Showing posts with label Control. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 4, 2023

Of Mules and Murphy's Law

Wednesday, January 4, 2023

The Lord observed the extent of human wickedness on the earth, and he saw that everything they thought or imagined was consistently and totally evil. Genesis 6:5

If you’re familiar with the adage known as Murphy’s Law and the epigram about leopards not changing their spots, you also will have little trouble understanding how God felt about humans back in Noah’s day.

Murphy’s Law simply states:  Anything that can go wrong…will go wrong.  Add the leopard epigrammatic twist, and it becomes:

Anything that can go wrong…will go wrong, again, and again, and again!

I have seen it firsthand!  About 30 years ago our church in Jacksonville, Florida, did an outdoor Christmas extravaganza, complete with stations around the buildings, representing Jerusalem and Bethlehem.  The pathway from the gates of the city (North Main Street in Jacksonville as Main Street Jerusalem), with tax collectors, Roman soldiers, Pharisees, women at the well, etc…eventually brought each visitor around to the back parking lot and the manger.  We had all the cast, Mary, Joseph, a two-month-old baby Jesus, plenty of sheep, a milk cow, and one very strong-willed mule.  The mule’s owner had a six-year-old son, in charge of keeping the animal off to one side of the manger while the preacher greeted the visiting public, and shared the story of Jesus’ birth.  That was the plan!  However, plans have a rather obnoxious habit of colliding with Murphy’s Law.  And, in this case, we became the story worthy of Clark Griswold’s Christmas Vacation.

The first couple of groups that came to the manger were textbook successes.  Then the mule started getting bored or anxious, wanting to take over my presentation of the Gospel.  It was hard for the crowd to hear the preacher for the braying.  (A member with a questionable sense of humor later told me it was hard to tell the difference between my preaching and the mule’s anyway).  The next time a group came through I cautioned the young boy holding the harness lead to keep the beast quiet.  About half-way through my presentation, the mule decided he’d had enough.  He strolled right between me and the crowd, dragging a six-year-old, holding onto the harness reigns, yelling at the top of his lungs:  stop it, stop it, you fool mule.  It was loud enough to be heard in South Georgia.  The worst part was the mule looking back and staring at me, face-to-face like Balaam’s donkey[1], with that look that said:  You were never in charge anyway, preacher. 

If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result, Murphy’s correlation of that would be:  If you think you’re in control, you will spend major portions of your life in therapy.

The people of Noah’s day thought they were in control…but that was before the barometer dropped, and the thunder clouds gathered. 

For You Today  

Not every plan you make will result in as much disaster as that one night in North Florida’s manger scene.  But even when it does, it may be appropriate.  There may have been some people there who just needed a good laugh, and a lighter load during a tough time.  It’s hard to figure-out why God put mules on the earth, until the moment they steal the show.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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Fear Factor - Part 1  and  When It Hurts So Much

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[1] Balaam and his Donkey Numbers 22

Thursday, November 10, 2022

The Flaw of Human Unity

Thursday, November 10, 2022

Don’t be so surprised!  Indeed, the time is coming when all the dead in their graves will hear the voice of God’s Son, and they will rise again.  Those who have done good will rise to experience eternal life, and those who have continued in evil will rise to experience judgment.  John 5:28-29

In this Gospel account, Jesus has just healed a man who had been unable to walk for thirty-eight years.  For nearly four decades people walking through this busy intersection had seen him lying there, powerless, fading into oblivion.  Now he could pick up the mat that had been his home, and walk like God created him.  Good story!  But, what does it have to do with human unity?  Well, it serves as the perfect illustration of the illusion of human unity.  We all want what the man got.  He was sick, disabled, and weak; Jesus made him strong and able.  Yup…you keep doing that, Jesus – that’s what we all want.  And it seems so.  And many preachers teach so.  But it isn’t necessarily so!

The strength all humans crave…to be more fit, more healthy, more wealthy and wise, comes at a price.  Often that price is the strength of others.  If there is one at the top of the heap, that means all the rest are below…and at least one at the bottom.  If you have a dollar more than I do in the bank, you have more, I less.

Today there is a huge push towards unity and equality in the human family, and that is not a bad idea, in fact it’s a grand, ethereal, Godly ideal.  But the humanistic view of unity has a crack that will eventually reveal how much crumbling is in the future for the house of cards upon which it stands.  That crack is the void of faith that still separates.  At some point (to be determined by the Father in Heaven) judgment will divide that crack, and all human activity and plans will cease.

Scripture tells us that if there is no faith, you cannot please the God who made you.[1]  Those who fling-about catchy slogans, like Together we’re stronger, or pump their fist in the air as a show of human strength and unity, yet leave God back in the closet of antiquities to be ignored, are living in the crack of the foundation; even worse, they’re hiding the crack, providing a false hope of some utopian myth, that, if we will all just agree, or be unified (on all my ideas, of course, not yours, thank you), well, in that case, everything will be just fine.

Decisions are a definite turning-point, where you go left, instead of right…north, instead of south.  And when it comes to eternity, and the God who is truly Lord of all, the Supreme author and sustainer of life and existance, that decision is vital to the most important question you can get answered:  What’s to become of me?  Jesus minced no words when he stated that in four short sentences:

“Everyone who acknowledges me publicly here on earth, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven.  But everyone who denies me here on earth, I will also deny before my Father in heaven.  “Don’t imagine that I came to bring peace to the earth!  I came not to bring peace, but a sword.  Matthew 10:32-34

For You Today  

Whenever you hear a plea for unity drop from someone’s mouth, it would be a good thing to remember that true unity can only be found where Christ is honored and obeyed.  Human strength builds a tower of Babel kind of monument to human strength.  Godly unity has the dew of Aaron’s beard[2] all over it, bringing a harmonious healing to the crack in human-shaped unity.

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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       Leaving God Behind   and   Circle of Life

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Friday, July 15, 2022

Nobody Wins

 

Friday, July 15, 2022

So Abram left Egypt and traveled north into the Negev, along with his wife and Lot and all that they owned.  (Abram was very rich in livestock, silver, and gold.)  From the Negev, they continued traveling by stages toward Bethel, and they pitched their tents between Bethel and Ai, where they had camped before.  This was the same place where Abram had built the altar, and there he worshiped the Lord again.  Lot, who was traveling with Abram, had also become very wealthy with flocks of sheep and goats, herds of cattle, and many tents.  But the land could not support both Abram and Lot with all their flocks and herds living so close together.  So disputes broke out between the herdsmen of Abram and Lot.  (At that time Canaanites and Perizzites were also living in the land.)  Finally Abram said to Lot, “Let’s not allow this conflict to come between us or our herdsmen.  After all, we are close relatives!  The whole countryside is open to you.  Take your choice of any section of the land you want, and we will separate.  If you want the land to the left, then I’ll take the land on the right.  If you prefer the land on the right, then I’ll go to the left.”  Genesis 13:1-9

I’m certain this text has found its way into many a sermon in the United Methodist Church over the years; more-so of late.  Sometimes it seems leaving the UMC is the only thing some folks care about.  With all the stubbornness of two mountain goats that meet on a narrow path, and refuse to yield an inch, head-butting is the political death knell to brotherhood.  This is not to say that conflict can’t have a positive effect; sometimes it is the necessary forerunner to resolution.

It was that way for Abram and Lot.  Their success was not a problem.  Rather, it was an evidence of God’s blessing.  In terms of the current stalemate of progressives vs. traditionalists in today’s UMC, Abram and Lot’s success is a valuable reminder of the God-given progress of the Wesleyan movement of old.   Failure to make adequate preparations for the expanded need both families would experience was the problem.  Even so, when the dispute began to get heated, it was critical that both sides have the Abram-mind of giving the other side a workable solution that honored brotherhood over things and power. 

That said, we must apply the principle to 2022 UMC doings….it is a very strange and sad thing when people, who say they serve God, can’t manage to offer God’s grace and kindness in the necessary parting of ways. 

It would be safe to say that I am firmly on the traditionalist side of the theological issues fueling this fire of discontent in the UMC.  But I have no desire to see judgment reign down on those in the other camp.  Nobody wins that kind of war.


Getting back to the mountain goats, I read an account told by one who knows goats well.  It seems a common occurrence in places like Switzrerland’s Alps that, when two goats, going in opposite directions meet on very narrow cliff paths, one will kneel, allowing the other to step over him.  In that way both can pursue their journey. 

For You Today

Call it kindness, or call it wisdom to refrain from destroying what is left of the United Methodist tribe.  If we cannot act at least as kindly as goats do with their brothers, what hope do we have of being any help to the rest of the world?

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!

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To dig deeper into today’s topic or Scripture text:  So What WOULD Jesus Do?  and Playing With Fire

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Wednesday, December 15, 2021

The Weight of Being in Control

 

Wednesday, December 15, 2021

“To what can I compare the people of this generation?” Jesus asked. “How can I describe them?  They are like children playing a game in the public square.  They complain to their friends, ‘We played wedding songs, and you didn’t dance, so we played funeral songs, and you didn’t weep.’  For John the Baptist didn’t spend his time eating bread or drinking wine, and you say, ‘He’s possessed by a demon.’  The Son of Man, on the other hand, feasts and drinks, and you say, ‘He’s a glutton and a drunkard, and a friend of tax collectors and other sinners!’  But wisdom is shown to be right by the lives of those who follow it.”  Luke 7:31-35

A crowd is impossible to please.  In a football stadium, whenever the referees throw one of those yellow flags in the air, they’ve judged that one or more of the players have done something outside the rules of the game.  And every time they make half of the people in the crowd happy, and the other half fighting mad!  It just depends on which side you want to win.  You cannot please a crowd.

Whether you’re in the crowd or on the field, the weight of being in control of things raises an elevated level of possibilities for good or evil.  Jesus had just gotten done teaching the crowd that John the Baptist’s ministry of proclaiming God’s salvation through repentance was right.  The crowd was pleased, but the Pharisees, lurking in the shadows, had other ideas.  They began sowing seeds for a crop of discontent among the people, and making plans to take Jesus down.

There’s a worn-out phrase that describes what the Pharisees wanted from Jesus:  You go-along to get-along.  They wanted this son of the carpenter to get in line with their brand of thinking and authority; they considered themselves the referees who were in control of what people could do or think.  They knew best!  And every time Jesus wouldn’t dance or cry to the tunes the Pharisees played, they kept score; the game was getting lopsided…so they decided to kill him.

For the Pharisees, being in control was everything.  Without their elaborate robes, sashes, artifacts, and rituals, they wouldn’t be noticeable.  And they wanted that fame, and the attention that went with it all.  This Jesus, a nobody carpenter’s son from a small town, was ruining everything.

The weight of control is tied to the weight of vested interest.  If change will cost you what you want to keep, the tendency (of selfishness) will be to resist.  The larger the personal stake, the more intense will be the level of resistance.  Fame, notoriety, fortune, and self-gratification are intoxicating – to say the least. 

It’s difficult to read this account of the shoving match the Pharisees created, trying to limit Jesus’ effect on the crowds; those people were the Pharisees’ home team, and this upstart country bumpkin was not going to take away what belonged to them.  The battle was joined at this point; and it would get as ugly as it needed to be for the control-mongers to keep it together their way.

For You Today

One benchmark of true Christian discipleship is the absence of control.  It’s known as the surrendered life.  You enter God’s salvation that way, surrendering control of your life by confessing your sins to God, placing your faith in Christ and His blood-sacrifice on your behalf, and God does the forgiving and saving.  Wanting to be in control of any of that negates your confession.

Confessing is admitting that you are not in control…God is!  And that is a weight that’s wonderful to get off your back!

You chew on that as you hit the Rocky Road; have a blessed day!  

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For another post on this text see The Original Radical

Sunday, October 14, 2018

It Is Well

“Don’t let your hearts be troubled.  Trust in God, and trust also in me.”  John 14:1(NLT)

Over the last few weeks I have watched (too) many hours of the Senate Judiciary Committee’s hearings on the confirmation of Supreme Court nominee (now Justice) Brett Kavanaugh.  The process has been steeped in the leveled accusations of Dr. Christine Blasey Ford claiming she was sexually-assaulted by Kavanaugh in high school.  Among the takeaways from all the accusations, counter-accusations, moving and shifting of alleged facts by assembled lawyers, politicians, judges, FBI secret investigations, and media pundits, is my severe and growing nausea.  What a mess!
Another takeaway is a sense of hopelessness; how can we move forward after this drama?  The anger rising up with all the “who’s in control” posturing of Republicans vs. Democrats, men vs. women, conservative vs. liberal, old vs. young, law vs. anarchy, racial bias, grass roots movement vs. entrenched establishment (a.k.a. the sewer), and others (ad nauseum) is too great to contain; angry attitudes spill into everyday life like the running of the bulls at Pamplona, a stampede that can only lead to destruction.
In the wider view, all this human drama and posturing means very little to God.  To God those things we consider monumental and critical to getting it right in the 21st century are like flies on a water buffalo’s back; they are as inconsequential as the solemn decision a 4-year-old makes as he sits in his sandbox and decides the real meaning of life is to resist potty training forevermore!
Another takeaway, a whole lot closer to eternal reality, is sadness for the participants, in particular Dr. Ford and Judge Kavanaugh.  The pathos of broken spirits, shattered family trust, and damaged eternal souls, as the resultant cost of these sandbox political machinations reminds me of how Job got into the mess he experienced. 
If you recall Job’s story, it was a sunny day in Uz as Job’s kids were planning to have a party under the outdoor pavilion.  In the space of just a few hours Job’s servants, livestock, and family were all ripped from Job’s upper-class life.  He had boils raise up to cover his entire body, and he was left with a harping wife who encouraged him to commit suicide.  To rub salt in these wounds, a committee from his community showed up to deliver the news that the town council had voted on the matter and decided it was all Job’s fault; he must have done something really evil to tick God off that much! 
And, like Job’s friends, we can only look at Dr. Ford and Justice Kavanaugh from the outside, not knowing who did what, when, why, or to whom!  But shall we judge?  Indeed, the whole world votes on it.  And their children and families are devastated.
To the point:  I don’t know if Bret Kavanaugh ought to sit in one of those nine chairs, or if Christine Blasey Ford is telling the truth; and neither do you.  But we can all sense the loss in this, no matter if you’re stuck on the right, calling the woman a liar, or stuck on the left, wanting to bypass a trial and hang the man.  Had Kavanaugh not been confirmed and sworn-in, there would have been another nominee in due time, and the left and right would still be hurling mud missiles at each other.
Each day we are becoming a creature of splendid glory or one of unthinkable horror.[2]
What is true for an individual is sometimes true of a culture.  This is one of those times. May God have mercy on our children if they are to follow our example.
I would suggest we all find a way to put the swords down and learn to plow together; that seems the only way to actually move into fruitful kingdom territory!
Horatio Spafford, the Chicago businessman whose children drowned in 1873 when the ship they were on sunk, has given us a hymn that tells us how to turn away from the fear Satan would place in our pathway when we see circumstances and the actions of other fearful people that disturb and separate us. 
Let’s sing our way through the theology of how to lay down the swords we’re tempted to pick up and trust the One who makes it well with our soul.
It Is Well – verse 1
When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.
This first stanza reminds us that God’s promises are true, no matter what the circumstances seem.  We are told that God never lies:

Even if everyone else is a liar, God is true.  Romans 3:4(NLT)

Over and over in Scripture we are taught to trust in God, to put down whatever swords of force we think we need, and have an all-encompassing faith in our Lord.  It’s not easy…we’re all control-freaks of a sort…but what choice do genuine believers have, we who have been commissioned by God to walk by faith, not sight? 2 Corinthians 5:7(NLT)
So, the first step in getting beyond the drama is to stop bringing weapons to school, work, or any other place; we need to be vulnerable as peace demands if we are to bring being well in our souls as a healing to our land.
It Is Well – verse 2
Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed his own blood for my soul.
The minute we get vulnerable Satan cranks up his pot-stirring to turn us anxious again.  But, while Satan things the trials he’s throwing in our path are walls to keep us from God, they are really (as Apostle James suggests in his letter1:2-3) the spurs that drive us to God in patient, trusting prayer.
And, the reason for this is because we’re aware of what the blood of Christ has done for us; Christ paid the penalty for our sin.  The Accuser cannot top that.

For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.  Romans 6:23(NLT)

Spafford’s hymn tells us we should let this blest assurance control.  Because we have been created as beings with free will, we are also, in our faith or our unbelief, decide where the control of our lives will be placed…with the world, or in God’s hands.
The Apostle Paul makes his case for us to put all that control in God’s hands:

And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you.  Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable.  This is truly the way to worship him.  Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.  Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.  Romans 12:1-2(NLT)

So, to be well in our souls, and bring healing wherever we are, we drop the weapons, and drop our free will into His hands, and thirdly we throw all we are into praising God from whom all blessings flow; we live a life of doxology for being forgiven:
It Is Well – verse 3
My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul.
My sin nailed to the cross/bear it no more

We know that our old sinful selves were crucified with Christ so that sin might lose its power in our lives. We are no longer slaves to sin. Romans 6:6(NLT)

The response of receiving such great forgiveness is to praise/thank Him from the soul.  Simply put, that means no half-hearted worship; worship becomes the air of our souls. While Elizabeth and I were on vacation last week, we attended a church in our neighborhood; it was World Communion Sunday.  A preteen girl, sitting right in front of us, had her iPad out, playing a game through the whole service while the world celebrated communion.  Not a whole lot of praise going on there…but I would say her parents, sitting right next to her might want to read again those vows about training up their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
When our children were young we were always living from paycheck to paycheck, uncertain, and mostly in debt.  Then some dear ones paid off one of the largest of our creditors; you tell me how we felt about that!! 
Now, magnify that feeling of gratitude a billion times over towards the forgiveness we receive because of the cross.
We lay down the weapons, lay down our willfulness, lift up our praise, and look to the skies:
It Is Well – verse 4
And, Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.
It is well -- with my soul  
It is well, it is well with my soul.
This is language of the second coming. 

For the Lord himself will come down from heaven with a commanding shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God.  First, the believers who have died will rise from their graves.  Then, together with them, we who are still alive and remain on the earth will be caught up in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air.  Then we will be with the Lord forever.  So encourage each other with these words.   1 Thessalonians 4:16-18(NLT)

The presence of Jesus will be our realization of all His promises, joy, and life…forever!
Satan causes strife, unbelief and fear; God is not the author of any of that.  So, whether it is political climates, social culture, taxes, barbaric government policies toward the unborn, blatant atheism of your next door neighbor or co-worker at your job, knowing it is well with your soul can change everything if you lay down the weapons and willfulness, lift up praise to the Father, and keep your eyes on that Eastern sky!
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; Let the church say “Amen”!


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[2] C.S. Lewis, “Mere Christianity” (1952), Source: Deseretnews