Monday, May 31, 2021

Surprised by Kindness

 

Monday, May 31, 2021

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.  Romans 12:10

Elizabeth and I were on a mission several years ago.  We were hunting-down a larger cooler for grocery shopping.  The store we favor is a 30 minute drive and, when the thermometer tops 90°, it’s not good to have your veggies and frozen fish melting in the trunk.  Our pitiful little cooler was hardly big enough to hold a dozen eggs and head of lettuce.  This was a must-accomplish task!

One of the chief characteristics of people who laser-focus on a task ahead is how they’re so surprised when they discover the task has already been accomplished.  That’s me; guilty as charged! 

Here’s how it happened:

On roughly the 189th store we entered that day (I’m normally good for 2) we found what we’d found 188 times before…not a cooler that came close to what we wanted.  On the way out we saw it; a lady had the best cooler ever in the check-out line.  Elizabeth walked up to her and asked where they kept those prized little gems.  I couldn’t hear, but I saw the lady shake her head “no”.  They talked a few moments (while I figited, figuring this meant we would head for store #190 shortly).  Then, the lady picked up the cooler and handed it to Elizabeth.

YES!  189 stores and no more!  I was about to pick up my bride and twirl her in that romantic dance move all around the check-out area; we had prevailed, accomplished the mission.  That’s when Elizabeth unveiled the surprise.  The lady was about to purchase the last cooler in the store; it was on sale, for a ridiculously-low price, and had released the coveted trophy into our keeping with these words:  here – you take it.  I already have one, and you need it.

I was shocked to a standstill.  I felt like Moses; I wanted to take off my shoes and stay at this holy ground burning bush forever.  Where, o where, was that kind of kindness found anymore?  I wanted to run after that woman and sit at her feet like the disciples on the Mount of Transfiguration.  This was a miracle.

Now, that sounds like a good cue for the swell of heartwarming music at the ending of a Hallmark movie – but it’s just the beginning. 

Since that day, whenever it’s grocery store day, as I’m loading ice or groceries in the cooler, or wheeling the little igloo into the house for unloading, or cleaning it out afterward, I think of that woman’s kindness.  Truth be told, I cannot remember what she looked like or the sound of her voice, but the kindness, simply setting her own wishes aside so she could bless a couple of strangers….well that speaks so loudly to my soul I can never get the image out of my heart!

For You Today

As a pastor I’ve heard from many believers, followers of Jesus Christ, that they don’t know how to be a witness for Jesus; it’s a daunting task that requires too much risk or personal theological expertise.  It’s just above my pay-grade, pastor!

Well, can you let go of your hold on the cooler?  Can you let someone go ahead of you in the line?  Can you smile at the poor woman behind the counter at the Vehicle Tag office?  If you will give that a whirl, when it comes to being a disciple, a witness for Jesus, you’ll find you’ve got a lot more game than you thought! 

Go ahead – BE the Surprise!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!   


[1] Title Image: Pixabay.com   Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©

Friday, May 28, 2021

Barnabas

 

Friday, May 28, 2021

Meanwhile, the believers who had been scattered during the persecution after Stephen’s death traveled as far as Phoenicia, Cyprus, and Antioch of Syria.  They preached the word of God, but only to Jews.  However, some of the believers who went to Antioch from Cyprus and Cyrene began preaching to the Gentiles about the Lord Jesus.  The power of the Lord was with them, and a large number of these Gentiles believed and turned to the Lord.  When the church at Jerusalem heard what had happened, they sent Barnabas to Antioch.  When he arrived and saw this evidence of God’s blessing, he was filled with joy, and he encouraged the believers to stay true to the Lord.  Barnabas was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and strong in faith.  And many people were brought to the Lord.  Then Barnabas went on to Tarsus to look for Saul.  When he found him, he brought him back to Antioch.  Both of them stayed there with the church for a full year, teaching large crowds of people.  (It was at Antioch that the believers were first called Christians.)   Acts 11:19-26

Barnabas is one of the Bible’s lovely characters.  His name means son of encouragment[1].  The entire ministry of this friend and fellow-laborer of Apostle Paul was spent as an encourager, from Gentiles who had no idea what the Messiah’s birth, life, death, and resurrection meant, to bearing the burden of bolstering the courage of John Mark, a failed coward, who just needed a second chance.  That piece of encouragment cost Barnabas dearly, having to separate from his other friend, Paul, who wanted nothing to do with Mark.  Barnabas’ unselfish loyalty to being Mark’s supporter resulted in Mark being around long enough to  write the second Gospel.  Some things are worth the fight!

As I look back over my life and serving Jesus, if I regret anything, it’s that I couldn’t have been more like Barnabas.  If ever there was a gift sorely needed (especially in this cuturally-polarized culture) it is encouragement. 

I’ve had plenty of encouraging friends over the years, people who were like Barnabas to me.  My chief encourager has always been Elizabeth.  My bride has always seen me at my best and worst; she still believes in me.  (Makes me know for a fact that miracles are possible).  Dr. Don McCutcheon is a friend of 30 years, and has encouraged me more than I deserved.  There have been so many!

I recently discovered another Barnabas.  He’s just turned 10, but this next-door neighbor’s son seems to have gotten a full measure of how to think of doing for others.  



We came home the other day and found a rock on our front porch.  It was a work of art – the art of spreading God’s love and thoughtfulness.  It was also a day I needed an encouraging moment.  Some time ago I found out from my little encourager’s Dad that “G” prays for me – regularly.  When I was 10 my prayers were that Santa would remember to bring me what I wanted on Christmas.  This child is light-years ahead in spiritual development.  And I blame the parents.  These neighbors take seriously their responsibility to train a child to trust God and serve others.  Their lives show that!

Barnabas, son of encouragement; we all need one in our life…and a whole army couldn’t hurt!  Even more, we all need to BE ONE in someone else’s life.

For You Today

Have you ever wondered what it is that God had in mind when He put you here on earth?  Well, whatever else it was, you can be a Barnabas while you’re waiting.  Everyone needs some of that in their life, and you just might meet someone today who needs a “God Loves You rock” on his front porch.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!   


[1] Title Image: Pixabay.com   Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©