives me life.  “O God my rock,” I cry, “Why have you forgotten me?  Why must I wander around in grief, oppressed by my enemies?”  Their taunts break my bones.  They scoff, “Where is this God of yours?”  Why am I discouraged?  Why is my heart so sad?  I will put my hope in God!  I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!  Psalm 42:5-11

Six times in seven verses the Psalmist uses that piercing interrogative:  WHY? There aren’t many humans who don’t go there; many live there.  We want to know why we must suffer; the question suggests a tone of intimating God may be at fault for this injustice…Me?  ME? of all people, ME?  It’s like a raging child flinging an I HATE YOU to the parent because he’s been sent to his room.  It’s odd, isn’t it, being banished to a cheerfully-decorated suite with tech-toys, computer, personal phone, and cable-loaded Smart-TV, and imagining you’re a victim of a Siberian death sentence. 

The redeeming turn of the writer’s tone is found in both the first and last verses.  Twice in this Psalm we hear:  I will put my hope in God.  In all Biblical-era literature, and many modern genres, repetition means it’s important; it means pay attentionTHIS is BIG STUFF!

To put hope in something, or someone, is to trust.  Hoping in God is the opposite of blaming God.  It is placing your full trust in His wisdom.  It is not a careless abandonment of your free will – rather, it is a considered choice to lay down the defensive victim-claiming, in favor of picking up holy hands to praise the One who created you…never doubting, even when fearing, that you acknowledge He alone is the answer, because He alone, is truly your redemption.

There are two ways (at least) to read this Psalm. 

·       The first is the blame game, with that tone that says: 

“God, what are you thinking with all this YOU are letting happen to me?” 

·       The second way is with the explanatory interrogative

“Father God, some people are asking why I suffer, and I want them all to know, I’m placing every egg I’ve got, my whole future, in Your basket, God, no matter what may come.”

For You Today  

It’s easy to go for the woe, despair, and agony on me choice #1 of blaming God.  Being a victim is so easy and acceptable in today’s culture.  Make your pain sound grotesque enough, and you’ll get a settlement in somebody’s court. 

For a believer, that’s nonsense.  We are not victims, no matter what the world may label us, do to us, or what any of the world’s big shots say about us.  We are, as Paul declared more than conquerors, held securely in the love and favor of the Father’s hands.[1]  We are never abandoned!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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There are about 2,000 devotional posts and 400 sermons in the Rocky Road Devotions library.  To dig deeper on today’s topic, explore some of these: 

       Afraid to Die   and   An Okra Kind of Christmas

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Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Has God Forgotten to Be Gracious?

 

Tuesday, February 23, 2021

I cry out to God; yes, I shout.  Oh, that God would listen to me!  When I was in deep trouble, I searched for the Lord.  All night long I prayed, with hands lifted toward heaven, but my soul was not comforted.  I think of God, and I moan, overwhelmed with longing for his help.    Interlude
You don’t let me sleep.  I am too distressed even to pray!  I think of the good old days, long since ended, when my nights were filled with joyful songs.  I search my soul and ponder the difference now.  Has the Lord rejected me forever?  Will he never again be kind to me?  Is his unfailing love gone forever?  Have his promises permanently failed?  Has God forgotten to be gracious?  Has he slammed the door on his compassion?  Interlude
And I said, “This is my fate; the Most High has turned his hand against me.”  But then I recall all you have done, O Lord; I remember your wonderful deeds of long ago.  They are constantly in my thoughts.  I cannot stop thinking about your mighty works.  O God, your ways are holy.  Is there any god as mighty as you?  You are the God of great wonders!  You demonstrate your awesome power among the nations.  By your strong arm, you redeemed your people, the descendants of Jacob and Joseph.  Interlude

When the Red Sea saw you, O God, its waters looked and trembled!  The sea quaked to its very depths.  The clouds poured down rain; the thunder rumbled in the sky.  Your arrows of lightning flashed.  Your thunder roared from the whirlwind; the lightning lit up the world!  The earth trembled and shook.  Your road led through the sea, your pathway through the mighty waters—a pathway no one knew was there!  You led your people along that road like a flock of sheep, with Moses and Aaron as their shepherds.  Psalm 77:1-20

“Has God forgotten to be gracious?”  If the Psalmist  is anything like Russell, as soon as those words dropped from his pen to the paper, he wished he’d never thought it.  Even now I have trouble asking a question like that.  But Scripture and the gracious character of God always invite us to ask the hard questions.

Asking those “hard” questions is almost a natural response during hard times, and nothing about this decade of the 20’s is starting-off anything but hard!  The 20th century had its’ roaring twenties, the 21st century has a meek meow of COVID-19 and economic distress.  Amid the pain, separation, frustration and unanswered questions and prayers, the uneasy suspicion that lingers in the middle of sleepless nights is:  where is this God who is supposed to answer our call for help?

The easy, or quick answer:  you’re not asking the right questions, or, say ‘please’, or say it right, not wrong, or wait….  These are all easy to roll off the lips, and have some truth.  We do ask selfishly, or out of God’s will; we sometimes ask, as if in demanding; we ask without willingness to hear, or be patient

The hard answer, (hard to hear, accept, or hold onto), is that we might be praying without repentance.  We just might be calling for justice, as if we’re innocent and deserving of better than what we’ve got.  In the court system you can plead to charges in one of two basic ways:  guilty or innocent.  When you plead “innocent” it amounts to saying you have not transgressed the law.  You’re asking for justice which is reserved for those who have completely obeyed.  The other possibility is pleading guilty and throwing oneself on the mercy of the court.

Because our system of jurisprudence is largely based upon the Law, as found in Holy Scripture (e.g. Deuteronomy, Leviticus), we also find our answer in Heaven’s courts.  Scripture, from Genesis to Revelation tells the story, our story, and how there is not a “righteous” person (read that:  without guilt) in the universe[1].  The only possibility for expecting an answer from Heaven requires confession with repentance.  Frankly, given how alien that thought is in 21st century culture, is it any surprise that Heaven is silent to the questions we ask, or the so-called prayers we offer (which are, more accurately, thinly-veiled demands for justice)?

If the “hard answer” is indeed hard to hear, accept, and hold – good!  This is not a time for easy answers.  So, let’s play big boy and big girl, and get real. 

Here’s how:

If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14

For You Today

That God who is gracious…he’s just waiting for real!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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