Showing posts with label Retaliation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Retaliation. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 10, 2021

The Hatred Prison

 

Wednesday, March 10, 2021

For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you.  He is your example, and you must follow in his steps.  He never sinned, nor ever deceived anyone.  He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered.  He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly.  1 Peter 2:21-23

This may be one of the easiest passages to understand in all of Scripture.  It is, arguably, also one of the most difficult to incorporate into our thoughts.  It is even harder to practice.  When you’ve been wronged, the human response is to, at least, defend…and, more likely, hit back!   Our recently retired president was hailed as the Counter-Puncher-in-Chief; he proudly lived-up to the reputation.  If he sensed a criticism from you, the response would be lethal.

The problem with revenge is the jail time to which it is connected.  Certainly, the kind of revenge that involves committing felonies might require time behind iron bars.  However, the jail time that is most damaging to the human spirit, and the possibilities of genuine community Christ offers, and promises, won’t be incarceration time spent in Attica, Sing Sing, or San Quentin.  The prison of revenge remediation is found within; it is hatred which binds us more strongly, and with greater destruction to the soul, than any cellblock. 

In a previous post (The All-Inclusive Temple of God) I mentioned “cancel culture” which, considering some of the responses to that post, begs a deeper look.  This phenomenon of a power-shift in 21st century cultural norms is a belief system that holds previous norms are wrong and should be silenced, dismantled, and banned.  It is closely connected to the unique brand of reverse prejudice which creates a revenge cycle, which, in turn, leads to hatred prison just as dramatically as the souls of slave owners in Colonial America wound up confined there. 

Cancel culturalists will probably eat me alive for this thought train, but here goes.  The comparison I make is thus: 

·       In the annals of slavery and since the end of such bondage, the black person was viewed as “less”.  White supremacists, pushers of Arian dominance, claimed a superior position and held down their captives with a strong hand.  Hangover prejudices persist to this day

·       In the new norm of cancel culture, anyone (even remotely) connected to the wrong of the previous norm are immediately suspect (at mildest), or (at worst) held as culpable, first-degree racists.

So, just laying this argument on the low shelf, whites persecuted blacks, and now it is the black person’s time at bat.  Evidentiary of that is the hyper-radical anger that classifies any white person as racist, purely based on race.

I know…the irony screams so loud it’s impossible to laugh or cry…it’s just stunning, that it matters not what a black person said in 1830, he was black, and white America considered him part of nature’s mistake.  In 2021 the tsunami of “equality” overwhelms whatever remorse or compassion the white-skinned descendants of racists may have, and relegates them to racist by color. 

In proper perspective, most white people have never come close to the kind of personal, or group pain experienced by those who are black.  And there is nothing whites can do to atone for the sins of racism and oppression of the past, nor those who would hold on to it in the present, and promote it for the future.  Racism is indefensible and heinous.

But neither is there a commonsense argument for revenge’s retaliation.  Not only do two wrongs never make a right, the only genuine, workable commonsense argument is on the side of mental health.  The only healthy choice regarding racism is not fists in the air, anger, and getting even…it is forgiveness.  For those who care, it’s the only way to avoid spending time in The Hatred Prison.

For You Today

It’s time to join the Cancel Culture movement…let’s cancel racism from any perspective, and put the Hatred Prison behind bars.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!  

[1] Title Image:  Courtesy of Pixabay.com    Unless noted, Scripture quoted from The New Living Translation©

Monday, November 5, 2018

Revenge

Monday, November 5, 2018

Never pay back evil with more evil.  Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.  Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.  Dear friends, never take revenge.  Leave that to the righteous anger of God.  For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the Lord.  Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them.  If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.  In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.”  Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.  Romans 12:17-21(NLT)

There are so many illustrations of how we humans despise the idea that our enemies get away with anything.  A bombing, or jet crashing into twin towers requires a response.  A murder requires lethal injection.  A bop on the head during recess requires running to the teacher and demanding justice!  We are hard-wired, it seems, to default with eye-for-an-eye revenge!  The first thing a recruit is taught when learning to be a good soldier is that the enemy must die!
Doing good to your enemies makes no sense at all, does it?  Yet, that is exactly what the Apostle Paul is saying.  And the idea wasn’t his at all!  In fact, when Paul was still Saul, the Pharisee, breathing out threats against the church, righteous revenge was his stock-in-trade; he worked tirelessly to inflict religious vengeance on the blasphemous Christians[2].  But when Jesus caught up with Saul on the Road to Damascus, the Lord not only changed his name to Paul, this newly commissioned apostle had his mind changed as well.  Jesus taught him what he’d taught on the Olivet hillside:

“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy.  But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you!  Matthew 5:43-44(NLT)

Now, that sounds altruistic, and even heroic, to walk on the high side of revenge; forgiving instead of killing – but does it work in the real world?  Well, that depends upon in which world you prefer to live – this world’s system of grab all you can and dispose of anyone in your path who is an obstacle … or the Kingdom of God.  The two worlds are polar opposites, and you cannot live with one foot in the Kingdom, and the other in the world.  Trying that will make you a Thanksgiving turkey wishbone!  You’ll get pulled from both sides, and the split will be painful.
So, let’s entertain a slightly different view of meeting the needs of hungry, thirsty enemies; a view that makes sense.  It has to do with what the apostle said about heaping burning coals of shame on someone’s head.  At first hearing it sounds like you’re calling fire down from heaven on someone’s head…get that sucker, God; it’s a real revenge party! 
But the meaning couldn’t be more opposite.  In Eastern culture of two millennia ago, the fires were always burning.  It was much easier to keep a fire going than get a new one started.  Smoldering coals were used to transfer fire from one place to start up a new blaze at another location. 
If, by chance, or laziness, your fire went out during the night, requesting some coals from your neighbor was the first thought.  Doing the neighborly thing you’d put some fiery coals in a pot, and your neighbor would carry them home, balancing the pot atop their head. 
So, Paul’s imagery contains goodness with a barb.  Fiery coals are a good thing when your fire has gone out.  But these fiery coals of shame turn it upside down; given to an enemy, a good deed becomes their shame in counting on the kindness of one to whom they have shown no kindness.  That kind of response changes hearts from revengeful to kindly. 
And changed hearts changes lives, communities, and whole cultures.  It can change the world!
For You Today
Burning coals; it only takes a spark to get a fire going.
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day.

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[1] Title Image: Courtesy of Pixabay.com
[2] See Acts 8, 9 & 22

Thursday, August 25, 2016

No Counter-Punch

                                                                                                 Thursday, August 25, 2016
Finally, all of you should be of one mind.  Sympathize with each other.  Love each other as brothers and sisters.  Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude.   Don’t repay evil for evil.  Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you.  Instead, pay them back with a blessing.  That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing.  For the Scriptures say,
“If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies.  Turn away from evil and do good.  Search for peace, and work to maintain it.  The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers.  But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil.”   
1 Peter 3:8-12(NLT)  
I’ve never gotten much enjoyment out of watching a boxing match.  Now there’s a big surprise; I despise confrontation, and, frankly don’t have a thing for getting my lights punched out!  Some people enjoy the sport; I don’t.  I don’t judge those who do, but I would point out that professional boxing, as professional football, basketball, and just about every other professional industry is about blood, not sport.  And remembering the word professional, money is one of the roots of all that evil.

The fisherman-turned-apostle, Peter said Christians ought not to be counter-punchers, returning evil for evil.  Rather, we are to keep a humble attitude and even take it a step farther than the counter-punching of handing someone back their head…but repaying the evil some would do to you with the kindness of blessing.  Peter didn’t dream this up; his idea of conversation was to cut off someone’s ear (John 18:10).  Jesus had to set Peter straight; living by the counter-punch was to die by it as well.

So Peter learned to turn the other cheek, and he encourages us to do the same.  Keep your tongue in check from counter-punching those who annoy you, and keep your actions in the light of Jesus’ example.  He never returned evil for evil, but found a way to take the other person’s attempt at a knockout punch and turned it back on them as a blessing.

Not easy, right?

Who said it would be? 

Christianity is not the Kindergarten of human relationships.  Learning to live like Jesus means moving towards a Master’s degree of wisdom, higher purpose and incredible restraint.  The weapons are prayer, Word and a learned lifestyle of humility.

There’s your target…not finding the other person’s weak spot with your hostile counter-punch!

For You Today

There is a distance that is roughly the same as how far the East is from the West which separates evil from good.  The world will admire you if you are a scrappy, don’t-take-anything sort of counter-punching “winner”. 

But heaven approves the one who offers kindness in return.  That’s what Jesus did when He came to offer peace, joy and forgiveness…and we hung Him on a cross.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road…have a blessed day!

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[i] Title Image:  By Wayne Short [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons