Showing posts with label paying attention. Show all posts
Showing posts with label paying attention. Show all posts

Thursday, July 5, 2018

Wake Up Calls

Thursday, July 5, 2018
Jesus told him, “Stand up, pick up your mat, and walk!”  Instantly, the man was healed!  He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking!  But this miracle happened on the Sabbath, so the Jewish leaders objected.  They said to the man who was cured, “You can’t work on the Sabbath!  The law doesn’t allow you to carry that sleeping mat!”  But he replied, “The man who healed me told me, ‘Pick up your mat and walk.’”  “Who said such a thing as that?” they demanded.  The man didn’t know, for Jesus had disappeared into the crowd.  But afterward Jesus found him in the Temple and told him, “Now you are well; so stop sinning, or something even worse may happen to you.”  Then the man went and told the Jewish leaders that it was Jesus who had healed him.  John 5:8-15(NLT)
I’ve had quite a few wake-up calls in my 71 years.  Some of the things that happen to us are God’s way of getting our attention.  Here are a few of mine:
The Knees – when I was a freshman in high school the doctor looked at the lumps in my knees and called it something I couldn’t pronounce – osteochondrosis.  Even today I have to recheck the spelling on that one.  Here’s a brief definition:
Osteochondrosis is a family of orthopedic diseases of the joint that occur in children, adolescents and other rapidly growing animals, particularly pigs, horses, dogs, and broiler chickens.[2]
So, fine…my first wake-up call put me in the barnyard!  I spent a whole summer as a 14-year-old not playing baseball or getting off the couch!  But I did get to think a lot about why bad stuff happens to really good people (in my case…just why bad stuff happens).
The Bees – put me in the hospital.  I was helping Dad trim some dead branches out of the oak tree that threatened the back of our house.  I picked on the wrong branch; the one with a yellow jacket nest.  Dad was holding the ladder; he looked up when I started hollering.  (Later he told me he couldn’t see my face, it was covered in yellow and black creatures).  Anaphylactic shock from bee venom closes off your airway.  Dad raced his second-born to Doc Bleeden’s house only half-conscious.  Two days in the hospital was something of a vacation compared to jumping out of an oak tree to get away from the bees.
The Knee – this time wasn’t mine, but Harry’s when I was 16.  Harry and I played high school football together.  We were supposed to be on the same team, but this was practice, and Harry’s knee met Russell’s left side.  The spleen split, and I woke up three days later with tubes everywhere.  Once again…lots of time to think about it.
The VC’s (Vietcong) – As a nineteen-year-old, Uncle Sam thought I’d be useful in southeast Asia.  I would have preferred spending my two-year Army career in Colorado, or maybe Honolulu, but Vietnam was the order, and this time I had 11 months and 28 days to deal with heat and people who wanted me dead.  I did get to visit Honolulu, by the way; Elizabeth and I met there for R&R half-way through my Vietnam tour. 
The wake-up calls of my teens must have provided enough angst for my parent’s hair to turn white a few hundred times over. 
I’m familiar enough with these wake-up calls to know how it drives you to think about your mortality – that your days are numbered, and God has that number.  I’m also familiar enough with them to understand that, one of those wake-up calls may not do it; sometimes God needs to use a two-by-four to get our attention.  I’ll save that experience for another day!
For the man Jesus healed – a paralyzed beggar who had been that way for 38 years, sitting, begging – sitting, begging, every day for 38 years…one call just didn’t do it.  He met the King of the universe, who brought strength to useless legs, and gave him a new life…and all the man could do is report him to the human authorities, so he wouldn’t get a ticket for carrying his mat on the Sabbath!
Russell finds it hard to condemn this man…I’ve had more wake-up calls than that, and still didn’t get the message.  I’m a lot older now, and a little bit wiser; I’m learning.
For You Today
Everyone has bad stuff that comes our way.  For me it was bees, knees (several times), and VC’s.  For you…well, you know those, don’t you? 
Have you learned, like I’m beginning to learn…that God wants your attention…one way, or another?  It’s true…wake-up calls are a gift; don’t waste them.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day. 

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[1] Title Image:  Courtesy of Pixabay.com

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Elderly People

 
Wednesday, June 7, 2017
I will be your God throughout your lifetime—until your hair is white with age.
I made you, and I will care for you.  I will carry you along and save you.      
Isaiah 46:4(NLT)
Certainly God knew Isaiah would need to be “carried along” when his hair was white with age.  Even a prophet’s mind can wander when you have many decades of memories swirling around in your noggin.
I met both of the young ladies in the picture in school.  Most of you know the one on the right; we met in high school and married 50 years ago; more from her in a minute.
I also met the lady on the left in school…it was in kindergarten!  Patty O’Connor Thomas and her husband Mike grew up in the same neighborhood where I lived, so we went to school in the same classrooms, played in the same places, and walked to the same platform at graduation.  Pat and Mike are also United Methodists and spend a good bit of time each year on mission trips.  We grew up together, but they live in upstate New York and we only keep in touch by Facebook.  Mike can’t resist taking a picture, and Pat thought the sign in Derry, North Ireland was hilarious.  Hmm; it probably would’ve been hilarious before my hair turned like Isaiah’s!
Back to the other young lady; Elizabeth (also a friend of mine on Facebook…and a pretty good cook and soulmate) shared our date experience from last week (yes, when you’re of a certain age and can identify with Pat’s sign, anytime you leave the house together it’s officially a date, even if you’re going to the store to pick up milk and toilet paper!).  Well, here’s how our date went; I’ll let Elizabeth tell it from her Facebook page:
Never a dull moment!  I had a hair appointment today with my hairdresser John ­ a GREAT stylist by the way.  When John took the cape off from around my neck he said, “hum, Cato puts their labels on the outside”, then a moment went by and he said, “huh you seams are on the outside too”, then after another moment he said, “hey your blouse is on backwards”.  We both started to laugh so loud I’m sure the rest of the salon heard us.  I told Rus who was waiting for me outside and he had a good laugh.  After leaving the salon we went to the mall and I was in the restroom having a conversation with someone who was from Queens, NY.  When I said bye and was leaving she grabbed my arm and leaned over and whispered in my ear, “your blouse is on backwards”.  When I told Rus he said he was in the men’s department at Dillards and a man in a turban called him over and pulled something off the back of his shirt and showed it to him.  It was a new shirt and the tag was still hanging on it.  We’ll be 70 this year and so far I think 70 years old is a dangerous age!!!
It’s common to ask those who have lived a long time how they got there.  Some could make the case for Pat and Mike or Elizabeth and Russell that we all drank the same water.  After all, the Native American name of the little village we come from is Hauppauge, and it means “sweet water”. 
But whatever region of the world, or whatever water you’re drinking, there is one formula for a long marriage and, among the ingredients for a successful marriage are:  sharing joyful time together, learning to forgive, paying attention, laughing, and learning to love by staying close to the Father.  And, when you reach a certain age, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to check each other’s clothing for tags and seams when you go out together! J

For You Today

Isaiah had the roughest days of his life ahead of him when the Lord spoke words of assurance that God would be with him and carry him along even when he was old and weak.  Whether you’ve got someone to check your seams and tags and laugh with you, or not…He is always figuring out ways to have your back.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road…have a blessed day!

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