Showing posts with label Peter Pan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Peter Pan. Show all posts

Friday, July 10, 2020

Weaning - Maturity 101

 
Friday, July 10, 2020

Lord, my heart is not proud; my eyes are not haughty.  I don’t concern myself with matters too great or too awesome for me to grasp.  Instead, I have calmed and quieted myself, like a weaned child who no longer cries for its mother’s milk.  Yes, like a weaned child is my soul within me.  O Israel, put your hope in the Lord—now and always.

The simplicity of calmness is something less practiced than wished for.  And we are our own worst enemy in this more than not.  Today’s culture teaches us to be action junkies, with TV cameras unable to stay focused on a single view longer than 1 or 2 seconds, jumping here and there.  There is more Adult Attention Deficit Disorder than calmness, because excitement is, well, more exciting than calmness.  From roller coasters to sky diving, we want the next biggest rush, an app that promises a better game, a more shiny bauble, or most fun relationship.  When it comes to the entertainment industry, action movies, or anything fast-paced is much more likely to be a box office hit, than a documentary on the mating habits of snails.  Is it any wonder our heroes are more apt to be professional athletes, movie stars, or those who produce the glitter? 
It even invades the church.  A friend, who was pastor of a large church in Florida once confided that his main goal as this prominent church’s leader was to put a roof over their 19 acres.  If bigger was better, it was go large, fast, higher and wider, or go home.  It almost cost him his family and his health by the time he realized that his push for the top was digging the health of his body and soul into a pit.
A day hardly passes where I am free from the thought of how those involved in the push for higher, more, faster, riskier, or stronger, are rarely satisfied with anything.  And the end of it is, as Solomon found out, empty!

Everything is wearisome beyond description. No matter how much we see, we are never satisfied. No matter how much we hear, we are not content.  Ecclesiastes 1:8

When is it that we ever learn how to be quiet and calm…weaned off hype, mature?
The answer to that question is what the Psalmist found out; we are able to be content when our trust is in God, and we have agreed to be weaned, just like a child finally comes to peace with starting to eat on his own, rather than nurse.  It is the opposite direction from the Peter Pan syndrome, I won’t grow up, not me, no sir!
So, can you really do it…live in 2020, unplugged, unhurried, uncharged, and not unhinged by the hype?  I believe that is possible; it is possible only with an intentional step of faith, similar to the teamwork exercise, where one person stands in front of another, arms crossed, and then falls backward, trusting the other person to catch him.  
Truth be told, that feels like suicide, jumping off a cliff.  But it is one way to develop trust between peers (that is, IF the person behind does his job…otherwise, back to trusting only self).  In the calmess of soul we seek, no other human can provide that…it is only when we fall into the arms of God that real calmness of soul happens.
It’s called weaning off the hype of activity, by choosing to fall into the health of God’s loving embrace.  It really is a leap of faith.
Let’s Pray Together:

Father, if there is one thing every soul craves, it isn’t a higher high, or more dizzying ride, glitz, glamor, or gold…that is all the stuff our carnal nature craves.  As spiritual children, we need to be weaned from that.  What mature believers really crave is calmness within.  Help us to fall into Your arms, away from the drive for more stuff that is fading and empty.

For You Today
Sometimes…no….always, people who are reaching for that next brass ring, must fall flat on their face in their push for more.  It is part of the weaning process. 
If you, or someone you love, is being weaned, go on and hurt for them, pray for them, and trust for them, that God has this…maturity doesn’t come with time, it comes when we learn to fall into God’s arms when there’s nowhere else to fall.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today.  Have a blessed day!
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Title Image:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©
For another post on Psalm 131 see Peter Pan Was Not a Christian

Wednesday, July 8, 2020

Peter Pan Was NOT a Christian

 
Wednesday, July 8, 2020

Lord, my heart is not proud; my eyes are not haughty.  I don’t concern myself with matters too great or too awesome for me to grasp.  Instead, I have calmed and quieted myself, like a weaned child who no longer cries for its mother’s milk.  Yes, like a weaned child is my soul within me.  O Israel, put your hope in the Lord—now and always.

The longer title of the story we usually shorten to Peter Pan includes:  The Boy Who Would Not Grow Up.[1]  If Peter were to walk into the room right now he would be the most teenage-looking 116 year-old you’ve ever seen; the story was written as a play in 1904.  I first saw it on TV in the 1950’s and, was so impressed, I wrote a letter to Walt Disney the next day, asking if he had any advice for me about becoming a cartoonist.  His studio sent me a very encouraging letter.
But what does any of that have to do with Psalm 131?  Well, everything, really.  In Disney’s animated movie production, Peter sings the song:  I won’t grow up!

I won't grow up, I don't want to go to school.
Just to learn to be a parrot,
And recite a silly rule.
If growing up means
It would be beneath my dignity to climb a tree,
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up  Not me!
I won't grow up,
I don't want to wear a tie.
Or a serious expression
In the middle of July.
And if it means I must prepare
To shoulder burdens with a worried air,
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
Not me, Not I, Not me! So there!
Never gonna be a man, I won't!
Like to see somebody try And make me.  Anyone who wants to try
And make me turn into a man,
Catch me if you can.
I won't grow up.
I will never even try
I will do what Peter tells me
And I'll never ask him why
We won't grow up!
We will never grow a day
And if someone tries to make it
We will simply run away
I won't grow up!
No, I promise that I won't
I will stay a boy forever
And be banished if I don't!
And Never Land will always be
The home of youth and joy
And liberty
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
Not me!
I won’t!
No sir!
Not me!
Well, where do we start?  We don’t have to speak to the obvious flaw of wanting to remain a child, removed even from acknowledging that responsibilities do exist, especially if it means we might share in that burden.  The point is Scripture[2] not only calls us to leave our childish immaturity, but shows us how we can enter the process of doing what Peter Pan detested…growing up.
The Psalmist shows us Maturity-101, first page, first paragraph, lay down pride, hush all the noise…put aside your supposed deep thoughts, and trust in the LORD! 
Scripture declares that the very beginning of wisdom is to fear (reverence) God[3].

Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true wisdom.  All who obey his commandments will grow in wisdom.  Praise him forever!  Psalm 111:10

In the children’s story, Peter Pan turned his back on this; too many have followed him into Never Never Land.
Let’s Pray Together:

Father, help us today to become wise, putting down our pride, so we can begin to trust and lean on You.  Grow us strong, LORD…we are needed by others, and there is no real strength without Christian maturity.

For You Today
C. S. Lewis wrote that he didn’t think God was necessarily concerned with us being happy in our circumstances, but rather wanted us to grow up and learn to love.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road today.  Have a blessed day!
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Title Image:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©
For other posts on Christian Maturity see Life Off Track and The Confident Hope of All Saints