Showing posts with label Friendliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friendliness. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 1, 2021

Digging Deeper to Find Compassion

 

Wednesday, September 1, 2021

The Lord is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him.  Psalm 103:13

Some years ago I served as pastor at a church in Florida’s Gator city, Gainesville.  The city-wide pastime there is finding a street without a traffic jam.  I used to take a shortcut down one of the side streets every day on the way to the church because it was usually never crowded.  There were a number of very beautiful homes on this street. 

Driving down that road one day, I noticed a large hole had been dug in the middle of a front yard.  It was curious.  The next day the hole was twice the size.  I wondered.  On the third day the hole was humongous, covering nearly half the yard!  I almost stopped to check it out, but resolved if there was time tomorrow I would stop and ask the owner what was going on. 

On day 4, there was a hastily made sign near the hole, a half-sheet of plywood, propped up with a two-by-four, facing the street for all the curious drivers of cars to see.  Three words were painted in angry red:  It's a Pond!

We don't live in a friendly world.  For the most part people hang their signs out that say, Leave me alone – Don't stop – Don't ask – Don't bother me!   That's not the way they really feel.  It's a conditioned response to growing up in a scary world.  It's like when people whistle in the dark; the louder you whistle the more frightened you may be on the inside. 

People are afraid to trust.  There are so many voices, it’s scary to trust.  But the Father has called us to fellowship.  He's called us to be trustworthy, and vulnerable, and open, so the signmakers of this world will see that we were meant to love each other.  And the signmakers of this world really do want you to stop and ask; they've just been taught to be afraid. 

For You Today

There are hurting people with their little signs posted all over.  Will you ignore those signs and stop anyway?  Will you go to those without hope?  Will you hear their pain?  Will you share the peace of Jesus you've found? 

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!   

[1] Title and Other Images:  Pixabay.com  Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©    





 

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Conversations With Peter - Part SIX: Warm Friendliness

Friday, July 4, 2014
So don’t lose a minute in building on what you’ve been given, complementing your basic faith with good character, spiritual understanding, alert discipline, passionate patience, reverent wonder, warm friendliness, and generous love, each dimension fitting into and developing the others.  With these qualities active and growing in your lives, no grass will grow under your feet, no day will pass without its reward as you mature in your experience of our Master Jesus.  Without these qualities you can’t see what’s right before you, oblivious that your old sinful life has been wiped off the books.   2 Peter 1:5 - 9 (TMSG)
So far the teaching of Peter has touched on the “inward” disciplines of developing character, spiritual understanding, patience and a worshipful spirit.  These are like seeds planted and developing beneath the soil.  Now the tender vine peeks above ground level and begins to show the kind of fruit which will benefit others…brotherly affection(NLT).
There is a great lesson to be gleaned here, namely – what you offer your fellow Christian will be no greater than what you’ve first offered to God
Remember, Peter urges us to build on our basic faith, to complement it with the inner strength of the fruit of the Spirit.  As we grow strong in understanding, patience, worship and strength of godly character, we become better equipped to do the more mature work of strengthening other believers.
I’ve got this unruly patch of uneven land that seems to dare me to grow grass.  I’ve tried it all; I’ve paid others to give it their best shot.  Most of my lawn looks like the bald spot I’m cultivating on the back of my head!
I’m no grass expert, but I’ve read and talked with those who claim to be, and there’s one so-called “rule” that keeps coming up in the discussion – the best solution to a healthy lawn is growing grass!
Wow, Russell – that’s really deep!
Seriously; the “experts” say that choking-out weeds is best done by having healthy grass.  When grass is healthy it grows thicker, stronger and more powerfully than weeds.  Strength builds strength!
Now, you didn’t open this file to read about my grass woes – but it helps me make the point here today – grass grows in clumps; some varieties have runners, but all kinds are dependent on the community of grass for health. 
It’s like that with God’s children and brotherly (warm) friendliness.  Adding to our basic faith all the personal, inward disciplines Peter’s been charging us to develop is like growing the clump of our Christian grass…getting stronger, greener, more like God intended. 
But now, Peter says, let’s take this corporation public; let’s be part of the community with warmth towards our Christian family; let’s work together hand-in-hand to help choke-out the weeds that inhibit your sister’s growth and your brother’s ministry.
It’s time for the well-developed seed of faith to sprout and offer fruit.  And, as with the kind of grass lawn (of which I can only dream), the strength I’ve developed with all those inner qualities of character, worship, patience and wisdom, is now offered, and belongs to my Christian family. 
For You, Today
If you’re something of an introvert (like me), as a grass, you tend to grow in a “private clump”.  So this will hurt.
It’s time to focus a little less on what’s happening underneath the ground with all that good character, worshipful spirit, patience and wisdom.  It’s time to put all that inward growth in motion to the outside - with warm friendliness, brotherly affection – care and concern for your Christian family.
How? 
Don’t worry too much about that…just be ready to start with the first person you greet today.