Showing posts with label Sibling rivalry. Show all posts
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Tuesday, August 8, 2023

Faith Seasoned Wisdom

Tuesday, August 8, 2023

Then Jacob sent messengers ahead to his brother, Esau, who was living in the region of Seir in the land of Edom.  He told them, “Give this message to my master Esau: ‘Humble greetings from your servant Jacob.  Until now I have been living with Uncle Laban, and now I own cattle, donkeys, flocks of sheep and goats, and many servants, both men and women.  I have sent these messengers to inform my lord of my coming, hoping that you will be friendly to me.’”  After delivering the message, the messengers returned to Jacob and reported, “We met your brother, Esau, and he is already on his way to meet you—with an army of 400 men!”  Jacob was terrified at the news.  He divided his household, along with the flocks and herds and camels, into two groups.  He thought, “If Esau meets one group and attacks it, perhaps the other group can escape.”  Then Jacob prayed, “O God of my grandfather Abraham, and God of my father, Isaac—O Lord, you told me, ‘Return to your own land and to your relatives.’ And you promised me, ‘I will treat you kindly.’  I am not worthy of all the unfailing love and faithfulness you have shown to me, your servant.  When I left home and crossed the Jordan River, I owned nothing except a walking stick. Now my household fills two large camps!  O Lord, please rescue me from the hand of my brother, Esau.  I am afraid that he is coming to attack me, along with my wives and children.  But you promised me, ‘I will surely treat you kindly, and I will multiply your descendants until they become as numerous as the sands along the seashore—too many to count.’”  Genesis 32:3-12

To learn from your mistakes is the essential quality of wisdom.  To apply faith to wisdom is to serve God above all.  Jacob had a rocky, selfish start to life.  It started in his mother’s womb, when he and his twin brother, Esau, had a daily wrestling match.  As they were born, Esau was first out, but Jacob was hot on his heels, actually grabbing his brother’s foot.  It was sibling rivalry with the first breath.

The story of their lives in their father Isaac’s home was contentious, to say the least.  Jacob’s selfish behavior divided his mother and dad, and made an enemy of his twin brother.  Esau was so angry with his brother’s treacherous ways, Jacob had to leave home and go live with their uncle Laban at a safe distance.  Esau swore he’d kill his twin if ever they met again.

Fast forward twenty years…Jacob is much wiser, and is on his way home to reconcile with his family.  He has no clue as to Esau’s mindset…will his brother make good on his vengeance threat?  Will it end in calamity?  Jacob is wise at this point, dividing his wives and children into two camps, hoping to minimize losses of life and property, if Esau is still bent on Jacob’s death.  But a new dimension has foraged its’ way into Jacob’s life and thinking – faith!  The night before he was to face Esau, he met face-to-face with God’s angel, and the outcome was Jacob’s commitment to serve God, and live by faith, even if it meant giving up everything he'd gained, or even his own life. 

What Jacob had learned was what Jesus told Peter hundreds of years later – swords, be they steel or the treachery of human selfishness, may work for awhile, but they have little place in the heart of God.  It is faith that wins.[1] 

Seasoning the wisdom of learned mistakes and rocky roads, with faith God has given, is the mark of a life changed and usable in God’s Kingdom.  It took Jacob decades of hard lessons to shed his clever ways in favor of God’s clear kindness…the deep faith of the unashamed!

For You Today 

This world will afford you many opportunities to follow both Esau and Jacob’s early mistakes and sins…greed, treachery, revenge, and power.  In the end, those things only produce pain and regret, whether you wind up in jail, or residing in a mansion.  It’s all loss in Heaven’s record books.  The other, wiser choice is to season whatever you have learned with faith to do what the prophet Micah wrote:  do what is right, love mercy, walk humbly with your God.  Micah 6:8

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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Thursday, April 6, 2017

Crowning Achievements

Thursday, April 6, 2017
Then Samuel asked, “Are these all the sons you have?”  “There is still the youngest,” Jesse replied.  “But he’s out in the fields watching the sheep and goats.”  “Send for him at once,” Samuel said.  “We will not sit down to eat until he arrives.”  So Jesse sent for him.  He was dark and handsome, with beautiful eyes. And the Lord said, “This is the one; anoint him.”  So as David stood there among his brothers, Samuel took the flask of olive oil he had brought and anointed David with the oil.  And the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David from that day on.  Then Samuel returned to Ramah.  1 Samuel 16:11-13(NLT)
David, the youngest son of Jesse, stood before the prophet Samuel with all his brothers watching; his brothers who had been looked-at…and passed over…and watched as the prophet anointed David to be the next king of Israel.  The Bible doesn’t say so, specifically, but there had to be some hot-jealous blood flowing through the veins and arteries of Jesse’s sons that day.
We’ve just come through the season of college Marching thru the Madness in which UNC once again was crowned national champions.  There are more than a few basketball fans who identify with the passed-over sons of Jesse.
Every time UNC stages another level of dynasty-like mastery over the ranks of college basketball I think of my friend and teacher, Dr. Belton Joyner.  Dr. Joyner is a Wesleyan scholar, author and endowed with a wonderful sense of humor.  In 2010 I asked him to preach at our one day tent revival.  The first question he asked me was:  do they root for Duke or UNC?
Well, it wasn’t on our published mission statement, but this group assumed the Bible’s references to Jerusalem really meant Chapel Hill.  If you cut one of them you’d find the blood was Tarheel blue.  Dr. Joyner, a Duke Professor and humble servant of the Lord, came anyway.
At the appointed time to preach, Belton stood under the big tent, looked at the gathered crowd and began his sermon in true Joyner fashion.  He said: 
Not many people know this, but at one point far back in history, Duke and the boys over at Chapel Hill both wore those dark blue uniforms.  But the reason only Duke has kept the dark color is they’ve taken Chapel Hill to the cleaners so many times, theirs faded!
After the catcalls and boos subsided Dr. Joyner went on to preach a very fine sermon.  I’m relatively certain however, there were a few diehard UNC fans who do not remember a word of it!  I think it had something to do with loving your enemies.
Now the reason March Madness and David’s anointing go hand in hand is that we can learn from both that rivalry, both sibling and college basketball, can make us stronger or weaker, depending on what we do with it. 
David’s brothers were jealous and all they could do is snipe about their brother’s success.  The sons of Jacob were furiously jealous over their half-brother, Joseph.  They did more than snipe – they plotted his downfall and sold him into slavery.  That kind of rivalry led to heartache and much pain in the family.  The brothers of Jesus thought he was mad, and tried to get him to calm down and go home.
Admittedly I am not a college sports fan, so I have little stake in what team ends up at the top of the chart of 64 teams in March.  But I am a fan of Christian harmony in the family, be it your family, mine, a church, business, school or any other group.

For You Today

A question – can you rejoice with those who excel and not have your blood boil because it wasn’t you?
You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road…have a blessed day!
NOTES

 I Title image: By yusuke toyoda (originally posted to Flickr as UNC! Go Heels Go!), via Wikimedia Commons